Re: raising your new dog/Rob

[Guest guest]

> So you see I can't take the sleep medicine and be there for the puppy I would

never hear her, Oh and also I have to take out my hearing aids at night also,

That is a problem hearing her.

> It's not that bad I know that it will only be for a few months of not

taking my sleep medication but she is a ball of pure love and I know

that it will pay off in the end I am sure she will be there for me

when shes older.

Hi Rob

I really like Cesar Millan's approach to raising, and caring for a dog. He has a

program called The Dog Whisperer on the National Geographic channel, if you wish

to watch him.

Some people find that he is too firm, with dogs, but he explains why in his

books ( and on TV). He believes that the person, must be the leader of the pack

when it comes to raising, and living with a dog.

Here is a link to one of his best books:

http://tinyurl.com/9u3mn9

I'm glad that you finally have the dog of your choice. A dog, cat, or various

other critters can be life long companions, and can certainly give unconditional

love.

We have two dogs, that we love dearly. Our cat is quite affectionate too. She

has learned to only jump onto my lap if I have a pillow there so she won't hurt

my legs.

Anyway, you have retired from the military, and you understand about being firm,

fair, and consistent. That is essentially Cesar's method.

Kaylene

Moderator

[Guest guest]

As pack leader to two wolf hybrids, I can say the Dog Whisperer's

theories and exercises are well worth thought.

I knew because of mine's personalities and breeds that I'd need to be

strong, assertive and in control or I'd regret it later. Mine weigh

in at 100 and 115-120 pounds and I could not imagine them not

recognizing my leadership role!

I think we've come to think of dogs as short children and sometimes

treat them like they're human. When I started thinking the way Cesar

talks about, I realized that cooing to and trying to soothe my female

when she is fearful is akin to telling her, " Oh, sweet baby! Mama is

so happy that you're frightened right now! What a good girl for being

so scared! That's just what I wanted! "

Imagine my epiphany when I realized how counterproductive I was being--out of

love for her. Now I ignore when she's scared and compliment when she doesn't

shake or try to run and things are much better.

Sorry for the long testimonial, but there is something to be said for

examining his approach to living with canines. I can't imagine my

life without my two furry butts, and I'm glad they're secure in

knowing I'll keep them safe. I spend much more time around them than

with any humans in my life. My father thinks one day he'll call and I

won't be able to do anything but howl!

in Oregon, land of snow and grounded airplanes.

--- Kaylene wrote to Rob:

Hi Rob

> I really like Cesar Millan's approach to raising, and caring for a

dog. He has a program called The Dog Whisperer on the National

Geographic channel, if you wish to watch him.

> Here is a link to one of his best books:

> http://tinyurl.com/9u3mn9