Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Hi Jan, Well I've been hurt a lot in my life. I do not like to dwell on the hurt but it's a fact. I was married to an abuser. He hit me a lot and even tried to kill me once. So I'm not comfortable with men. I've been divorce for a long time now and on my own. The last time I dated we got along really well but he dumped me for his ex-wife. So I'm just not sure about relationships anymore. But I am trying because being alone isn't good either. By the way, I'm not alone in actuality anymore. I now live with a family. So that is not being alone but still its different from having a special somebody. Kay Re: Obscessive ?Thoughts > In a message dated 2/15/02 9:26:42 PM Central Standard Time, > marykay@... writes: > > > > >I'm trying to have a relationship with a guy for the first time > > >in over 4 years and I'm scared to death. I think that this is the stress > > >that is now getting to me like this. > > Hi Kay, > > I am SO happy for you and the new relationship! Hurrah!! > > But then again I don't l like to hear about all the added stress it has > caused you. Could you share why you are 'scared to death'? I met 18 yr. > ago (we met in a bar :-) Even though I had some male friends before him, he > scared me. I don't really know why. When I look back on it now, maybe I was > afraid of love? > > Hugs, > Jan mom to (16 mo.) CHARGE > wife to > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Why not adopting a child? Chantelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 In a message dated 2/16/02 11:18:15 AM Central Standard Time, charge@... writes: > When he plays ith his > plastic dinos they HAVE to be grouped by herbivor or carnivor, > That is so funny. Mark plays with legos like that he puts them all in groups. The same with anything that is alike. He is very particular about a LOT of things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Kay, Aari too is really OCD on some things.. When he plays ith his plastic dinos they HAVE to be grouped by herbivor or carnivor, when he goes to bed he has to have two certain pillows that have to be in the same place every night (to the point of messing with them for 5 to 10 minutes before getting them right) and it takes him forever to put on socks because they have to be " just right " . Ther are other things too probably to long to list LOL Casey Mom to Dawn 23 HH, Ken 12 ADHD, 10 CHARGE ICQ 728514 AIM ZeeCasey CHARGE Web Page: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/1220 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Kay, Aari too is really OCD on some things.. When he plays ith his plastic dinos they HAVE to be grouped by herbivor or carnivor, when he goes to bed he has to have two certain pillows that have to be in the same place every night (to the point of messing with them for 5 to 10 minutes before getting them right) and it takes him forever to put on socks because they have to be " just right " . Ther are other things too probably to long to list LOL Casey Mom to Dawn 23 HH, Ken 12 ADHD, 10 CHARGE ICQ 728514 AIM ZeeCasey CHARGE Web Page: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/1220 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Hi Casey, When I was a child I was that way about my marbles. I would group them according to color and size and all kinds of things. (I could see a little back then.) Kay Re: Obscessive ?Thoughts > Kay, > > Aari too is really OCD on some things.. When he plays ith his > plastic dinos they HAVE to be grouped by herbivor or carnivor, > when he goes to bed he has to have two certain pillows that have > to be in the same place every night (to the point of messing with > them for 5 to 10 minutes before getting them right) and it takes him > forever to put on socks because they have to be " just right " . Ther > are other things too probably to long to list LOL > > > Casey > Mom to Dawn 23 HH, Ken 12 ADHD, 10 CHARGE > ICQ 728514 AIM ZeeCasey > CHARGE Web Page: > http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/1220 > > > Membership of this email support groups does not constitute membership in the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation. > For information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter) > please contact marion@... or visit > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation web page > at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > 6th International CHARGE Syndrome Conference, Cleveland, Ohio, > July 25-27, 2003. Information will be available at our website > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2002 Report Share Posted February 16, 2002 Hi Casey, When I was a child I was that way about my marbles. I would group them according to color and size and all kinds of things. (I could see a little back then.) Kay Re: Obscessive ?Thoughts > Kay, > > Aari too is really OCD on some things.. When he plays ith his > plastic dinos they HAVE to be grouped by herbivor or carnivor, > when he goes to bed he has to have two certain pillows that have > to be in the same place every night (to the point of messing with > them for 5 to 10 minutes before getting them right) and it takes him > forever to put on socks because they have to be " just right " . Ther > are other things too probably to long to list LOL > > > Casey > Mom to Dawn 23 HH, Ken 12 ADHD, 10 CHARGE > ICQ 728514 AIM ZeeCasey > CHARGE Web Page: > http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/1220 > > > Membership of this email support groups does not constitute membership in the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation. > For information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter) > please contact marion@... or visit > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation web page > at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > 6th International CHARGE Syndrome Conference, Cleveland, Ohio, > July 25-27, 2003. Information will be available at our website > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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