Can someone help me with wording

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I'll give a brief history. I've been NC for 2 (peaceful) months.

Nada goes into rages, tells lies to the family about me. I've gone

NC on and off for the past few years. About 3 years ago she called

me and told me she was comitting suicide because I wouldn't do what

she told me to do (which was impossible, had to do with my brother

and legal issues not involving me at all) then she took her pills so

I could hear her try to kill herself. I stopped talking to her,

disrag father called for months saying I could help her if I would

talk to her. I said she needed a therapist and wouldn't talk to her

until she saw one. She found one that told her it is perfectly

normal to try to commit suicide and blame your kids. Her therapist

repeadily tells her she is " normal "

She says cruel, hurtful things, has my whole life. She's done some

mind games with my kids, plays on their little minds. She's the type

that loves to hurt people and make them cry. I was the target for

years, now she is going for the kids since I've built a wall and she

hasn't made me cry in years (yay me, I'm getting somewhere)

Anyway....my son's birthday is coming and I KNOW she will blow

through that boundary which I have told them to stay away from us.

I'll tell you exactly what will happen here: She'll show up at the

door with a big gift in hand (how she gets the kids on her hook) and

my son, only 5 will be sobbing uncontrollably wanting to open the

door (if he doesn't do it before I get there and let the sick thing

into my home) He'll be screaming/crying wanting the gift and I'll be

the horrible mother trying to keep that thing (with her smirk on

because my kid is crying and lashing out on me and she knows she

caused it and has control) out of my home. My child's birthday will

be ruined. She'll likely leave the gift on the steps if I don't open

the door or allow him to. I refuse to accept it, refuse. He'll see it

and start bawling again, afterall, he is a kid. No more blood gifts.

None.

Same scenario for Christmas. We'lll be opening gifts with the

children, trying to have a peaceful Christmas and that sick thing

will be at my doorstep again. Another ruined holiday. She wouldn't

have it any other way.

She called my aunt the other day with that sick laugh of hers

saying " do you think she'll let me give the kids gifts? " Ha ha.

Translation: I don't give a chit what SHE wants, I do what I want, I

have no respect for others-I am showing up with gifts to try to lure

the kids into my sick little world.

So....I need to send them a letter to tell them to STAY AWAY from me

and my family. I am not good with words and do NOT want it to start

any sort of conversation/dialoge/argument whatsoever. I want it to be

to the point, saying don 't you have the audacity to show up here, we

don't want to see you and we won't accept your gifts in person or by

mail. We are done.

I'd really like a peaceful December and I would appreciate any advice

with wording anyone might have (I've seen a lot of you say/word

things so perfectly but for me the anger is taking over) for me to

send a concrete letter to them. Not mean/nasty, just to the point so

they leave me alone and we can celebrate with our children in peace.

Thanks in advance for your help.