Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 Kat - We're here for you, okay! I know how you feel, my hubby acts like that sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. Try not to let it get you down, WE know how you feel and WE'RE here for YOU!! It would be so much simpler if everyone could understand what we go through and empthaize with us, but we know thats not gonna happen anytime soon. Hang in there sweetie! I feel like telling everyone to just bugger off sometimes when they really don't want to know what I'm going through. called me a hypocondraic (sp?) the other day and I let him have it when we went to our counselor. I couldn't believe he said that to me. Like you said, let them live a day in our shoes and then see how they feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 i just feal so crappy and sometimes i just want to end it all... days like today i feal ike that... not good when you have over 100 t3's just lying around.. -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 9:42 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - We're here for you, okay! I know how you feel, my hubby acts like that sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. Try not to let it get you down, WE know how you feel and WE'RE here for YOU!! It would be so much simpler if everyone could understand what we go through and empthaize with us, but we know thats not gonna happen anytime soon. Hang in there sweetie! I feel like telling everyone to just bugger off sometimes when they really don't want to know what I'm going through. called me a hypocondraic (sp?) the other day and I let him have it when we went to our counselor. I couldn't believe he said that to me. Like you said, let them live a day in our shoes and then see how they feel. Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 im g oing to go to bed now.. will be up probably round 11 my time.. thats when i usualy get up.. so night.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Kat Mosch Sent: July 2, 2003 9:48 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why i just feal so crappy and sometimes i just want to end it all... days like today i feal ike that... not good when you have over 100 t3's just lying around.. -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 9:42 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - We're here for you, okay! I know how you feel, my hubby acts like that sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. Try not to let it get you down, WE know how you feel and WE'RE here for YOU!! It would be so much simpler if everyone could understand what we go through and empthaize with us, but we know thats not gonna happen anytime soon. Hang in there sweetie! I feel like telling everyone to just bugger off sometimes when they really don't want to know what I'm going through. called me a hypocondraic (sp?) the other day and I let him have it when we went to our counselor. I couldn't believe he said that to me. Like you said, let them live a day in our shoes and then see how they feel. Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 im g oing to go to bed now.. will be up probably round 11 my time.. thats when i usualy get up.. so night.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Kat Mosch Sent: July 2, 2003 9:48 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why i just feal so crappy and sometimes i just want to end it all... days like today i feal ike that... not good when you have over 100 t3's just lying around.. -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 9:42 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - We're here for you, okay! I know how you feel, my hubby acts like that sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. Try not to let it get you down, WE know how you feel and WE'RE here for YOU!! It would be so much simpler if everyone could understand what we go through and empthaize with us, but we know thats not gonna happen anytime soon. Hang in there sweetie! I feel like telling everyone to just bugger off sometimes when they really don't want to know what I'm going through. called me a hypocondraic (sp?) the other day and I let him have it when we went to our counselor. I couldn't believe he said that to me. Like you said, let them live a day in our shoes and then see how they feel. Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 is anyoen on the list going to be home tomorow? i would love to talk to a few of you... just fealing like this, i think i need to talk to someone who is in my shoes.. or should i say , our shoes.. and lisa, do you have msn? yahoo, icq or aim? im on all of those.. anyone who has them please contact me tomorow.. would love to talkt oyou AIM littlprozackat MSN prozac_kat @hotmail.com icq 57495162 yahoo eosinophilic_girl Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:05 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 is anyoen on the list going to be home tomorow? i would love to talk to a few of you... just fealing like this, i think i need to talk to someone who is in my shoes.. or should i say , our shoes.. and lisa, do you have msn? yahoo, icq or aim? im on all of those.. anyone who has them please contact me tomorow.. would love to talkt oyou AIM littlprozackat MSN prozac_kat @hotmail.com icq 57495162 yahoo eosinophilic_girl Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:05 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 havent gone to beedd yet.. yes im fludding the list.. ill post when i go to bed.. im talking to jannet now on MSN.. Kat -----Original Message-----From: Kat Mosch Sent: July 2, 2003 10:24 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why is anyoen on the list going to be home tomorow? i would love to talk to a few of you... just fealing like this, i think i need to talk to someone who is in my shoes.. or should i say , our shoes.. and lisa, do you have msn? yahoo, icq or aim? im on all of those.. anyone who has them please contact me tomorow.. would love to talkt oyou AIM littlprozackat MSN prozac_kat @hotmail.com icq 57495162 yahoo eosinophilic_girl Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:05 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 havent gone to beedd yet.. yes im fludding the list.. ill post when i go to bed.. im talking to jannet now on MSN.. Kat -----Original Message-----From: Kat Mosch Sent: July 2, 2003 10:24 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why is anyoen on the list going to be home tomorow? i would love to talk to a few of you... just fealing like this, i think i need to talk to someone who is in my shoes.. or should i say , our shoes.. and lisa, do you have msn? yahoo, icq or aim? im on all of those.. anyone who has them please contact me tomorow.. would love to talkt oyou AIM littlprozackat MSN prozac_kat @hotmail.com icq 57495162 yahoo eosinophilic_girl Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:05 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why I know how you feel Kat, I've thought of that in the past also. Don't do it, give the pills to your hubby or someone else and walk away! Kat - I look forward to your posts, and you don't know how many times you've made me smile when I just felt like crying! Keep talking to me, or call someone. Okay? Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 Kat - No I don't have any chat programs. Sorry. I'll be home for awhile in the morning. Hang in there sweetie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 Kat - No I don't have any chat programs. Sorry. I'll be home for awhile in the morning. Hang in there sweetie! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 i just hate this... i hate being this way, and i just dont know what to do.. yes i think im tossing a pitty party. but i mean no one has a right to get mad at me becouse im sick and i cant do something... last week it took all my strength to make a thing of potato salid.. i got soo tired after i made it and i dont know why... i have been just getting realy fatuged lately by doing simple tasks.. Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:34 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - No I don't have any chat programs. Sorry. I'll be home for awhile in the morning. Hang in there sweetie! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 2, 2003 Report Share Posted July 2, 2003 i just hate this... i hate being this way, and i just dont know what to do.. yes i think im tossing a pitty party. but i mean no one has a right to get mad at me becouse im sick and i cant do something... last week it took all my strength to make a thing of potato salid.. i got soo tired after i made it and i dont know why... i have been just getting realy fatuged lately by doing simple tasks.. Kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 10:34 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - No I don't have any chat programs. Sorry. I'll be home for awhile in the morning. Hang in there sweetie! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 it dosent matter, the only antidepressent that worked, i cant take, cuz of the lactose in is making me sick, and well the hubby wont talk to anyone about the illnes, or go talk to a shrink himself or a councler.. so it sucks.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 11:03 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 it dosent matter, the only antidepressent that worked, i cant take, cuz of the lactose in is making me sick, and well the hubby wont talk to anyone about the illnes, or go talk to a shrink himself or a councler.. so it sucks.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 11:03 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat, Hugs. why why is it that the peole who are closet to us, dont understand about invisable illness? Yes i went to the olymics crap today, but it made me feal like crap when i got home. since i left i have been fealing dizzy and had a realy bad headach.. yet he cant seem to understand that i can only do stuff for a short period of a time. Like going to the event with my dad wiped me out the rest of the day... it hurts that he dosent understand... it realy dose... i mean i wouldent wish this illness on anyone, not even him, but right now i would love it if he could spend one day in my shoes... one day with a guy that hurts all the time, with constant direah, massave headachs, and fatuige that just " hits you " out of no where... This realy hurts me that he dosent understand and that he is like this... i thought he was diffrent....i just dont know..... if any of you want to call me please do.. or are online.. i just need to talk to someone right now.. KatPlease visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 im off to bed.. will write more in the morning.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Kat Mosch Sent: July 2, 2003 11:15 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why it dosent matter, the only antidepressent that worked, i cant take, cuz of the lactose in is making me sick, and well the hubby wont talk to anyone about the illnes, or go talk to a shrink himself or a councler.. so it sucks.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 11:03 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat, the worse thing to try and explain is how you can conserve energy for an imortant event, go to that event (even if it's just shopping one day) and then come home wiped out and need a week to recover. Then you hear "Why is it you can go shopping but you can't (fill in the blank.... clean house, cook every night, do laundry, mop the floors, go with me somewhere, blah blah blah.....)" All I can suggest is that during a CALM moment, sit down together and talk quietly about the illnesses and what they do to you and how important it is for you to be able to do special things sometimes even at the risk of feeling worse for a while. Hugs. why why is it that the peole who are closet to us, dont understand about invisable illness? Yes i went to the olymics crap today, but it made me feal like crap when i got home. since i left i have been fealing dizzy and had a realy bad headach.. yet he cant seem to understand that i can only do stuff for a short period of a time. Like going to the event with my dad wiped me out the rest of the day... it hurts that he dosent understand... it realy dose... i mean i wouldent wish this illness on anyone, not even him, but right now i would love it if he could spend one day in my shoes... one day with a guy that hurts all the time, with constant direah, massave headachs, and fatuige that just "hits you" out of no where... This realy hurts me that he dosent understand and that he is like this... i thought he was diffrent....i just dont know..... if any of you want to call me please do.. or are online.. i just need to talk to someone right now.. Kat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat! Do you have a counselor? You can't let yourself slip into that mode of thought! We're here for you and we understand what you're going through! (((hugs))) Kathy RE: why i just feal so crappy and sometimes i just want to end it all... days like today i feal ike that... not good when you have over 100 t3's just lying around.. -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 9:42 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - We're here for you, okay! I know how you feel, my hubby acts like that sometimes and it really hurts my feelings. Try not to let it get you down, WE know how you feel and WE'RE here for YOU!! It would be so much simpler if everyone could understand what we go through and empthaize with us, but we know thats not gonna happen anytime soon. Hang in there sweetie! I feel like telling everyone to just bugger off sometimes when they really don't want to know what I'm going through. called me a hypocondraic (sp?) the other day and I let him have it when we went to our counselor. I couldn't believe he said that to me. Like you said, let them live a day in our shoes and then see how they feel. Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat--Even if YOU just go, the counselor can give you ways to deal with this stuff. Kathy RE: why it dosent matter, the only antidepressent that worked, i cant take, cuz of the lactose in is making me sick, and well the hubby wont talk to anyone about the illnes, or go talk to a shrink himself or a councler.. so it sucks.. kat -----Original Message-----From: Sent: July 2, 2003 11:03 PMTo: autoimmune-ills Subject: RE: why Kat - Sounds like you need to see your Doctor and tell him how you've been feeling! Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 I'm sooo lucky with Denny. The problem I have with him, though, is that he'll sometimes say not to do something 'cause he knows how long it will take me to recoup. I just tell him I DO weigh how badly I want to do whatever against the recoup time and he'll just have to trust me on that. Kathy why why is it that the peole who are closet to us, dont understand about invisable illness? Yes i went to the olymics crap today, but it made me feal like crap when i got home. since i left i have been fealing dizzy and had a realy bad headach.. yet he cant seem to understand that i can only do stuff for a short period of a time. Like going to the event with my dad wiped me out the rest of the day... it hurts that he dosent understand... it realy dose... i mean i wouldent wish this illness on anyone, not even him, but right now i would love it if he could spend one day in my shoes... one day with a guy that hurts all the time, with constant direah, massave headachs, and fatuige that just "hits you" out of no where... This realy hurts me that he dosent understand and that he is like this... i thought he was diffrent....i just dont know..... if any of you want to call me please do.. or are online.. i just need to talk to someone right now.. Kat Please visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2003 Report Share Posted July 3, 2003 Kat, I'm sure I can be of very little help and encouragement right now (since I don't suffer from an AI disease), but I do want to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this rough patch. I can tell you that your life IS making a difference in others--it has in mine! People need you. Hang in there. "This too shall pass....." Love, Anita why why is it that the peole who are closet to us, dont understand about invisable illness? Yes i went to the olymics crap today, but it made me feal like crap when i got home. since i left i have been fealing dizzy and had a realy bad headach.. yet he cant seem to understand that i can only do stuff for a short period of a time. Like going to the event with my dad wiped me out the rest of the day... it hurts that he dosent understand... it realy dose... i mean i wouldent wish this illness on anyone, not even him, but right now i would love it if he could spend one day in my shoes... one day with a guy that hurts all the time, with constant direah, massave headachs, and fatuige that just "hits you" out of no where... This realy hurts me that he dosent understand and that he is like this... i thought he was diffrent....i just dont know..... if any of you want to call me please do.. or are online.. i just need to talk to someone right now.. KatPlease visit our website at:http://ACES_Autoimmune.tripod.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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