Guest guest Posted October 17, 2005 Report Share Posted October 17, 2005 Dear friends, This is the first time I am writing to this Forum. It has been very enlightening to read various discussion on the Net. I have been working as a Counselor for sometime, but this is my first time working in the field of HIV/AIDS, hence please pardon if you find my enquiry naive. We are working among the urban poor in the slums of Pune. In one of our house visits, it was very heartbreaking to get to know Usha (name changed). She is just 17 years old, married for past one year. She got married in Nov 2004, 3-4 months after marriage, both the husband and wife started falling ill regularly. The doctor sent them for check up and found that she was positive. It is at this time Usha comes to know that her husband and family knew his HIV +ve status. Now, she is extremely sick, and voluntarily came back to her parents house. What do you do when one hears of a life broken at sucha young age for now fault of hers? What if the husband is pushed into or gets married again on his own accord? Maybe, this question has already been asked before. Is there any possibility of starting a legislation for having compulsory HIV test before marriage? Looking forward to hear your response Jaya Pillay E-mail: <sahaskendra@...> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 23, 2005 Report Share Posted October 23, 2005 Dear Forum, I think that Sahaskendra has raised a very important point here.. that of legislation and enactment of laws arising out of a particular social situation, which in this instance is the scourge of HIV-AIDS. I would like to submit for consideration that as I read about all the efforts that are going on at various forum and the problems faced therein.. it is very easy to say that, " this is compulsory.. or regimented.. or enacted by law. " But as a civil society we must ensure that we can live with as much freedom and individual choice of determination of one's life as is possible. We must be very very careful as and when any enactment is being condsidered that interferes with individual freedom and right to self-determination. Yes it is very desired that individuals go in for pre-marital HIV testing just as it is now being done in case of detection of pregnancy. An increasing number of women who find themselves pregnant are going in for HIV testing upon detection of pregnancy.. even though the numbers are small (very small) but the curve is incremental and positive. But as we know that there is a window period and thus one can never be sure that a person tested for HIV is not actually positive. And there are several other conditions and situations that are important to ensure / test a persons negative / positive status. Hence I strongly feel that we should perhaps not think of making HIV testing compulsory at the time a marriage is being finalized.. but we must think of creating an enabling environment in which individuals who plan to get married or who go in for a sexual encounter ensure the HIV status of herself as well as of her partner / spouse. Sincerely Mallika Jalan E-mail: <mallika_jalan@...> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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