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Hi Group,

Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my performance was

not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of work,

sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times i'm happy and

friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made a few

mistakes.

I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in there, and have

developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist very soon.

My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so we'll see

what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when I told him

what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a Drs. note

back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note, he explains

about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please have me

park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am now getting a

handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my hips. In any

case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health insurance,

but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know things seem

to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting a dime more

from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a flex fund

where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an official verbal

warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her points, and

forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it might hurt. I

just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and commented

on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a day of

work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and was out on

Drs.

orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating that we met

and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday I received a

call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me that with

all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may have to

terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of 8 and

received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed was done. I

don't

feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe that the

correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any input would be

greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know, we have no

idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time getting past 3

pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond brutal. I had

to leave. Thanks for listening.

Heidi

Massachusetts

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Hi,

I have put a call into mass commission on discrimination, see what they have

to say. If anything, my lawyer said that they can rattle their cage. I also

found out that they won't pay my health ins. past April 30th.

Heidi

To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/6/2008 11:44:54 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

kalfoley@... writes:

Heidi, I'm really sorry to hear that you weren't successful in securing

medical leave, and that your position was terminated. Do you have pro bono

legal

services in your area that might see you for a consultation?

[ ] Job Loss

Hi Group,

Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my performance was

not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of work,

sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times i'm happy

and

friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made a few

mistakes.

I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in there, and have

developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist very

soon.

My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so we'll see

what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when I told him

what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a Drs. note

back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note, he explains

about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please have me

park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am now getting

a

handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my hips. In any

case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health insurance,

but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know things seem

to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting a dime more

from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a flex fund

where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an official

verbal

warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her points,

and

forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it might hurt. I

just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and commented

on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a day of

work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and was out on

Drs.

orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating that we met

and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday I received

a

call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me that with

all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may have to

terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of 8 and

received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed was done. I

don't

feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe that the

correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any input would be

greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know, we have no

idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time getting past

3

pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond brutal. I

had

to leave. Thanks for listening.

Heidi

Massachusetts

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Thank you. I have called my lawyer and got a number for the discrimination

commission. They have not called me back yet. Will keep the list posted.

Heidi

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explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/6/2008 2:35:17 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

ortizd73@... writes:

Heidi,

What they have done to you is outrageous. They never provided you

with a verbal warning like you said. They are just trying to get rid

of you so they will no longer pay for your treatment. I would get

some legal action towards them, there were never any problems or

issues concerning your work before you were diagnosed, so to me this

is a clear case of discrimination. I am tired of people no

understanding the pain that we go through and just because we feel

better one day does not mean we are cured. Focus on taking care of

yourself and do not be afraid to ask for help from family and friends

and look into getting assistance for medical treatment. However, do

not let these people treat you this way> If they want you to leave so

badly then they should pay you a severance.

Good luck and I will pray for you.

Ortiz

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

dont, no

> explanation is possible

>

>

>

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Heidi, I'm really sorry to hear that you weren't successful in securing medical

leave, and that your position was terminated.  Do you have pro bono legal

services in your area that might see you for a consultation?

[ ] Job Loss

Hi Group,

Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my performance was

not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of work,

sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times i'm happy and

friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made a few

mistakes.

I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in there, and have

developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist very soon.

My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so we'll see

what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when I told him

what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a Drs. note

back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note, he explains

about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please have me

park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am now getting a

handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my hips. In any

case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health insurance,

but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know things seem

to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting a dime more

from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a flex fund

where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an official verbal

warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her points, and

forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it might hurt. I

just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and commented

on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a day of

work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and was out on

Drs.

orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating that we met

and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday I received a

call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me that with

all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may have to

terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of 8 and

received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed was done. I

don't

feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe that the

correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any input would be

greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know, we have no

idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time getting past 3

pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond brutal. I had

to leave. Thanks for listening.

Heidi

Massachusetts

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Heidi,

What they have done to you is outrageous. They never provided you

with a verbal warning like you said. They are just trying to get rid

of you so they will no longer pay for your treatment. I would get

some legal action towards them, there were never any problems or

issues concerning your work before you were diagnosed, so to me this

is a clear case of discrimination. I am tired of people no

understanding the pain that we go through and just because we feel

better one day does not mean we are cured. Focus on taking care of

yourself and do not be afraid to ask for help from family and friends

and look into getting assistance for medical treatment. However, do

not let these people treat you this way> If they want you to leave so

badly then they should pay you a severance.

Good luck and I will pray for you.

Ortiz

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

dont, no

> explanation is possible

>

>

>

> **************Wondering what's for Dinner Tonight? Get new twists

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Hi there!

I think what you say is on target. I heard back from the discrimination

commission. They want me to come in to formally file a complaint. Now I'm just

re-thinking it and re-thinking it. Can it hurt my unemployment?

Heidi

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In a message dated 5/6/2008 7:23:05 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

stephieann2@... writes:

I had the same problem happen. They made me use my vacation and personal

days for doctors visits and never offered me FMLA. They never gave me a warning

either. When I did seek legal council they said that attendance was mandatory

in the description. Then I tried working for temp agencies, and due to

doctors visits and health issues, no one wanted me to stay long term. I was

advised that this is because insurance is so expensive and for those that are

ill,

they simply don't want the high premiums and expenses. My uncle also had a

similar problem. He was a truck driver and was in an accident that was not his

fault nor was he ticketed. yet the company terminated him in case of any

lawsuits. He contacted several lawyers, and even state agencies, and no one

helped him. He didn't get his job back or his severance. It seems to me that

many

employers treat us as a number or a robot and once we aren't expendable to

them they seem to have no problem sending us on their

way no matter how long or how hard we work for them. I think they definitely

need to be held accountable for discrimination though

_sposy@..._ (mailto:sposy@...) wrote: Thank you. I have called my

lawyer and got a number for the discrimination

commission. They have not called me back yet. Will keep the list posted.

Heidi

To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/6/2008 2:35:17 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

_ortizd73@..._ (mailto:ortizd73@...) writes:

Heidi,

What they have done to you is outrageous. They never provided you

with a verbal warning like you said. They are just trying to get rid

of you so they will no longer pay for your treatment. I would get

some legal action towards them, there were never any problems or

issues concerning your work before you were diagnosed, so to me this

is a clear case of discrimination. I am tired of people no

understanding the pain that we go through and just because we feel

better one day does not mean we are cured. Focus on taking care of

yourself and do not be afraid to ask for help from family and friends

and look into getting assistance for medical treatment. However, do

not let these people treat you this way> If they want you to leave so

badly then they should pay you a severance.

Good luck and I will pray for you.

Ortiz

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

dont, no

> explanation is possible

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I had the same problem happen. They made me use my vacation and personal days

for doctors visits and never offered me FMLA. They never gave me a warning

either. When I did seek legal council they said that attendance was mandatory

in the description. Then I tried working for temp agencies, and due to doctors

visits and health issues, no one wanted me to stay long term. I was advised

that this is because insurance is so expensive and for those that are ill, they

simply don't want the high premiums and expenses. My uncle also had a similar

problem. He was a truck driver and was in an accident that was not his fault

nor was he ticketed. yet the company terminated him in case of any lawsuits.

He contacted several lawyers, and even state agencies, and no one helped him.

He didn't get his job back or his severance. It seems to me that many employers

treat us as a number or a robot and once we aren't expendable to them they seem

to have no problem sending us on their

way no matter how long or how hard we work for them. I think they definitely

need to be held accountable for discrimination though

sposy@... wrote: Thank you. I have called my

lawyer and got a number for the discrimination

commission. They have not called me back yet. Will keep the list posted.

Heidi

To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/6/2008 2:35:17 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

ortizd73@... writes:

Heidi,

What they have done to you is outrageous. They never provided you

with a verbal warning like you said. They are just trying to get rid

of you so they will no longer pay for your treatment. I would get

some legal action towards them, there were never any problems or

issues concerning your work before you were diagnosed, so to me this

is a clear case of discrimination. I am tired of people no

understanding the pain that we go through and just because we feel

better one day does not mean we are cured. Focus on taking care of

yourself and do not be afraid to ask for help from family and friends

and look into getting assistance for medical treatment. However, do

not let these people treat you this way> If they want you to leave so

badly then they should pay you a severance.

Good luck and I will pray for you.

Ortiz

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

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Me and my husband have gone through something simular. My husband

was a teacher and threw a football to one of his students and ended

up tearing his rotater cuff. The school discrict refused to renew

his contract because was considered " high risk " . He was pretty much

black-listed from teaching in the state. Ever since then, he has had

a difficult time finding employment. I know it's not from a lack of

trying.

For me, I was never offered FMLA because I was still considered

a " new hire " when I was in the hospital for a few months. (I had

already passed my probation peroid). I was fired because I missed

more then 33% in my first year of employment. Looking back at it, I

had a feeling they were going to fire me when I got sick, but I

figured I worked for a hospital and they would understand my

situation. I was wrong. When I tried to get on at other hospitals,

no one would return my calls. I think I was discriminated against

because of my health issues. (My hospital bill was about $450,000; I

wonder of I was considered a " risky " hire). I would go on interviews

and it would take all the energy that I had for that day and the

next. That is when I knew it was time for me to file for SSDI.

My friend who has lupus who worked w/ me at the hospital was let go

due to her excessive absences. She had been there for years and she

wasn't offered FMLA either. She has refused to talk to a lawyer, even

though we were basically fired because of our health.

The way I look at is that karma is a bitch.

> >

> > Hi Group,

> >

> > Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

> performance was

> > not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

> work,

> > sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

> i'm happy and

> > friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've

made

> a few mistakes.

> > I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

> there, and have

> > developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a

neurologist

> very soon.

> > My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner,

so

> we'll see

> > what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and

when

> I told him

> > what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me

a

> Drs. note

> > back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his

note,

> he explains

> > about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to

please

> have me

> > park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I

am

> now getting a

> > handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

> hips. In any

> > case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have

health

> insurance,

> > but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I

know

> things seem

> > to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not

getting

> a dime more

> > from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

> flex fund

> > where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

> official verbal

> > warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand

her

> points, and

> > forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

> might hurt. I

> > just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed

and

> commented

> > on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing

a

> day of

> > work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips

and

> was out on Drs.

> > orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> > From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

> that we met

> > and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last

Wednesday

> I received a

> > call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told

me

> that with

> > all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they

may

> have to

> > terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time

of

> 8 and

> > received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

> was done. I don't

> > feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't

believe

> that the

> > correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

> input would be

> > greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you

know,

> we have no

> > idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

> getting past 3

> > pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was

beyond

> brutal. I had

> > to leave. Thanks for listening.

> >

> > Heidi

> > Massachusetts

> >

> > To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

> dont, no

> > explanation is possible

> >

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I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your job. I use to work for Dell

computer corp. I had a very similar experience. I got hurt on the job.

tendonitis from repetitive motion injury. I spent about a month bent over

boxes

using a pneumatic box stapler. AFter many trips to OCC med and therapist it

kept coming back. This is when the occ Doc looked at my personal lab results

and medical records and discovered what my family doc had missed for two

years. RA!

When I was so sick due to side effects of MTX and such...I took Short Term

disability. It went fine...but when I hurt my ankle they would not play. I

had been in and out for over a year. They started sending me home for

anything. You can't work in walking boot. Then finally they sent me a

nastygram...come back to work and find a new job in the next 90 days or you are

fired.

But they would sabotage every attempt to find a new job as they would tell

that group of managers how useless I was...I was fired. I thought about going

after Dell...and what I had to really look at was what did I really want? I

knew I no longer wanted to work for a company that had no value on their

employees...and saw older employees(30 plus), women of childbearing age and

those

with disabilities as liabilities. A company that openly practiced ADA, age,

race and sex discrimination...So I decided...I would take my money and my

unemployment and run. I also had my Long term disability.

I used my monetary resources until they ran out....they found some lame

reason to terminate my LTD after 3 yrs....At first I thought this was bad...now

it was the best thing they ever could have done. I have started my own

business and I work in my terms! and I LOVE IT!

Decide what you want as the outcome of this....I wanted peace, less stress

and freedom.

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In 1991, the company I worked for for more than 19 years just laid me off

after promises of doing all possible to keep me as long as I can talk and

answer the phone. When I finally looked into the ADA, it said emphatically,

the company, employing more than 20 workers MUST spend up to $25,000 for

each disabled worker, if they want to. There has been some improvement in

rules but still have a long way to go. The way I stayed afloat was through

unemployment insurance that was extended 2 more times because I was still

saying I wanted to work even with my disabilities. Then, I had to cash in my

retirement savings, sold a number of old cars I'd collected, and any other

manner of buying more meds. Finally, after 2 full years, I finally got SSD.

It was still tough until Part D came along. Now I don't have many worries,

and hope it stays that way.

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On Tue, May 6, 2008 at 6:22 PM, stephanie <stephieann2@...> wrote:

> I had the same problem happen. They made me use my vacation and personal

> days for doctors visits and never offered me FMLA. They never gave me a

> warning either. When I did seek legal council they said that attendance was

> mandatory in the description. Then I tried working for temp agencies, and

> due to doctors visits and health issues, no one wanted me to stay long term.

> I was advised that this is because insurance is so expensive and for those

> that are ill, they simply don't want the high premiums and expenses. My

> uncle also had a similar problem. He was a truck driver and was in an

> accident that was not his fault nor was he ticketed. yet the company

> terminated him in case of any lawsuits. He contacted several lawyers, and

> even state agencies, and no one helped him. He didn't get his job back or

> his severance. It seems to me that many employers treat us as a number or a

> robot and once we aren't expendable to them they seem to have no problem

> sending us on their

> way no matter how long or how hard we work for them. I think they

> definitely need to be held accountable for discrimination though

>

> sposy@... <sposy%40aol.com> wrote: Thank you. I have called my lawyer

> and got a number for the discrimination

> commission. They have not called me back yet. Will keep the list posted.

>

> Heidi

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

> explanation is possible

>

> In a message dated 5/6/2008 2:35:17 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

> ortizd73@... <ortizd73%40> writes:

>

> Heidi,

> What they have done to you is outrageous. They never provided you

> with a verbal warning like you said. They are just trying to get rid

> of you so they will no longer pay for your treatment. I would get

> some legal action towards them, there were never any problems or

> issues concerning your work before you were diagnosed, so to me this

> is a clear case of discrimination. I am tired of people no

> understanding the pain that we go through and just because we feel

> better one day does not mean we are cured. Focus on taking care of

> yourself and do not be afraid to ask for help from family and friends

> and look into getting assistance for medical treatment. However, do

> not let these people treat you this way> If they want you to leave so

> badly then they should pay you a severance.

>

> Good luck and I will pray for you.

> Ortiz

>

>

> >

> > Hi Group,

> >

> > Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

> performance was

> > not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

> work,

> > sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

> i'm happy and

> > friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

> a few mistakes.

> > I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

> there, and have

> > developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

> very soon.

> > My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

> we'll see

> > what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

> I told him

> > what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

> Drs. note

> > back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

> he explains

> > about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

> have me

> > park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

> now getting a

> > handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

> hips. In any

> > case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

> insurance,

> > but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

> things seem

> > to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

> a dime more

> > from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

> flex fund

> > where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

> official verbal

> > warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

> points, and

> > forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

> might hurt. I

> > just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

> commented

> > on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

> day of

> > work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

> was out on Drs.

> > orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> > From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

> that we met

> > and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

> I received a

> > call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

> that with

> > all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

> have to

> > terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

> 8 and

> > received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

> was done. I don't

> > feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

> that the

> > correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

> input would be

> > greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

> we have no

> > idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

> getting past 3

> > pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

> brutal. I had

> > to leave. Thanks for listening.

> >

> > Heidi

> > Massachusetts

> >

> > To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

> dont, no

> > explanation is possible

> >

> >

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Hi Kami,

Thank you very much. I don't want that job back. I'd always be looking over

my shoulders and I'd be a wreck everytime I had to call out sick or maybe

leave early for a Drs. appt. I have an interview today at 11 am, so we'll see

how that goes. Never hurts to try again. I don't want to do disability yet.

I'm not at that point yet.

Heidi

To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/7/2008 7:20:27 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

kamilleon@... writes:

Heidi,

I do not have anything to offer other than my sheer sorrow for the loss of

your job. I hope that whoever you contact will help you get your job back and

prevent this from happening to anyone else.

(((HUG)))

*~ Kami ~*

[ ] Job Loss

Hi Group,

Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my performance was

not up to par.

..

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I agree with you, but I got nothing. I don't even have long term disability.

I also want peace as I pretty much stated in my last email. Isn't it awful

how companies can just black ball you all over the place?

Heidi

To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who dont, no

explanation is possible

In a message dated 5/7/2008 7:34:50 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

aclavern33@... writes:

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your job. I use to work for Dell

computer corp. I had a very similar experience. I got hurt on the job.

tendonitis from repetitive motion injury. I spent about a month bent over

boxes

using a pneumatic box stapler. AFter many trips to OCC med and therapist it

kept coming back. This is when the occ Doc looked at my personal lab results

and medical records and discovered what my family doc had missed for two

years. RA!

When I was so sick due to side effects of MTX and such...I took Short Term

disability. It went fine...but when I hurt my ankle they would not play. I

had been in and out for over a year. They started sending me home for

anything. You can't work in walking boot. Then finally they sent me a

nastygram...nastygram...<WBR>come back to work and find a new job in the

next 90 days o

But they would sabotage every attempt to find a new job as they would tell

that group of managers how useless I was...I was fired. I thought about

going

after Dell...and what I had to really look at was what did I really want? I

knew I no longer wanted to work for a company that had no value on their

employees...employees...<WBR>and saw older employees(30 plus), women of

childbearing

with disabilities as liabilities. A company that openly practiced ADA, age,

race and sex discrimination.race and sex discrimination.<WBR>..So I decided...

unemployment and run. I also had my Long term disability.

I used my monetary resources until they ran out....they found some lame

reason to terminate my LTD after 3 yrs....At first I thought this was

bad...now

it was the best thing they ever could have done. I have started my own

business and I work in my terms! and I LOVE IT!

Decide what you want as the outcome of this....I wanted peace, less stress

and freedom.

Toni

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Heidi,

I do not have anything to offer other than my sheer sorrow for the loss of your

job. I hope that whoever you contact will help you get your job back and prevent

this from happening to anyone else.

(((HUG)))

*~ Kami ~*

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Hi Group,

Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my performance was

not up to par.

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Well, in your case its even worst. Its a prime example of employers dumping

employees so they do NOT have to pay out benefits. You should have been on

STD or LTD....but they made sure they got rid of you before you go to that

point.

Its very sad. The blackballing makes me furious!!!! But we all learn from

mistakes. If I am ever working in corporate america again and faced with

the same problems I will get a lawyer quick to represent me....so they can not

screw me over.

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Hi MB,

Yes they knew. Please feel free to email me privately.

Heidi

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In a message dated 5/8/2008 1:56:06 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

funnybone831@... writes:

Heidi:

I am sorry about what happened to you. I am a Human Resources manager

in New York. Did the company know that you have a chronic illness?

You should consider speaking to the Department of Labor from your

state.

mb

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

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Heidi:

I am sorry about what happened to you. I am a Human Resources manager

in New York. Did the company know that you have a chronic illness?

You should consider speaking to the Department of Labor from your

state.

mb

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

dont, no

> explanation is possible

>

>

>

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I was in HR project manager when I too lost my job due to illness and the amount

of time off it caused. The Department of Labor is a good idea to try. I know

my uncle contacted them when he was hit in his semi by another driver, he was

determined not to be at fault in the accident, they still terminated him in case

of any lawsuits, and the Dept of Labor told him to call an attorney, but that

didn't seem to pan out either. Try all options though!!

funnybone831 <funnybone831@...> wrote: Heidi:

I am sorry about what happened to you. I am a Human Resources manager

in New York. Did the company know that you have a chronic illness?

You should consider speaking to the Department of Labor from your

state.

mb

>

> Hi Group,

>

> Well, it happened. Yesterday I lost my job. They said my

performance was

> not up to par. I don't work fast enough to handle the volume of

work,

> sometimes I look like i'm in pain or seem grump (but most times

i'm happy and

> friendly) but it brings down the team as they worry, and I've made

a few mistakes.

> I was open with them about RA, and then I got a little OA in

there, and have

> developed some cognitive issues for which I'm seeing a neurologist

very soon.

> My rheumatologist has stepped in to try to get me seen sooner, so

we'll see

> what happens. He prepared an FMLA form for me yesterday, and when

I told him

> what happened, he became very upset about it. He had written me a

Drs. note

> back in February, as my company does not have FMLA. In his note,

he explains

> about RA, what we are doing to put me in remission, and to please

have me

> park close to the building. This portion was never honored. I am

now getting a

> handicap placard temporarily due to the latest incident with my

hips. In any

> case, I will now be collecting unemployment and will have health

insurance,

> but my only worry there is that it all takes a few weeks. I know

things seem

> to take so long when you desperately need them. I am not getting

a dime more

> from my employer as they say I've used all my days, not even a

flex fund

> where I submitted my reciepts for scripts. I never received an

official verbal

> warning, I had a talk with my Supervisor, and I do understand her

points, and

> forced myself to work harder and faster inspite of how much it

might hurt. I

> just rubbed cream on, or took my pain pills. She even noticed and

commented

> on how much better I was doing. I went 6 weeks without missing a

day of

> work, then had 2 planned personal days, and then hurt my hips and

was out on Drs.

> orders for severe bursitis, requiring 2 shots.

> From that impromptu meeting, I was promised a document stating

that we met

> and when to review again, which I never recieved. Last Wednesday

I received a

> call from her and from the C.O.O, who is also an RN. She told me

that with

> all my absences, she's just trying to run a business and they may

have to

> terminate my employment. Yesterday, I got in at my normal time of

8 and

> received a meeting invitation for 11 and that is where the deed

was done. I don't

> feel right about this. It is a small company, but I don't believe

that the

> correct protocol was followed. Sorry this is so long, but any

input would be

> greatly appreciated. I do feel some relief, because as you know,

we have no

> idea how we'll feel from one day to the next. I had a hard time

getting past 3

> pm without hand pain, and when my hips hurt, omg that was beyond

brutal. I had

> to leave. Thanks for listening.

>

> Heidi

> Massachusetts

>

> To those who believe, no explanation is necessary; to those who

dont, no

> explanation is possible

>

>

>

> **************Wondering what's for Dinner Tonight? Get new twists

on family

> favorites at AOL Food.

> (http://food.aol.com/dinner-tonight?NCID=aolfod00030000000001)

>

>

>

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