Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry to hear about the death of your sons. This is not something you can control or that is your fault. May peace come to you. Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so so sorry for your loses, I can only imagine your grief. Please take care of yourself and know that we are here for you Much love and many hugs BU > Well this is my last update, since my sons were born > on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian > and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to > unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the > placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not > handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the > babies were healthy for their age but were not strong > enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the > next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so so sorry for your loses, I can only imagine your grief. Please take care of yourself and know that we are here for you Much love and many hugs BU > Well this is my last update, since my sons were born > on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian > and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to > unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the > placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not > handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the > babies were healthy for their age but were not strong > enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the > next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , Please accept my condolences. I am so sorry for your losses. Take care of yourself. K. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , Please accept my condolences. I am so sorry for your losses. Take care of yourself. K. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry about your losses, my heart goes out to you and dh. I know how painful it is to loss a baby. We are here for you and I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you find peace soon. Original Message: ----------------- From: Oliver oliver_93@... Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002 06:34:03 -0800 (PST) To: MullerianAnomalies Subject: Twin Pregnancy update <html><body> <tt> Well this is my last update, since my sons were born<BR> on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian<BR> and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to<BR> unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the<BR> placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not<BR> handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the<BR> babies were healthy for their age but were not strong<BR> enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the<BR> next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and<BR> how guilty I feel. <BR> <BR> __________________________________________________<BR> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry about your losses, my heart goes out to you and dh. I know how painful it is to loss a baby. We are here for you and I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you find peace soon. Original Message: ----------------- From: Oliver oliver_93@... Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002 06:34:03 -0800 (PST) To: MullerianAnomalies Subject: Twin Pregnancy update <html><body> <tt> Well this is my last update, since my sons were born<BR> on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian<BR> and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to<BR> unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the<BR> placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not<BR> handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the<BR> babies were healthy for their age but were not strong<BR> enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the<BR> next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and<BR> how guilty I feel. <BR> <BR> __________________________________________________<BR> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry about your losses, my heart goes out to you and dh. I know how painful it is to loss a baby. We are here for you and I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you find peace soon. Original Message: ----------------- From: Oliver oliver_93@... Date: Mon, 28 Jan 2002 06:34:03 -0800 (PST) To: MullerianAnomalies Subject: Twin Pregnancy update <html><body> <tt> Well this is my last update, since my sons were born<BR> on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian<BR> and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to<BR> unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the<BR> placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not<BR> handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the<BR> babies were healthy for their age but were not strong<BR> enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the<BR> next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and<BR> how guilty I feel. <BR> <BR> __________________________________________________<BR> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 ****losses ment*** > I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. Dear , I am *so* sorry that your sons passed away. I am crying right along with you. Although something similar happened to me, I can not imagine the magnitude of grief that the loss of two very wanted, healthy babies must bring you. I do remember feeling so horribly guilty, with an empty womb, empty arms, and breasts full of milk for no one to drink. A heart full of mother love and absolutely nothing to be done for the lost children. Helplessness is a very, very black feeling for a parent to have. I remember feeling horribly guilty about failing my own son . . . but you know and I know that there is no real blame, here. I know as sure as anything that you did everything you could and that you would do anything at all if it could bring Bastian and Jonas back. That you are utterly helpless is sheer torture, I know. But I can tell, even through this medium, that you are a good mother, and that you will do your best for the next little one, too. The older brothers have not died in vain, for they have helped your body along to carry the next one, and they have helped you learn more. I know that you did everything that you could, and you'll also give your all the next time. Please be kind to yourself; it is only natural to second-guess what you did, what you ate, what your doctor did, and so forth. But when there is not enough room to grow, sometimes there is very little that can be done, especially as time goes by. I know that you did your best, here. I will be thinking of you always, and hope that you'll feel free to write if you need to talk. It may seem unimaginable right now, but the pain does ease, slowly. Much love and sorrow, Beth (Jack's mom) SU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 ****losses ment*** > I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. Dear , I am *so* sorry that your sons passed away. I am crying right along with you. Although something similar happened to me, I can not imagine the magnitude of grief that the loss of two very wanted, healthy babies must bring you. I do remember feeling so horribly guilty, with an empty womb, empty arms, and breasts full of milk for no one to drink. A heart full of mother love and absolutely nothing to be done for the lost children. Helplessness is a very, very black feeling for a parent to have. I remember feeling horribly guilty about failing my own son . . . but you know and I know that there is no real blame, here. I know as sure as anything that you did everything you could and that you would do anything at all if it could bring Bastian and Jonas back. That you are utterly helpless is sheer torture, I know. But I can tell, even through this medium, that you are a good mother, and that you will do your best for the next little one, too. The older brothers have not died in vain, for they have helped your body along to carry the next one, and they have helped you learn more. I know that you did everything that you could, and you'll also give your all the next time. Please be kind to yourself; it is only natural to second-guess what you did, what you ate, what your doctor did, and so forth. But when there is not enough room to grow, sometimes there is very little that can be done, especially as time goes by. I know that you did your best, here. I will be thinking of you always, and hope that you'll feel free to write if you need to talk. It may seem unimaginable right now, but the pain does ease, slowly. Much love and sorrow, Beth (Jack's mom) SU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry for your losses. I had tears in my eyes reading your post. I just don't know what else to say, but know that that people on this board are here for you. Please take care of yourself. Melinda (SU) > Well this is my last update, since my sons were born > on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian > and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to > unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the > placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not > handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the > babies were healthy for their age but were not strong > enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the > next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 ((((((Oh ))))))) I am so sorry for your losses of Jonas and Bastian. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my thoughts. , UU Twin Pregnancy update > Well this is my last update, since my sons were born > on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian > and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to > unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the > placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not > handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the > babies were healthy for their age but were not strong > enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the > next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and > how guilty I feel. > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry that you lost both of your sons. Words cannot describe what you must be feeling as I am having a hard time expressing what I felt as I read your letter. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know you did everything you could. I felt horrible thinking that you feel guilty. Please don't be hard on yourself. It's just so unfair and wrong that you lost them. Take care of yourself and let us know if we can help. Sara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry that you lost both of your sons. Words cannot describe what you must be feeling as I am having a hard time expressing what I felt as I read your letter. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know you did everything you could. I felt horrible thinking that you feel guilty. Please don't be hard on yourself. It's just so unfair and wrong that you lost them. Take care of yourself and let us know if we can help. Sara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am so sorry that you lost both of your sons. Words cannot describe what you must be feeling as I am having a hard time expressing what I felt as I read your letter. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know you did everything you could. I felt horrible thinking that you feel guilty. Please don't be hard on yourself. It's just so unfair and wrong that you lost them. Take care of yourself and let us know if we can help. Sara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry. Please, please, do not feel guilty. This was out of your control. I am praying for you to find some peace. We are all here for you. Hugs and love to you - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry. Please, please, do not feel guilty. This was out of your control. I am praying for you to find some peace. We are all here for you. Hugs and love to you - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry. Please, please, do not feel guilty. This was out of your control. I am praying for you to find some peace. We are all here for you. Hugs and love to you - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 - My heart goes out to you, DH and your entire family. Please do not feel guilty; this was beyond anyone's control. I'm sending lots of hugs and keeping you in my thoughts. UD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 I am so sorry for your losses. Crystal Twin Pregnancy update Well this is my last update, since my sons were born on the 16th of January, I was only 23 weeks, Bastian and Jonas were born in an emergancy c-section due to unstopable progressive labor and an abruption of the placenta, basiclly my bicornuate uterus could not handle the growth of the twins and was tearing, the babies were healthy for their age but were not strong enough to live outside of the womb, they both died the next day. I can not tell you how painful this is and how guilty I feel. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 ((((((()))))))) I am so so sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your husband and your family. Reading your message, my heart sank. I feel sad about your feelings of guilt, because this was out of your hands. It's so unfair for you to have to go through this. I don't think anything that I can say will make you feel better - but I am thinking about you and I hope that time will relieve some of the pain. I'm really sorry . > _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 Oh , I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Gretchen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 Oh , I am so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Gretchen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I can't begin to imagine the magnitude of your pain and sorrow. I am so, so sorry. I have no words, there are no words that could bring comfort at a time like this. My heart hurts for you. Please be kind to yourself and don't blame yourself in any way for an uncontrollable situation. I hope you can lean on friends and family to see you through. I will pray that you find peace and comfort at this terrible time. God bless you, your sons and your family. Lia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2002 Report Share Posted January 28, 2002 , I am sorry to hear that this has happened to you. Please remember that we are here for you if and when you're ready to talk! Hugs and Prayers! Faith Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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