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I'm on Enbrel, MTX, plaquenil & Prednisone. I'm actually doing very

well, I think, with the exception of being tired often & getting

irritating little colds every other week. Otherwise I don't have

much pain, more like dull aches about half the time. I've had no

surgeries though. Seems to me, that would make it tougher.

>

> Hi,

>

> I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

minutes with me. I thought the

> course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

progressive. Is anyone here

> doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

much more I can stand.

> I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

ever since. I was a nurse and

> have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading these

posts really has me worried.

>

> One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity?

Mine is just a few points above

> normal but supposedly this is what I have.

>

> Thanks for the input on minocycline,

>

>

>

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I am doing very well on Enbrel, one of the biologic DMARD's. The meds

today are much better than they used to be. RA needs to be attacked

aggressively from the beginning to prevent joint damage.

My rheumy uses the C-reactive protein blood test to monitor my RA. It

shows the level of inflammation in your body.

Good luck! All is not lost.

Sue

On Tuesday, January 29, 2008, at 09:33 PM, savannahhipchick wrote:

> Hi,

>

> I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5 minutes

> with me. I thought the

> course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

> progressive. Is anyone here

> doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

> much more I can stand.

> I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain ever

> since. I was a nurse and

> have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading these

> posts really has me worried.

>

> One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity? Mine

> is just a few points above

> normal but supposedly this is what I have.

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Hi ,

I am sorry to hear you are depressed but understand why. But I hope

I am not scaring you with my posts. i try not to post unless I am

having a good day. This is just a vry bad time for me right now.

However, I have a really bad resistant case. I also have a high

lupus count no lupus but high count I have been told. I was also

told RF was the important number to watch and not the sed rate but

my sed rate has been consistantly high for a year now sometimes as

high as 140 so it is the one I look at although my RF factor is

usually high as well.

If it makes you feel any better I have never met anyone who has RA

as severely as I do. I don't think the doctors have seen a case

like mine either, not many. I meet a lot of RA folks at the visits

and in the transfusion rooms. They all still have their joints and

mobility and some of them got this disease when they were children.

Only one guy I met had a bad case of psoriatic arthritis. He was in

severe pain. and walked a lot like me, bent over, limping.

Progressive doesn't mean it can't be slowed and maybe even go into

remission.

However, i too have the have the hips replaced. I would like to

know how you come along with that. Are you in physical therapy. I

didn't go to therapy for a long time. I was focused on the care of

my daughter for many years. I think therapy can help a lot with

staying flexible. I went to therapy about 3 years ago but had to

stop it. I am now looking for therapy again just to learn how to

manage with the limitations and hopefully prepare for hip surgery.

But hang in there. Stay hopeful. It can get better in spurts and

hopefully long spurts.

blessings,

Ebony

>

> Hi,

>

> I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

minutes with me. I thought the

> course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

progressive. Is anyone here

> doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

much more I can stand.

> I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

ever since. I was a nurse and

> have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

these posts really has me worried.

>

> One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity?

Mine is just a few points above

> normal but supposedly this is what I have.

>

> Thanks for the input on minocycline,

>

>

>

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Hi Jeannette, I 'm sorrry you are depressed. It is so understandable. Hang in

there. What does not kil us will makes us stronger. So they say. Who Is thay? I

don't know/ :)

All I have to ontribute is I like being o minicycline. I feel netter on it but

my Dr. does not let me stay on it to long. I mmay have to go to Mexixo and get a

RX. there being Hispanic aand all. I also was on enbrel and pred.. which an

cause depression and diadetes my Dr. said so shewats me off the prednisone and

on metro. which I just can't bring myself to take. I'm going to look into somme

holistic products. I wish you the best if luck. You are in my prayers along with

the entire group. Blessings to all. witjhh llove, Marie

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First of all, you need a doctor who will spend more than 5 minutes

with you. Was this a primary care doctor or a rheumatologist? Ask

for references for a rheumatologist who is compassionate -- maybe

some of your nursing colleagues can give you a recommendation. You

need someone who will spend time examining your clinical

presentation, as well as explain your test results. RA diagnosis

comes from multiple factors.

Also -- my rheumatologist told me that in this day and age, no one

should end up severely dysfunctional from RA. There are many

treatments to explore and more developed all the time. I have had RA

for a year and I am doing very well. I am on minocin and plaquenil.

In my daily living you would not know anything is wrong with me,

although I do tire more easily than I used to. I still work and I

still exercise -- although not the same way. Do some more research --

you can still live a great life. Email me if you have questions.

Bonnie

>

> Hi,

>

> I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

minutes with me. I thought the

> course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

progressive. Is anyone here

> doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

much more I can stand.

> I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

ever since. I was a nurse and

> have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

these posts really has me worried.

>

> One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity?

Mine is just a few points above

> normal but supposedly this is what I have.

>

> Thanks for the input on minocycline,

>

>

>

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Hi Ebony,

I'm really sorry to hear about your struggle. I have one bit of good news for

you. Hip

replacement is fantastic and nothing to be afraid of. I was on an arthritis

support board

about 4 years ago when a total stranger sent me a message to leave that place

because I

was too young and to check out surfacehippy in . Please go to

surfacehippy

and see the fantastic European surgery which is now available here in the US and

thanks to

a group of doctors totally dedicated to the young arthritic patient. My ortho

thinks my

newly resurfaced hips might last 40 years. That is unheard of with the

conventional hips

that 99% of surgeons are placing these days.

Don't wait Ebony. I lost 4 years of my life and gained 40 pounds sitting on the

couch. This

surgery is great and I left the hospital in 24 hours with a 4 inch incision. I

went back 5

weeks later and had another hip done. I drove myself home 2 days later. I was

crippled

too, very crippled. At least one part of me doesn't hurt now:)

Wishing you some relief,

> >

> > Hi,

> >

> > I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

> minutes with me. I thought the

> > course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

> progressive. Is anyone here

> > doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

> much more I can stand.

> > I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

> ever since. I was a nurse and

> > have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

> these posts really has me worried.

> >

> > One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity?

> Mine is just a few points above

> > normal but supposedly this is what I have.

> >

> > Thanks for the input on minocycline,

> >

> >

> >

>

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Bonnie,

This was one of the most famous rheumatologists in the USA. He helped develop

Synvisc.

I could not believe it either. He did not even know I was a nurse in the past.

Just told me

to come back in 4 months. I'm shocked because I had traveled over one thousand

miles to

see him and he was aware of that. I am willing to travel but it is hard because

I live in a

small, hard to reach city and I have to find care for my two children which is

really difficult.

My husband was not too happy either. The last two times I saw him, he was very

dismissive. My RF factor is the same as several years ago so why RA now? We

don't have

unlimited resources for visits to major medical centers. I recently flew across

the country

to UCLA for a second opinion regarding a diagnosis of MS. Fortunately it was

worth it

because the neuro there said I don't have MS in spite of a spots on my brain.

It's just been a real nightmare. I don't know who to believe.

> >

> > Hi,

> >

> > I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

> minutes with me. I thought the

> > course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

> progressive. Is anyone here

> > doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how

> much more I can stand.

> > I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

> ever since. I was a nurse and

> > have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

> these posts really has me worried.

> >

> > One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity?

> Mine is just a few points above

> > normal but supposedly this is what I have.

> >

> > Thanks for the input on minocycline,

> >

> >

> >

>

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Dear Really depressed, Wow! What you went through would make anyone

depressed. I am sorry you had such a negative experience. Not to make

light of it in any way....let me tell you I have heard some horror

stories and it is so unfair and down right ugly and wrong. I wish you

the best in what you are going to do next. I pray for wisdom and

guidance for you as this is not easy, I know. When I was in the

hospital for two weeks for suicide, I was seen by th r/a team daily

and they were wonderful. It was at the hospital " University of Penn "

at 3400 Spruce st. They are now my r/a Dr's. and I am very happy with

them except that I do not want to start the metro.I will tell them on

my next visit that I didn't take it or maybe I will do more research

on it and end up taking it. They fixed my knees annd so walking was

easier. No more cane or walker. I wish you the best and pray that you

will find good care,Dr's you will be happy with and that will bevery

good for you in everyway. Hang in there. You are worth it.

Sincerly & with all my love, Marie

> > >

> > > Hi,

> > >

> > > I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

> > minutes with me. I thought the

> > > course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it

is

> > progressive. Is anyone here

> > > doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know

how

> > much more I can stand.

> > > I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

> > ever since. I was a nurse and

> > > have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

> > these posts really has me worried.

> > >

> > > One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease

activity?

> > Mine is just a few points above

> > > normal but supposedly this is what I have.

> > >

> > > Thanks for the input on minocycline,

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

>

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Hi Marie,

I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are really

bad but mostly

Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and people

you

can trust.

On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad side

effects.

He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never know

by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might get

infected

and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of mtx

and I'll

be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live in

the South and

my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

All the best Marie and keep us posted.

-- In , " snowespi " <snowespi@...> wrote:

>

>

> Dear Really depressed, Wow! What you went through would make anyone

> depressed. I am sorry you had such a negative experience. Not to make

> light of it in any way....let me tell you I have heard some horror

> stories and it is so unfair and down right ugly and wrong. I wish you

> the best in what you are going to do next. I pray for wisdom and

> guidance for you as this is not easy, I know. When I was in the

> hospital for two weeks for suicide, I was seen by th r/a team daily

> and they were wonderful. It was at the hospital " University of Penn "

> at 3400 Spruce st. They are now my r/a Dr's. and I am very happy with

> them except that I do not want to start the metro.I will tell them on

> my next visit that I didn't take it or maybe I will do more research

> on it and end up taking it. They fixed my knees annd so walking was

> easier. No more cane or walker. I wish you the best and pray that you

> will find good care,Dr's you will be happy with and that will bevery

> good for you in everyway. Hang in there. You are worth it.

> Sincerly & with all my love, Marie

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> > > >

> > > > Hi,

> > > >

> > > > I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

> > > minutes with me. I thought the

> > > > course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it

> is

> > > progressive. Is anyone here

> > > > doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know

> how

> > > much more I can stand.

> > > > I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain

> > > ever since. I was a nurse and

> > > > have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

> > > these posts really has me worried.

> > > >

> > > > One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease

> activity?

> > > Mine is just a few points above

> > > > normal but supposedly this is what I have.

> > > >

> > > > Thanks for the input on minocycline,

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

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> She spends at

> least 45 minutes with me each time I see her -- she checks every

> joint -- hands, feet, knees, shoulders, elbows, hips, -- has me move

> my neck and jaw, looks at my spine, etc.>>>>>

>

My rheumie has never checked any of my joints! I have a feeling she is a

" hands off " doctor! Maybe it is something you could explain to all of us so we

could check our own?

What does she do?

Just have you move it and ask if it hurts, or what?

Could you give us a few examples?

Thanks, she sounds great,

Pris

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Hi !

I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

©x© Kami ©x©

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Hi Marie,

I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are really

bad but mostly

Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and people

you

can trust.

On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad side

effects.

He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never know

by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might get

infected

and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and I'll

be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live in

the South and

my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

All the best Marie and keep us posted.

.

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, where in the south do you live? What airport do you go to? You

should not have to be flying across the country to find good care --

or come here to Chicago and see my doctor. I love her. She spends at

least 45 minutes with me each time I see her -- she checks every

joint -- hands, feet, knees, shoulders, elbows, hips, -- has me move

my neck and jaw, looks at my spine, etc. My husband goes to these

appointments because he has so many questions and I never learn

enough to satisfy him (he's also a physician).

I saw her this morning and got a good report -- not remission, but

definitely control. The fluid on my knees has really diminished. I

have stopped taking the anti inflammatories/pain meds and I can

manage well. It's not like before RA (fatigue is still pretty

strong) but I could easily live like this the rest of my life (if I

am so lucky ...). Email me if you want to 'talk'.

Bonnie

> > >

> > > Hi,

> > >

> > > I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5

> > minutes with me. I thought the

> > > course of this disease was variable but now I have read that

it is

> > progressive. Is anyone here

> > > doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know

how

> > much more I can stand.

> > > I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA

pain

> > ever since. I was a nurse and

> > > have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading

> > these posts really has me worried.

> > >

> > > One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease

activity?

> > Mine is just a few points above

> > > normal but supposedly this is what I have.

> > >

> > > Thanks for the input on minocycline,

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

>

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Hi Kami,

I live in Savannah. A great city to visit but lacking doctors. Where do you

live?

>

> Hi !

>

> I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

>

>

> ©x© Kami ©x©

>

> [ ] Re: really depressed

>

>

> Hi Marie,

>

> I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

> doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are

really bad but

mostly

> Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and

people

you

> can trust.

>

> On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad

side

effects.

> He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never

know

> by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might

get

infected

> and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and

I'll

> be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live

in the South and

> my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

>

> All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> .

>

>

>

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I live in Pennsylvania where it is fffffffreezing!

I am all too familiar with not having adequate care. There are no

rheumatologists in my county and I had been traveling 30 miles to see one but

after the scleritis/RA thing, I decided to get a second opinion/clarification of

diagnosis. I traveled nearly 2 hours to meet this doctor. Let me tell you.... I

have never had such a thorough exam in my life. To me, it was worth the 2 hour

drive and two hours spent in the office. Yes, HOURS. The first hour or so was

with the nurse practitioner and then 45 mins or so with the doctor. I am

confident that this is the office where I need to continue my care.

Question: Is there a particular reason that you are traveling so far to see

these particular doctors? We havent taken a family vacation in two years because

traveling EXHAUSTS me. I can't imagine traveling around the country and then

having a doctor dismiss me after 5 mins. I would be PISSED!!!! What about

university hospitals? teaching hospitals?

©x© Kami ©x©

[ ] Re: really depressed

>

>

> Hi Marie,

>

> I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

> doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are

really bad but

mostly

> Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and

people

you

> can trust.

>

> On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad

side

effects.

> He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never

know

> by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might

get

infected

> and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and

I'll

> be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live

in the South and

> my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

>

> All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> .

>

>

>

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Hi Pris -- I don't know how to explain it exactly. She has me make

fists -- open and close my hands. She feels each joint in each

finger -- looking for swelling, warmth or tenderness. She is

checking flexibility and mobility. My neck is kind of stiff for

example -- so she asks if I am doing my exercises and then she sees

if I am better or worse or the same as my last visit. She has me lie

on my back and raises my legs, bends my knees, feels the knees to

see if they are still swollen (they were a big problem for awhile),

and so on. She checks the tendonitis I have had in my wrists. She is

looking to see if I still clinically present RA. I don't really have

many visible signs anymore, except some of the limited range of

motion in my neck and my shoulders. She won't check my labs again

for several months -- but she spends a lot of time in the physical

exam every time I go. She's a great doctor. She really cares about

my progress, pain and discomfort. I can tell I am lucky -- you hear

a lot of different stories on these boards.

I don't know how a doctor can evaluate and diagnose you properly

without really examining your body -- this disease is not based

solely on lab work but also on clinical presentation. You might want

to check out someone else if you have any other options. I hope that

helps.

Bonnie

> > She spends at

> > least 45 minutes with me each time I see her -- she checks every

> > joint -- hands, feet, knees, shoulders, elbows, hips, -- has me

move

> > my neck and jaw, looks at my spine, etc.>>>>>

> >

> My rheumie has never checked any of my joints! I have a feeling

she is a

> " hands off " doctor! Maybe it is something you could explain to all

of us so we

> could check our own?

> What does she do?

> Just have you move it and ask if it hurts, or what?

> Could you give us a few examples?

> Thanks, she sounds great,

> Pris

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> **************

> Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape.

>

> http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?

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>

>

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Hi - I was reading your post and saw that you live in Savannah - I live in

Flroence, SC and have an appointment with Holly next week at the

Medical University of SC in ton. Have you been to MUSC yet? I had a

wonderful rheumy here but after treating me for 2 1/2 years, he decided to refer

me to a specialist at the University. My choice was MUSC or Duke. For me, Duke

is the best but too far away. I heard great things about MUSC so I opted for the

shortest drive, 1 hr 45 min.

D.

savannahhipchick <lfriedman5@...> wrote:

Hi Kami,

I live in Savannah. A great city to visit but lacking doctors. Where do you

live?

>

> Hi !

>

> I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

>

>

> ©x© Kami ©x©

>

> [ ] Re: really depressed

>

>

> Hi Marie,

>

> I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

> doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are really

bad but

mostly

> Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and people

you

> can trust.

>

> On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad side

effects.

> He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never

know

> by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might get

infected

> and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and

I'll

> be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live in

the South and

> my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

>

> All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> .

>

>

>

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Hi D.!

We're almost neighbors. I did in fact go to MUSC about four years ago. I saw

Edwin

. He did take time with me but absolutely felt I had no rheumatic disease.

When I

saw him I had a positive ANA history, positive history of mildly elevated RF.

My hips were

bone on bone and I had livedo and the start of raynauds. I don't know...I

thought about

going back but I get the feeling they are really into Scleroderma only.

Nobody has an explanation about my hips. Nobody. I was bone on bone at 41. I

am a

strange case. Let me know how it goes for you.

> >

> > Hi !

> >

> > I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

> >

> >

> > ©x© Kami ©x©

> >

> > [ ] Re: really depressed

> >

> >

> > Hi Marie,

> >

> > I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

> > doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> > should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are

really bad but

> mostly

> > Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and

people

> you

> > can trust.

> >

> > On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad

side

> effects.

> > He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never

> know

> > by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might

get

> infected

> > and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and

> I'll

> > be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live

in the South

and

> > my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

> >

> > All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> > .

> >

> >

> >

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Well, I am kind of nervous about going because you just never know if you will

hit it off with the doctor. I hope it goes well. I loved my doctor here - I was

seeing J. Harrell Docherty, Jr. He was one of the best doctors I think I have

ever seen. Have you seen an orthopedic doctor about your hips?

D.

savannahhipchick <lfriedman5@...> wrote:

Hi D.!

We're almost neighbors. I did in fact go to MUSC about four years ago. I saw

Edwin

. He did take time with me but absolutely felt I had no rheumatic disease.

When I

saw him I had a positive ANA history, positive history of mildly elevated RF. My

hips were

bone on bone and I had livedo and the start of raynauds. I don't know...I

thought about

going back but I get the feeling they are really into Scleroderma only.

Nobody has an explanation about my hips. Nobody. I was bone on bone at 41. I am

a

strange case. Let me know how it goes for you.

> >

> > Hi !

> >

> > I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

> >

> >

> > ©x© Kami ©x©

> >

> > [ ] Re: really depressed

> >

> >

> > Hi Marie,

> >

> > I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What is

with

> > doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> > should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are

really bad but

> mostly

> > Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and

people

> you

> > can trust.

> >

> > On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad

side

> effects.

> > He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically you'd

never

> know

> > by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might

get

> infected

> > and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week of

mtx and

> I'll

> > be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live

in the South

and

> > my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

> >

> > All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> > .

> >

> >

> >

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Oh Kami,

I am PISSED and HEARTBROKEN. I went to this same guy 3.5 years ago and he blew

me

off. I showed him 3.5years ago that my elbows were were developing contractures

and

my index finger was bending etc... All he said was lose weight!

This time, I did not disrobe. I was with a resident who knew zero about

rheumatology and

the doctor flew in and out. I tried to ask about splints but all he said was

one thing at a

time. Meds first. This is a very major medical center. Now I'm crying all

day. On and off.

My kids are really the ones to feel bad for, they have cripple mom. Thay've had

cripple

mom their whole life but I thought after hip surgeries I'd be much better. The

hips are

great but I can hardly stand on my feet. This doctor did not even explain

anything about

RA! Hence my presence here.

Thanks,

> >

> > Hi !

> >

> > I have been reading your posts and am wondering where you are in the US.

> >

> >

> > ©x© Kami ©x©

> >

> > [ ] Re: really depressed

> >

> >

> > Hi Marie,

> >

> > I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated suicide. What

is with

> > doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I just don't think

your pain

> > should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if things are

really bad but

> mostly

> > Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good medical team and

people

> you

> > can trust.

> >

> > On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years with no bad

side

> effects.

> > He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times. Basically

you'd never

> know

> > by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my new hips might

get

> infected

> > and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic balding. One week

of mtx

and

> I'll

> > be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six years now. I live

in the South

and

> > my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not excite me.

> >

> > All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> > .

> >

> >

> >

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> > I live in Pennsylvania where it is fffffffreezing!

> >

> > I am all too familiar with not having adequate care. There are

no rheumatologists in my

> county and I had been traveling 30 miles to see one but after the

scleritis/RA thing, I

> decided to get a second opinion/clarification of diagnosis. I

traveled nearly 2 hours to

> meet this doctor. Let me tell you.... I have never had such a

thorough exam in my life. To

> me, it was worth the 2 hour drive and two hours spent in the

office. Yes, HOURS. The first

> hour or so was with the nurse practitioner and then 45 mins or so

with the doctor. I am

> confident that this is the office where I need to continue my

care.

> >

> > Question: Is there a particular reason that you are traveling so

far to see these particular

> doctors? We havent taken a family vacation in two years because

traveling EXHAUSTS me. I

> can't imagine traveling around the country and then having a

doctor dismiss me after 5

> mins. I would be PISSED!!!! What about university hospitals?

teaching hospitals?

> >

> > ©x© Kami ©x©

> >

> > [ ] Re: really depressed

> > >

> > >

> > > Hi Marie,

> > >

> > > I'm so sorry you were in so much pain that you contemplated

suicide. What is with

> > > doctors in the US? There are people who need narcotics. I

just don't think your pain

> > > should have reached that level. I get relief from Vicodin if

things are really bad but

> > mostly

> > > Celebrex has me covered. I'm so happy you found a good

medical team and people

> > you

> > > can trust.

> > >

> > > On the upside, I know a man who has been on mtx for 13 years

with no bad side

> > effects.

> > > He has an occasional pain in his shoulder and knee at times.

Basically you'd never

> > know

> > > by seeing him that he has RA. I'm afraid of mtx because my

new hips might get

> > infected

> > > and my kidneys are stressed already and I have genetic

balding. One week of mtx

> and

> > I'll

> > > be bald. I've been struggling with the hair loss for six

years now. I live in the South

> and

> > > my kids like to be outside so the idea of a wig does not

excite me.

> > >

> > > All the best Marie and keep us posted.

> > > .

> > >

> > >

> > >

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*chimes in*

Mine checks my joints each visit as well. Sounds like the same

procedure. He physically examines my hands, touching each joint,

asking me to move them, my knees, ankles, feet. Has me raise my arms,

bend my elbows, knees, etc to check for range of motion. He always

listens to my lungs and heart and checks my lymph glands.

He's very thorough.

Kim

>

> Hi Pris -- I don't know how to explain it exactly. She has me make

> fists -- open and close my hands. She feels each joint in each

> finger -- looking for swelling, warmth or tenderness. She is

> checking flexibility and mobility. My neck is kind of stiff for

> example -- so she asks if I am doing my exercises and then she sees

> if I am better or worse or the same as my last visit. She has me lie

> on my back and raises my legs, bends my knees, feels the knees to

> see if they are still swollen (they were a big problem for awhile),

> and so on. She checks the tendonitis I have had in my wrists. She is

> looking to see if I still clinically present RA. I don't really have

> many visible signs anymore, except some of the limited range of

> motion in my neck and my shoulders. She won't check my labs again

> for several months -- but she spends a lot of time in the physical

> exam every time I go. She's a great doctor. She really cares about

> my progress, pain and discomfort. I can tell I am lucky -- you hear

> a lot of different stories on these boards.

>

> I don't know how a doctor can evaluate and diagnose you properly

> without really examining your body -- this disease is not based

> solely on lab work but also on clinical presentation. You might want

> to check out someone else if you have any other options. I hope that

> helps.

>

> Bonnie

>

> > > She spends at

> > > least 45 minutes with me each time I see her -- she checks every

> > > joint -- hands, feet, knees, shoulders, elbows, hips, -- has me

> move

> > > my neck and jaw, looks at my spine, etc.>>>>>

> > >

> > My rheumie has never checked any of my joints! I have a feeling

> she is a

> > " hands off " doctor! Maybe it is something you could explain to all

> of us so we

> > could check our own?

> > What does she do?

> > Just have you move it and ask if it hurts, or what?

> > Could you give us a few examples?

> > Thanks, she sounds great,

> > Pris

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > **************

> > Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape.

> >

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> >

> >

> >

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,

Plenty of people with RA do very well. Please keep in mind that it's likely

that those with more problems than average join groups like this one.

RF does not necessarily reflect disease activity.

Not an MD

> [ ] really depressed

>

> Hi,

>

> I was was just diagnosed last week. the doctor spent all of 5 minutes

with me. I

> thought the

> course of this disease was variable but now I have read that it is

progressive. Is

> anyone here

> doing well or know of anyone doing well with RA? I don't know how much

more I can

> stand.

> I just replaced two hips, five weeks apart and have had RA pain ever

since. I was a

> nurse and

> have seen suffering. I'm not into life at any cost. Reading these posts

really has me

> worried.

>

> One more question. Does the RF level reflect disease activity? Mine is

just a few

> points above

> normal but supposedly this is what I have.

>

> Thanks for the input on minocycline,

>

>

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