Guest guest Posted December 9, 2008 Report Share Posted December 9, 2008 I've tried to go LC with nada for past 3 months or so and i am feeling very healthy about it. The thing is she doesnt really seem to notice. She calls and leaves sweet messages on my answering machine asking to speak to the kids. Right now i am not initiating any contact, just returning phone calls. These messsages make me so upset though. I dont know whether to keep returning them or not. I dont think i'm ready to break all contact. I dont want to deny her access to her grandkids and vice versa. I dont know how to get over the guilt of not talking to her. For a while I was so worried wondering what was I going to answer when she asked why I dont call anymore. Now I wonder why she doesnt notice. I'm sorry if I'm rambling but I'm confused and although therapy has gotten me to an excellent place, I feel like I'm standing on a cliff and I dont know whether to jump or not. Thanks for reading Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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