Guest guest Posted September 23, 2008 Report Share Posted September 23, 2008 Shirley and group; Amen to that Shirley, yes, my parents are the best friends I will ever have. To those that have relatives or step parents or adoctopted parents to raise you and love you dearly I mean for you too as parents being our best friends. My Mom and Dad are my heros. Dad passed away about 11 years ago. I do deal with it better. I think of him each and every day. A certain song I hear would bring my eyes to tears though. AS now while I tell about him my eyes are burning and getting very moist. I call mommy everyday and tell her I love her. She is 75 and is full of life. God has healed her of every condition she had. Some of the conditions took many years to be healed, my God is an on time God. When we finally take out last breath please remember the bible says it is appointed unto man to die. Also, Out of the body and into the presence of the Lord. I am so sorry for all of you that has lost a dear loved one. What has helped me to deal with losing a loved one is My father God who loves us all so very much. God has got me through all the valleys O pain and suffering and grief. I even like to joke with God. While I was suffering with RA pain. I begin my usual prayer one night. I heard them say in church God is an on time God not our time but his. I was in my bed suffering from intense RA pain. I said God this is a good time to take care of this RA pain. I laughed a little and said you know I am kidding you will stop this pain in good time haaaaaaaaaaaa. Be ware of making any kind of bad joke to God as we all already know. God knew my mind already I was grinning when I said that haaaaaaa. I knew God would send help soon now hee hee. I imagined God saying Clora what am I to do with you tsk tsk and him laughting too. Doreen, Tawney, chriss, and all that text a long or short text. I enjoy your uplifting kindness. I know when each of you are so sorry for someones pain you mean all of us. After I had breckfast the first thing I do is hope no one is on the pc and get on. I think everyone knows I go to my support group in the mornings so they leave the pc for me. Also if your text is long please make paragraphs its very hard to keep our place when there is no paragraphs. I start seeing double. I had my eyes checked I wear glasse but they dont help me on the pc. Next eye visit I will let my optolmolgist know about this problem ( I hope I got it right which doctor is the eye doctor). Take care group your all in my prayers. gentle kind hugs Clora > I am so sorry that you no longer have your parents with you. I know > how hard it is. > I think I miss mine most when I want to share good things with them. > Those good things are missing the people who loved me most and would > be the happiest. And of course, my Daddy brushing my hair back and > kissing me on my forehead. > God Bless, > Shirley > > > > > > > Wow, Shirley - you have hit the nail on the head! I had a so- > called > > friend tell me once that I can't be an orphan as that was something > > reserved for children. Well, she is totally wrong. I lost my > father > > in 2002 and then my mother in 2004. I am an orphan - an adult > child > > who has lost both parents. And it is something that we never get > over > > - we just get on with it - just like you said. I miss my parents > every > > single day. Especially when this disease becomes overwhelming and I > > just wish that I had my parents around to comfort me. When I want > to > > be the child who is told that everything will be alright. > > > > Melynda, my prayers are with you as well, that you are able to > > celebrate and be grateful for the time you had with your parents > and > > take heart in knowing that we will all meet again. God Bless. > > > > Doreen > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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