Re: Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

[Guest guest]

, I think your post would have been better suited for the moderators on

the list, not the public. If something is not " fishy " , you just pushed them

away from healing that could have happened here. A shame...

Kenda

> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL

> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

> For example this post...

>

> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

> I do have scars

> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you.

>

> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,

> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this

> person...

>

> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up

> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of

> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't

> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to

> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't

> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

>

> Jen

>

> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)

> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT

> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this

> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

>

> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this

> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I

> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she

> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's

> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.

> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid

> and assistance?

>

> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like

> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not

> trust so quickly.

>

> ~~

[Guest guest]

Dear Kenda,

I'm sorry I didn't think about writing to the moderators. I forget

that lists generally have someone keeping an eye on process to prevent

real problems, such as the potential problem I spotted. Sometimes I

wonder about safety because this list seems _very_ open, and posting

goes back and forth and around and around and subjects and dates of

postings get all mixed up together, sometimes out of sync. It makes

it hard to keep up! I've been trying to keep up, so I will know what

is being discussed, but it takes a _lot_ of time! I just found out

and how I've been missing out on connections because I wasn't looking

at expanded messages.

I'm sorry I didn't think of posting to the moderators; I would do so

next time. However, I _totally_ disagree that I pushed anyone away

from " healing that could have happened here. A shame... " I guess

that is 'in your humble opinion' IYHO. Just what is it that you know

about this situation that I'm not aware of, if anything?

>

> , I think your post would have been better suited for the

moderators on

> the list, not the public. If something is not " fishy " , you just

pushed them

> away from healing that could have happened here. A shame...

>

> Kenda

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry if I did anything wrong...if this person saw pictures of you that didn't want he/she too......but if they just saw mine..I have no problem with it...I'm not ashamed of how I look and if that's the way someone gets their thrilled so be it. Also they emailed me and said they couldn't get it and I never answered.

[Guest guest]

I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven otherwise. I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

Patty

Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!For example this post... go to shutterfly and the password is implants....I do have scarsthough...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M., correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this person...Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't have much fight left in me. Thanks for your

help.JenI believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal) and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all. Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid and assistance?Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not trust so

quickly.~~

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,

Our pictures are available for anyone who wants to look at them. The password is not secret. It's posted right on the website home page.

Patty

Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!For example this post... go to shutterfly and the password is implants....I do have scarsthough...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M., correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this person...Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't have much fight left in me. Thanks for your

help.JenI believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal) and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all. Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid and assistance?Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not trust so

quickly.~~

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,

I don't know anything about " this situation " at all, other than a woman

wrote to the list asking for help. I don't make assumptions about posts not

being legitimate, I leave these decisions to the moderators, whose job it is

to watch over the posts.

All women who come here have the right to be helped, unless a moderator

tells us not to -- isn't that why we are here? Accusing someone unjustly of

being suspicious will undoubtedly make them feel unwanted or worse, send

them away without help they need.

Of course this is my opinion, as that is all I can offer.

Kenda

> Dear Kenda,

> I'm sorry I didn't think about writing to the moderators. I forget

> that lists generally have someone keeping an eye on process to prevent

> real problems, such as the potential problem I spotted. Sometimes I

> wonder about safety because this list seems _very_ open, and posting

> goes back and forth and around and around and subjects and dates of

> postings get all mixed up together, sometimes out of sync. It makes

> it hard to keep up! I've been trying to keep up, so I will know what

> is being discussed, but it takes a _lot_ of time! I just found out

> and how I've been missing out on connections because I wasn't looking

> at expanded messages.

> I'm sorry I didn't think of posting to the moderators; I would do so

> next time. However, I _totally_ disagree that I pushed anyone away

> from " healing that could have happened here. A shame... " I guess

> that is 'in your humble opinion' IYHO. Just what is it that you know

> about this situation that I'm not aware of, if anything?

>

>

>

>>

>> , I think your post would have been better suited for the

> moderators on

>> the list, not the public. If something is not " fishy " , you just

> pushed them

>> away from healing that could have happened here. A shame...

>>

>> Kenda

>

>

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before reading

your post to push past it.

Kenda

> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

>

> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven otherwise.

> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the

> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

> Patty

>

>

> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>

> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL

> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

> For example this post...

>

> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

> I do have scars

> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you.

>

> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,

> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this

> person...

>

> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up

> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of

> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't

> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to

> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't

> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

>

> Jen

>

> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)

> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT

> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this

> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

>

> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this

> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I

> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she

> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's

> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.

> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid

> and assistance?

>

> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like

> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not

> trust so quickly.

>

> ~~

>

>

>

>

>

> ______________________________________________________________________________

> ______

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It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just want to avoid that dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right away!

I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's so inspiring, so touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this hope...that there is more to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful things in life to look forward to, experience and share!

My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home with my youngest son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up some Christmas memories!

Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

Patty

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I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before readingyour post to push past it.Kenda

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That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed in. I love the

snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake some memories

with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas tree today, it

feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas trees decorating

the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the main tree comes

in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

Kenda

> It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just want to avoid that

> dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right away!

>

> I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's so inspiring, so

> touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this hope...that there is more

> to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful things in life to

> look forward to, experience and share!

>

> My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home with my youngest

> son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up some Christmas

> memories!

>

> Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

> Patty

>

>

> Re: Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>

> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before reading

> your post to push past it.

>

> Kenda

[Guest guest]

You are snowed in too? we were yesterday - it's so fun. I wanted

so much to go out and play in it, but that wouldn't have been

advisable to make snow angels after explant. I think one is never to

old to play in snow.

--- In , Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...>

wrote:

>

> That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed in. I

love the

> snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake

some memories

> with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas tree

today, it

> feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas trees

decorating

> the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the main

tree comes

> in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

>

> Kenda

>

>

>

> > It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just want

to avoid that

> > dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right away!

> >

> > I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's so

inspiring, so

> > touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this hope...that

there is more

> > to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful things

in life to

> > look forward to, experience and share!

> >

> > My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home

with my youngest

> > son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up

some Christmas

> > memories!

> >

> > Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

> > Patty

> >

> >

> > Re: Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

> >

> > I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before

reading

> > your post to push past it.

> >

> > Kenda

>

[Guest guest]

We got 12.5 inches! Normally we get an inch here and there but this is a

record. The kids have been out of school both Thursday and Friday as a

result and if it doesn't warm up tomorrow, I can't imagine them having

school Monday either. My husband took the Suburban to work today so I was

stranded at home. I drove my Audi yesterday and it handled great but I

really don't want to chance someone hitting me. How much snow did you get?

Kenda

> You are snowed in too? we were yesterday - it's so fun. I wanted

> so much to go out and play in it, but that wouldn't have been

> advisable to make snow angels after explant. I think one is never to

> old to play in snow.

>

>

>>

>> That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed in. I

> love the

>> snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake

> some memories

>> with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas tree

> today, it

>> feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas trees

> decorating

>> the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the main

> tree comes

>> in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

>>

>> Kenda

>>

>>

>>

>>> It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just want

> to avoid that

>>> dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right away!

>>>

>>> I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's so

> inspiring, so

>>> touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this hope...that

> there is more

>>> to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful things

> in life to

>>> look forward to, experience and share!

>>>

>>> My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home

> with my youngest

>>> son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up

> some Christmas

>>> memories!

>>>

>>> Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

>>> Patty

>>>

>>>

>>> Re: Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>>>

>>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before

> reading

>>> your post to push past it.

>>>

>>> Kenda

>>

>

>

[Guest guest]

First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced, but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know who I am

go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site. I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal. I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare you...you should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your

time. JENNIFER Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote: I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before readingyour post to push past it.Kenda> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....> > I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven otherwise.> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the

least.> Patty> > > Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the

problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals?

'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > > __________________________________________________________> ______> Music Unlimited> Access over 1 million songs.> http://music./unlimited __________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

,

I am sorry you were offended by 's email. Please remember, it was one

person who questioned the validity of your email, not an entire group of

people. You came to the right place for hope and guidance with your implant

illness and explant experience. There are many, many women here who are

helpful and knowledable and who will help you, if you let them.

Kenda

> First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to

> use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it

> as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because

> of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I

> asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to

> death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced,

> but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to

> be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see

> them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was

> under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just

> wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if

> you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know

> who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There

> is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was

> reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope

> and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that

> you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know

> them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some

> very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to

> your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site.

> I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and

> the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal.

> I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare you...you

> should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your time.

>

> JENNIFER

>

> Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote:

> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before

> reading

> your post to push past it.

>

> Kenda

>

>> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

>>

>> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven

>> otherwise.

>> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the

>> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

>> Patty

>>

>>

>> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>>

>> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL

>> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

>> For example this post...

>>

>> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

>> I do have scars

>> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you.

>>

>> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,

>> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this

>> person...

>>

>> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up

>> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of

>> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't

>> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to

>> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

>> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't

>> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

>>

>> Jen

>>

>> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)

>> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT

>> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this

>> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

>>

>> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this

>> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I

>> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she

>> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's

>> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.

>> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid

>> and assistance?

>>

>> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like

>> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not

>> trust so quickly.

>>

>> ~~

>>

>>

>>

>>

>>

>> __________________________________________________________

>> ______

>> Music Unlimited

>> Access over 1 million songs.

>> http://music./unlimited

>

>

>

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Thanks Kenda...I appreciate your words. I'm not sure what to say at this point. I was just looking for some encouragement and some good explant doctors. mentioned how happy she was and I was looking for a little hope. I think that it's very sad that other people have to assume the worst. If someone was a predator, there are a million other places he could go. I don't think the saline support group would be on the top or their list. It's very sad that people have to judge and assume before they even give you a chance. Thanks again. Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote: ,I am sorry you were offended by 's email. Please remember, it was oneperson who questioned the validity of your email, not an entire group ofpeople. You came to the right place for hope and guidance with your implantillness and explant experience. There are many, many women here who arehelpful and knowledable and who will help you, if you let them.Kenda> First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to> use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it> as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because> of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I> asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or

something. I am scared to> death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced,> but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to> be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see> them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was> under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just> wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if> you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know> who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There> is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was> reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope> and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that> you can't even give someone the

benefit of the doubt or try to get to know> them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some> very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to> your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site.> I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and> the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal.> I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare you...you> should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your time.> > JENNIFER> > Kenda Skaggs <skaggscountycable> wrote:> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before> reading> your post to push past it.> > Kenda> >> I'd really like to just push past this one,

please....>> >> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven>> otherwise.>> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the>> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.>> Patty>> >> >> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...>> >> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL>> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!>> For example this post...>> >> go to shutterfly and the password is

implants....>> I do have scars>> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. >> >> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,>> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this>> person...>> >> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up>> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of>> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't>> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to>> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my>> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't>> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.>> >> Jen>> >> I believe this person wanted access to

pics on shutterfly (primary goal)>> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT>> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this>> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.>> >> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this>> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I>> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she>> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's>> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.>> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid>> and assistance?>> >> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like>> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not>> trust

so quickly.>> >> ~~>> >> >> >> >> >> __________________________________________________________>> ______>> Music Unlimited>> Access over 1 million songs.>> http://music./unlimited> > > > > > __________________________________________________>

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You are quite welcome, . The world is a scary place for some

people. There are predators out there but we can't hide from them at every

turn, otherwise we miss the people who need help. You are right, I doubt

this list and its photos would be the place for a predator, it's hardly

exciting enough.

I hope you stick around and get the warmth and help you are searching for.

It is here.

Kenda

> Thanks Kenda...I appreciate your words. I'm not sure what to say at this

> point. I was just looking for some encouragement and some good explant

> doctors. mentioned how happy she was and I was looking for a little

> hope. I think that it's very sad that other people have to assume the worst.

> If someone was a predator, there are a million other places he could go. I

> don't think the saline support group would be on the top or their list. It's

> very sad that people have to judge and assume before they even give you a

> chance. Thanks again.

>

>

>

> Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote:

> ,

>

> I am sorry you were offended by 's email. Please remember, it was one

> person who questioned the validity of your email, not an entire group of

> people. You came to the right place for hope and guidance with your implant

> illness and explant experience. There are many, many women here who are

> helpful and knowledable and who will help you, if you let them.

>

> Kenda

>

>> First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to

>> use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it

>> as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because

>> of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I

>> asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to

>> death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced,

>> but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to

>> be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see

>> them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was

>> under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just

>> wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if

>> you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know

>> who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There

>> is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was

>> reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope

>> and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that

>> you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know

>> them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some

>> very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to

>> your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site.

>> I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and

>> the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal.

>> I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare

>> you...you

>> should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your time.

>>

>> JENNIFER

>>

>> Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote:

>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before

>> reading

>> your post to push past it.

>>

>> Kenda

>>

>>> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

>>>

>>> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven

>>> otherwise.

>>> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the

>>> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

>>> Patty

>>>

>>>

>>> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>>>

>>> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL

>>> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

>>> For example this post...

>>>

>>> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

>>> I do have scars

>>> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you.

>>>

>>> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,

>>> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this

>>> person...

>>>

>>> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up

>>> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of

>>> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't

>>> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to

>>> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

>>> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't

>>> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

>>>

>>> Jen

>>>

>>> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)

>>> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT

>>> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this

>>> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

>>>

>>> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this

>>> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I

>>> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she

>>> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's

>>> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.

>>> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid

>>> and assistance?

>>>

>>> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like

>>> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not

>>> trust so quickly.

>>>

>>> ~~

>>>

>>>

>>>

>>>

>>>

>>> __________________________________________________________

>>> ______

>>> Music Unlimited

>>> Access over 1 million songs.

>>> http://music./unlimited

>>

>>

>>

>>

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Plows don't even come down our street. We just push through the driveway

with the Suburban! My husband and I went to dinner last night, driving

wasn't any fun at all. The Beast did fine on the roads but not everyone

else was driving one.

Kenda

> We got 12 inches too! You dig out the driveway (well, not me, I had

> a great excuse for not shoveling!) and then the plows come and seal

> in your driveway again.

>

>

>>>>

>>>> That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed in. I

>>> love the

>>>> snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake

>>> some memories

>>>> with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas tree

>>> today, it

>>>> feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas trees

>>> decorating

>>>> the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the main

>>> tree comes

>>>> in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

>>>>

>>>> Kenda

>>>>

>>>>

>>>>

>>>>> It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just want

>>> to avoid that

>>>>> dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right

> away!

>>>>>

>>>>> I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's

> so

>>> inspiring, so

>>>>> touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this hope...that

>>> there is more

>>>>> to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful

> things

>>> in life to

>>>>> look forward to, experience and share!

>>>>>

>>>>> My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home

>>> with my youngest

>>>>> son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up

>>> some Christmas

>>>>> memories!

>>>>>

>>>>> Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

>>>>> Patty

>>>>>

>>>>>

>>>>> Re: Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

>>>>>

>>>>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post

> before

>>> reading

>>>>> your post to push past it.

>>>>>

>>>>> Kenda

>>>>

>>>

>>>

>>

>

>

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I'm glad you have your Tank to get thru all that! We went out

yesterday and some of the roads were covered in thick ice where

there were drifts.

> >>>>

> >>>> That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed

in. I

> >>> love the

> >>>> snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake

> >>> some memories

> >>>> with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas

tree

> >>> today, it

> >>>> feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas

trees

> >>> decorating

> >>>> the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the

main

> >>> tree comes

> >>>> in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

> >>>>

> >>>> Kenda

> >>>>

> >>>>

> >>>>

> >>>>> It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just

want

> >>> to avoid that

> >>>>> dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right

> > away!

> >>>>>

> >>>>> I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right now....it's

> > so

> >>> inspiring, so

> >>>>> touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this

hope...that

> >>> there is more

> >>>>> to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful

> > things

> >>> in life to

> >>>>> look forward to, experience and share!

> >>>>>

> >>>>> My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home

> >>> with my youngest

> >>>>> son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up

> >>> some Christmas

> >>>>> memories!

> >>>>>

> >>>>> Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

> >>>>> Patty

> >>>>>

> >>>>>

> >>>>> Re: Reviewed ALL of recent

postings...

> >>>>>

> >>>>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post

> > before

> >>> reading

> >>>>> your post to push past it.

> >>>>>

> >>>>> Kenda

> >>>>

> >>>

> >>>

> >>

> >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

,

Kenda is right, I never questionied for a minute your authenticity,

not once, I know you need help please don't leave. I want to help

you if I can,

Aloha,

Terri P

> > I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's

post before

> > reading

> > your post to push past it.

> >

> > Kenda

> >

> >> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

> >>

> >> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until

proven

> >> otherwise.

> >> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are

wrong, the

> >> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

> >> Patty

> >>

> >>

> >> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

> >>

> >> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really

read ALL

> >> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

> >> For example this post...

> >>

> >> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

> >> I do have scars

> >> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to

you.

> >>

> >> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at

9:34 P.M.,

> >> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately

from this

> >> person...

> >>

> >> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't

come up

> >> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the

death of

> >> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I

don't

> >> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I

just want to

> >> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

> >> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just

don't

> >> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

> >>

> >> Jen

> >>

> >> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly

(primary goal)

> >> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list,

but NOT

> >> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe

this

> >> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

> >>

> >> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from

this

> >> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning

signals? 'Though I

> >> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose

he/she

> >> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at

K's

> >> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't

all.

> >> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts

of aid

> >> and assistance?

> >>

> >> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk,

just like

> >> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious

nature, not

> >> trust so quickly.

> >>

> >> ~~

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >> __________________________________________________________

> >> ______

> >> Music Unlimited

> >> Access over 1 million songs.

> >> http://music./unlimited

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

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,

I am so proud of you. You really sound like you are doing great all

things considered. Alot of women would have been wounded by the

remarks that were made to you , Afterall breast surgery is very

frightening experince, We don't know how we are going to look and it

is scary, I am proud of you for being such a trooper and setting a

good example.

Terri P

> > >>

> > >> That's a good idea! I'm stuck in the house today, snowed

in. I

> > > love the

> > >> snow, we don't get much of it here. I ought to go in and bake

> > > some memories

> > >> with my daughter too. I'd love to go get our big Christmas

tree

> > > today, it

> > >> feels so Christmasy. I have several artificial Christmas

trees

> > > decorating

> > >> the house now but it doesn't feel like Christmas until the

main

> > > tree comes

> > >> in. I love the feelings of Christmas!

> > >>

> > >> Kenda

> > >>

> > >>

> > >>

> > >>> It's okay...I know how our messages will overlap...I just

want

> > > to avoid that

> > >>> dark spiral downward that happens if I don't pipe up right

> away!

> > >>>

> > >>> I am listening to beautiful Christmas music right

now....it's

> so

> > > inspiring, so

> > >>> touching, so calming! Thank God that we have this

hope...that

> > > there is more

> > >>> to life than this existence, and that there are beautiful

> things

> > > in life to

> > >>> look forward to, experience and share!

> > >>>

> > >>> My husband went shopping with my daughter, leaving me at home

> > > with my youngest

> > >>> son. I think we are going to play in the kitchen and bake up

> > > some Christmas

> > >>> memories!

> > >>>

> > >>> Hugs, and may we all experience the joy of this season!

> > >>> Patty

> > >>>

> > >>>

> > >>> Re: Reviewed ALL of recent

postings...

> > >>>

> > >>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post

> before

> > > reading

> > >>> your post to push past it.

> > >>>

> > >>> Kenda

> > >>

> > >

> > >

> >

>

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Don't worry guys...I'm not going anywhere. I have nowhere else to turn. I am waiting tables right now aside from my business that is still slow going. I hurt so bad when I come home, but I come home and see all of these responses from all of you nice people and it really helps. Thanks so much. Peake <peaketeresa@...> wrote: ,Kenda is right, I never questionied for a minute your authenticity, not once, I know you need help

please don't leave. I want to help you if I can,Aloha,Terri P> > I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before> > reading> > your post to push past it.> > > > Kenda> > > >> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....> >> > >> I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven> >> otherwise.> >> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the> >> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.> >> Patty> >> > >> > >> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> >> > >> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> >> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> >> For example this post...> >> > >> go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> >> I do have scars> >> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > >> > >> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> >> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> >> person...> >> > >> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> >> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> >> me. I guess that's the price

I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> >> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> >> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> >> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> >> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> >> > >> Jen> >> > >> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> >> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> >> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> >> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> >> > >> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> >> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I>

>> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> >> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> >> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> >> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> >> and assistance?> >> > >> Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> >> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> >> trust so quickly.> >> > >> ~~> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> __________________________________________________________> >> ______> >> Music Unlimited> >> Access over 1 million songs.> >>

http://music./unlimited> > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________> >

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Thanks Kenda, I have already found a lot of warmth and caring on here. I am getting some very nice responses from very caring people such as yourself. Kenda Skaggs <skaggs@...> wrote: You are quite welcome, . The world is a scary place for somepeople. There are predators out there but we can't hide from them at everyturn, otherwise we miss the people who need help. You are right, I doubtthis list and its photos would be the place for

a predator, it's hardlyexciting enough. I hope you stick around and get the warmth and help you are searching for.It is here.Kenda> Thanks Kenda...I appreciate your words. I'm not sure what to say at this> point. I was just looking for some encouragement and some good explant> doctors. mentioned how happy she was and I was looking for a little> hope. I think that it's very sad that other people have to assume the worst.> If someone was a predator, there are a million other places he could go. I> don't think the saline support group would be on the top or their list. It's> very sad that people have to judge and assume before they even give you a> chance. Thanks again.> > > > Kenda Skaggs <skaggscountycable> wrote:> ,> > I am sorry you were offended by 's

email. Please remember, it was one> person who questioned the validity of your email, not an entire group of> people. You came to the right place for hope and guidance with your implant> illness and explant experience. There are many, many women here who are> helpful and knowledable and who will help you, if you let them.> > Kenda> >> First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to>> use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it>> as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because>> of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I>> asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to>> death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced,>> but have since realized that this is not the smartest

option...I just want to>> be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see>> them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was>> under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just>> wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if>> you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know>> who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There>> is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was>> reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope>> and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that>> you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know>> them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from

some>> very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to>> your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site.>> I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and>> the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal.>> I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare>> you...you>> should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your time.>> >> JENNIFER>> >> Kenda Skaggs <skaggscountycable> wrote:>> I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before>> reading>> your post to push past it.>> >> Kenda>> >>> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....>>> >>> I

accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven>>> otherwise.>>> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the>>> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.>>> Patty>>> >>> >>> Reviewed ALL of recent postings...>>> >>> Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL>>> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!>>> For example this post...>>> >>> go to shutterfly and

the password is implants....>>> I do have scars>>> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. >>> >>> This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,>>> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this>>> person...>>> >>> Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up>>> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of>>> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't>>> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to>>> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my>>> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't>>> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.>>>

>>> Jen>>> >>> I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)>>> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT>>> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this>>> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.>>> >>> I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this>>> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I>>> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she>>> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's>>> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.>>> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid>>> and assistance?>>> >>> Be on guard, gals. We

have to be. Women are always at risk, just like>>> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not>>> trust so quickly.>>> >>> ~~>>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> __________________________________________________________>>> ______>>> Music Unlimited>>> Access over 1 million songs.>>> http://music./unlimited>> >> >> >> >> >> __________________________________________________>>

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Thanks Sunny. Well, this person has not come forward, but that's okay. I prefer to be surrounded by positive people so I will be sticking around. Thanks!!! Sunny <wellnessnow@...> wrote: , so sorry you have been hurt by what was "assumed" and said. Please don't turn away from this site because of someone's remarks. Hopefully the person responsible will make amends and make things right. I appreciate you expressing your feelings. They

are valid.In the Light of Healing,Love,Sunny > I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before reading> your post to push past it.> > Kenda> > > I'd really like to just push past this one, please....> > > > I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven otherwise.> > I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the> > damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.> > Patty> > > > > > Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > > > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> > recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> > For example this post...> > > > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> > I do have scars> > though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> > correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> > person...> > > > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> > with a way to get

these babies out, they will probably be the death of> > me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> > mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> > give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> > daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> > have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > > > Jen> > > > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> > and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> > for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> > poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > > > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> > person or persons. Nobody else get strange

warning signals? 'Though I> > fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> > got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> > lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> > Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> > and assistance?> > > > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> > children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> > trust so quickly.> > > > ~~> > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________________> > ______> > Music Unlimited> > Access over 1 million songs.> > http://music./unlimited> > > > > > __________________________________________________>

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. I don't understand 's post . . . She's relatively new and has taken offense a few times before, but never so personally. I'm sorry you were the object of her venom! We get people like this occasionally - we used to get a lot! . . But, stick with us! We've got a lot of moderators that can take care of incidents like this. Hugs, Rogene

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Thanks Rogene...I will stick with you. You can't get rid of me that easily! I'm desperate...this is why I'm here. I appreciate all the kindness from everyone. Rogene S <saxony01@...> wrote: . I don't understand 's post . . . She's relatively new and has taken offense a few times before, but never so personally. I'm sorry you were the object of her venom! We get

people like this occasionally - we used to get a lot! . . But, stick with us! We've got a lot of moderators that can take care of incidents like this. Hugs, Rogene

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, glad to see you're going to hang with us!! These ladies

here are angels, let me tell ya! I was a hurtin' unit when I found

this site. Not far from being disabled, and probably dying.

Praise God & bless all of you for your love & support!

Sunny

> > I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post

> before reading

> > your post to push past it.

> >

> > Kenda

> >

> > > I'd really like to just push past this one, please....

> > >

> > > I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until

> proven otherwise.

> > > I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are

> wrong, the

> > > damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.

> > > Patty

> > >

> > >

> > > Reviewed ALL of recent postings...

> > >

> > > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really

> read ALL

> > > recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!

> > > For example this post...

> > >

> > > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....

> > > I do have scars

> > > though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to

you.

>

> > >

> > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at

9:34

> P.M.,

> > > correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately

> from this

> > > person...

> > >

> > > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't

> come up

> > > with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the

> death of

> > > me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I

don't

> > > mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I

just

> want to

> > > give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my

> > > daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just

> don't

> > > have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.

> > >

> > > Jen

> > >

> > > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly

> (primary goal)

> > > and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list,

> but NOT

> > > for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe

this

> > > poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.

> > >

> > > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from

> this

> > > person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning

> signals? 'Though I

> > > fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose

> he/she

> > > got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at

K's

> > > lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't

> all.

> > > Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts

> of aid

> > > and assistance?

> > >

> > > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk,

just

> like

> > > children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious

> nature, not

> > > trust so quickly.

> > >

> > > ~~

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________________

> > > ______

> > > Music Unlimited

> > > Access over 1 million songs.

> > > http://music./unlimited

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >