Guest guest Posted October 8, 2008 Report Share Posted October 8, 2008 Well I bet most or all wives say that to themselves. " what do I say? What can I do? to make him feel better? " is having nightmares every night and now he is having them about having skin cancer or bone. I am not sleeping cause he is not sleeping. He is having alot of bad days. I have bought cards that express my feelings and made him a video with our wedding song and pics of the 2 of us together. I just don't know how to make it a bit better so at least he can rest. I am giving him knock out pills so he will fall asleep but he wakes with bad dreams. We do discuss them and he feels a bit better after. But still what can I do? My other issue is how do I respond to this comment he is having? " I feel I will be less of a man after the surgery cause I will not be able to ejaculate and possibly get it up. " I tell him that in my eyes he will always be the same man. But what can I say. Any ideas guys or gals? Just need a few pointers. Cause he is definatly having the surgery. Marla Just need some ideas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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