Re: Re: Question - how many people here have stood up dir...

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Go girl!!! I'm impressed!

I too am currently facing the care of nada and or fada. Fada has not made

arrangements for the care of nada in case something happens to him. (he has a

serious heart condition and he could " go " at any moment). He is playing the

martyr role. I have confronted him about having no arrangements made for

the future and point blank told him that I will not be able to drop my life and

care for her, nor will any other member of the family. I'm presently

researching " Granny Nannie " type things available.

I have not brought this up but once with fada. It's obvious he's not going

to do anything about it (nada has beginning stages of Alzheimers/dimensia) so

instead of getting upset with his stubborness, I'm protecting myself for the

inevitable.

You're doing a great job!! Good luck.

Laurie

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