...How Dare you Be So Presumptuous

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Just in case not all of you get this I wanted to send it again. Oh, and another thing ....I never did get to see K's pics. I specifically wrote to her because I couldn't figure out how to see them. First of all...this person you are talking about is me.......yes it is my real name. I have no idea how to use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it as well. His name is Walter, not as you stated so perhaps you should pay closer attention...I have since changed it to just my name because of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to death about getting explantation. ..I was going to get my implants replaced, but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to be healthy. Why do you post

pics if you are concerned about who will see them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to know who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreas ures.com There is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some very nice people, but I am not going

to feel like I have to prove myself to your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site. I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal. I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare you...you should be ashamed of yourselves. Sorry to waste your time. JENNIFERWalter King <waltjenking@...> wrote: First of all...this person you are talking about is me. I have no idea how to use this group stuff. I have email and my fiances name was on it as well. His name is Walter...I have since changed it to just my name because of the topic. What really gets me is that you just assume that because I asked for pictures I am some kind of stalker or something. I am scared to death about getting explantation...I was going to get my implants replaced, but have since realized that this is not the smartest option...I just want to be healthy. Why do you post pics if you are concerned about who will see them? I would just like an idea of how good or bad I'm going to look. I was under the impression that this person was happy with their results and I just wanted a little bit of f'ing hope in my life. Excuse the hell out of me if you are going to judge me before you even try to know me. If you want to

know who I am go to my website at www.findexotictreasures.com There is a pic of myself and my 22 year old daughter on the home page. I was reaching out for help and this is what I get??? I am at the end of my rope and all you can do is be presumptuous and on guard? Are you all so jaded that you can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt or try to get to know them a little better????? I have actually gotten some good feedback from some very nice people, but I am not going to feel like I have to prove myself to your clique. REALLY...if I wanted to see boobs, I could go to an adult site. I'll be glad to show any of you my boobs. One is deformed, hard as a rock and the other has completely leaked out...I have to stuff my bra to look normal. I reached out to people because I am having a hard time.....how dare you...you should be ashamed of yourselves.

Sorry to waste your time. JENNIFER Kenda Skaggs <skaggscountycable> wrote: I'm sorry, Patty, I had already responded to 's post before readingyour post to push past it.Kenda> I'd really like to just push past this one, please....> > I accept all appeals for help here as bonafide appeals until proven otherwise.> I detest second guessing anyone's intent...because when you are wrong, the> damage is BAD! It's unfair to say the least.> Patty> > > Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just

want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for

other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > > __________________________________________________________> ______> Music Unlimited> Access over 1 million songs.> http://music./unlimited __________________________________________________

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Selamat datang!

I share your affection for Bali and Indonesians--I spent many years there, and my daughter is half-Indonesian. I think it is great what you are doing with your jewelry business.

I think you will find much support and caring here. Please try to overlook that mistake that was made re: your identity and trust that the women here are commmited to helping you. We have all been through similiar issues, and most of us would say we couldn't have made it as far as we have without this group.

If you would like to email me privately, my email address is bindi@...

Bindi

Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > > __________________________________________________________> ______> Music Unlimited> Access over 1 million songs.> http://music./unlimited

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Thanks Lynda, Even though I've had this experience, I am still meeting some very nice supportive people. Lynda <coss@...> wrote: ,Please don't be too upset, sometimes people just express their feelings and it seems to be an attack.We try to keep things on a supportive basis, but sometimes it gets a little off track. We will make sure it gets back on track. If a person gets to far out of line, we delete

their messages and put them on a read only basis. Then it becomes loving and caring again.LyndaAt 08:49 PM 12/2/2006, you wrote:>Just in case not all of you get this I wanted to send it again.>>Oh, and another thing ....I never did get to see K's pics. I >specifically wrote to her because I couldn't figure out how to see them.>

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Please don't be too upset, sometimes people just express their

feelings and it seems to be an attack.

We try to keep things on a supportive basis, but sometimes it gets a

little off track. We will make sure it gets back on track. If a

person gets to far out of line, we delete their messages and put them

on a read only basis. Then it becomes loving and caring again.

Lynda

At 08:49 PM 12/2/2006, you wrote:

>Just in case not all of you get this I wanted to send it again.

>

>Oh, and another thing ....I never did get to see K's pics. I

>specifically wrote to her because I couldn't figure out how to see them.

>

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Hi Bindi, Thanks so much for writing. We love Bali and adore the Indonesian people. My fiance and I will be going there for our honeymoon. Yes, I agree with you about the support. I had just signed on to this group and was judged instantly so at first I did not have a good impression. However, now I am realizing that this was just one person and every single person since has been so wonderful. I am so past that now. Thanks for writing and I will continue to stay with this group! Please write anytime! freebindi <bindi@...> wrote: , Selamat datang! I share your affection for Bali and Indonesians--I spent many years there, and my daughter is half-Indonesian. I think it is great what you are doing with your jewelry business. I think you will find much support and caring here. Please try to overlook that mistake that was made re: your identity and trust that the women here are commmited to helping you. We have all been through similiar issues, and most of us would say we couldn't have made it as far as we have without this group. If you would like to email me privately, my email address is bindiaaahawk Bindi Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email

me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in

her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > > __________________________________________________________> ______> Music

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Almost immediately after I received silicone implants, I became very sick, yet it was a year (during which I lost my college teaching position) before I made the connection to the implants.

I went to Melmed for my explant surgery-- he was the closest(I live in CA) and the least expensive of the "Big 3" of explant surgeons(Melmed, Kolb and Feng), and I am 100% satisfied with the result. He removed the implants, capsules and performed an "internal lift." I do have scars, but they are faint now. The capsules were sent to a lab to be tested afterwards.They contained the type of cells associated with the body's reaction to a foreign body, but no silicone (I had no rupture).

I am now one year post-explant, and though I am much better than I was with implants, I am still recovering. Women here have said that it takes an average of two years to recover-- some take longer, some recover more quickly.

It's good that you are trying to find out exactly what is in the implants you have. I have never heard of a non-silicone gel implant, but I'm sure there are many strange possibilites, knowing the industry!

Keep asking questions. You'll definitely get a lot of wise and helpful advice here.

Bindi

Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)> and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > > __________________________________________________________> ______> Music Unlimited> Access over 1 million songs.> http://music./unlimited

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Oh Bindi...thanks. I have read so much about Dr. Melmed and have been talking to him quite a lot via email. So far he is my choice. I'm so glad you're happy with what he did....this helps a lot! Please keep in touch! freebindi <bindi@...> wrote: , Almost immediately after I received silicone implants, I became very sick, yet it was a year (during which I lost

my college teaching position) before I made the connection to the implants. I went to Melmed for my explant surgery-- he was the closest(I live in CA) and the least expensive of the "Big 3" of explant surgeons(Melmed, Kolb and Feng), and I am 100% satisfied with the result. He removed the implants, capsules and performed an "internal lift." I do have scars, but they are faint now. The capsules were sent to a lab to be tested afterwards.They contained the type of cells associated with the body's reaction to a foreign body, but no silicone (I had no rupture). I am now one year post-explant, and though I am much better than I was with implants, I am still recovering. Women here have said that it takes an average of two years to recover-- some take

longer, some recover more quickly. It's good that you are trying to find out exactly what is in the implants you have. I have never heard of a non-silicone gel implant, but I'm sure there are many strange possibilites, knowing the industry! Keep asking questions. You'll definitely get a lot of wise and helpful advice here. Bindi Reviewed ALL of recent postings...> > Up during the night last night, got on the computer and really read ALL> recent postings for this list. A real eye-opener for me!> For example this post...> > go to

shutterfly and the password is implants....> I do have scars> though...if that doesn't work email me and I'll send them to you. > > This last post from / was December 1, 2006 at 9:34 P.M.,> correct me if I'm wrong, or if any of you have heard privately from this> person...> > Yeah, the problem is that I don't have insurance, so if I can't come up> with a way to get these babies out, they will probably be the death of> me. I guess that's the price I am going to pay for vanity. I don't> mean to sound so down, but things are tough and sometimes I just want to> give up on everything. I have always been a fighter...raised my> daughter alone..she is now 22 and a wonderful daughter. I just don't> have much fight left in me. Thanks for your help.> > Jen> > I believe this person wanted access to pics on shutterfly (primary goal)>

and perhaps some deeper delving into past archives of the list, but NOT> for the apparent reasons given in her or his posts. I believe this> poster is not what she or he is pretending to be. JMOHO.> > I picked up something fishy right off the bat about posts from this> person or persons. Nobody else get strange warning signals? 'Though I> fell for it once...wrote one 'rescuing' post! Well, I suppose he/she> got what he/she wanted and we'll hear no more...got to gaze at K's> lovely pictures! And not just K's! And maybe that isn't/wasn't all.> Perhaps there was going to be requests for other tangible gifts of aid> and assistance?> > Be on guard, gals. We have to be. Women are always at risk, just like> children. We must develop a harder skin, a more suspicious nature, not> trust so quickly.> > ~~> > > > > >

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I was told by Melmed that he removes all the capsules in symptomatic women (like ). Mine were analyzed and deemed complete. Melmed told me that one of them was difficult to remove and caused a lot of bleeding.

Bindi

Re: ...How Dare you Be So Presumptuous

Be very sure that Dr. Melmed takes out all the scar tissue, as sometimes he thinks that is not necessary. At one point we almost took him off our list for not removing scar tissue. Just a head''s up.LyndaAt 08:50 PM 12/4/2006, you wrote:>Oh Bindi...thanks. I have read so much about Dr. Melmed and have >been talking to him quite a lot via email. So far he is my >choice. I'm so glad you're happy with what he did....this helps a >lot! Please keep in touch!>>

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Be very sure that Dr. Melmed takes out all the scar tissue, as

sometimes he thinks that is not necessary. At one point we almost

took him off our list for not removing scar tissue. Just a head''s up.

Lynda

At 08:50 PM 12/4/2006, you wrote:

>Oh Bindi...thanks. I have read so much about Dr. Melmed and have

>been talking to him quite a lot via email. So far he is my

>choice. I'm so glad you're happy with what he did....this helps a

>lot! Please keep in touch!

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