Orgasm by correspondence??? Not me!

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Hi All,

Although I seem to get aroused and find all those non-direct-clitoral-

stimulating activities pleasurable and highly exciting, there's no way

I'd orgasm without some sort of direct stimulation!!!

An orgasm for me is generally a lot of hard work ha ha!! It sounds like

some of you are living on the brink LOL!!!

Also, my orgasms vary tremendously in terms of intensity, length and

pleasure. I have found that the longer it takes to come the better it

is when it gets there. But, at any rate, I think that a lot of the

other stuff is at least as pleasurable as orgasm for me..... Have I

been short changed in the orgasm stakes?? I can have an orgasm

(involving a lot of work) that is like a *blip* - I wouldn't *know* it

was an orgasm if I didn't *know* it was an orgasm - if you get my drift

LOL

Plus, my body and mind seem to be working on two different projects!! I

can get highly physiologically aroused by cuddling my husband in bed

and discussing nuclear physics without a thought of sex in my head,

while I can be absolutely turned on mentally, fantasies etc and nothing

is going on down below!!! I can even orgasm through physical

stimulation without becoming particularly lubricated (on my own of

course - it's the body contact that gets me every time ha ha).

Just thought I'd throw a spanner in the works.... *Ouch*!! Sorry for

the metaphor!

Daphne

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