Guest guest Posted November 6, 2005 Report Share Posted November 6, 2005 Dear FORUM, I'm a female, someone is a male. In a similar fashion someone is a hijra (North-Indian slang) or a Aravani (South-Indian slang). Why does this society need to ostracize these people, they are also our brethren. They are depicted by the media in a bizarre manner sufficient enough to throw tantrums in the mind of people who know nothing about them. But the truth about Hijras / Aravanis / Transgender are something every person in the society needs to know of. Thus they are very much feminine people embedded in the shell of a male. Like a woman; their feelings, mannerisms and physical desires to love a man they become aware that they have different feelings from men and have no feelings for a woman but want to act and behave as a woman then they realize that they are in a wrong body, mentally they find feminism more comforting and cannot control the desire to act and behave as a women. So why are they portrayed as people who are outcaste, subjected to humiliation, shun away from the society. Media might be a small word, but it has the power to take over or change any person perception. This is the best and effective method of communicating ideas or concepts. The present media helps human unity all over the globe so as to help make the term global-village more meaningful. Communication media is no more channels of news and education. They have become guidelines and inspirations for behavioral patterns for individuals and society. In these circumstances, I would like to bring to the notice of the public that there are many scenes in movies down south which literally ostracizes the community. I read in an interview a couple of years back that when a director of a leading Tamil film " Appu " was to depict an Eunuch in the movie, the interviewer questioned whether he knew the mannerisms of the community – for which his answer was.. No. Some people say that only if you go through the various experiences of these people will you be able to make the story realistic. But this rule does not apply to everyone. Do I have to kill someone to write about murder? So, if you want to know more about such things to make them very realistic, you can watch old films. You can go back to the books you have read earlier. You can also think of what others have told you about their experiences. In reality till you move to get to know them better, you surely cant do understand that person. Then why are these community people depicted this way. Isn't it gruesome to compare them to murderers? This struggle is continuing on and on. But even every now and then they are depicted as someone whom the society needs to be kept away from. The social groups have worked extensively in trying to bring about a change in the level of acceptance of the group within their families and also within the communities. These portrayals would surely damage the lives of many of them. Why are they always taking crude examples of Hijras. It was a hijra Shabnam who won an election, and her story was made as a movie. There are many positive examples, why can't we take all those good citations to depict them in a friendly manner. Some of the super duper hits from South have started portraying the hijras in a vulgar manner. Recent examples – Jeyam, Thiruda Thirudi, Thirupachi and a couple of recent movies are having this trend. The classic issue of whether media merely depicts the society or society is shaped by the media will remain contested. But still the same media will have its say in shaping the society. According to a Supreme Court of India's directive - " . . . Film censorship becomes necessary because a film motivates thought and action and assures a high degree of attention and retention as compared to the printed word. The combination of act and speech, sight and sound in semi darkness of the theatre with elimination of all distracting ideas will have a strong impact on the minds of the viewers and can affect emotions.. . . " Media is also important for media to be open-minded regarding attitudes towards sexuality so that they can influence a society that must be able to discuss and communicate about sexuality honestly. I would surely to mention that this hinders the activity of the health workers who work amidst them in preventing the infiltration of HIV among these groups. Indhu Sudhakaran Chennai e-MAIL: <indhu27770@...> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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