Guest guest Posted August 14, 2008 Report Share Posted August 14, 2008 No apology needed. You didn't call me nasty things, so I'm OK. The words ignorant and uncaring....were like a stab in the heart. But you were just being honest. I respect that! Job search not going so great. I couldn't re-post my previous post. It would hurt too much if no one responded again. I sent a similar e- mail to everyone in my e-mail address book, and NO responses. Not even from family. So even though my teacher had suggested it, I don't think I'm going to be doing things of that such anymore....for fear of more rejection. It's not good for the self-esteem!!! Thanks for asking and for your input. > > Hello , > This is just a PS. > Firstly sorry, have only just found your post where you felt you were being personally picked on.Sorry.I apologise if I was one that appeared to be doing so. That was certainly not my intention. > The other is that I also missed your letter about looking for a job and needing encouragement. How is that going? Think it is one of the vagaries of a group site, sometimes a post will trigger a cascade of responses and they also multply. Another not so different mail probably gets'buried' or spammed accidentally and so no responses.Perhaps you could try a repost. > Finally back to your main concern. Yes I would definitely agree it is good to voice any queries, and concerns with pharmacist and doctor, check and double check. Errors do occur and drug reviews periodically are good too. > Best wishes > Chris > > > Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2008 Report Share Posted August 14, 2008 But , keep in mind, sometimes if you send an email to a bunch of recipients, it gets labeled as spam and *no one* gets it. I've had my feelings hurt several times by things on email, only to later learn that someone's computer was down, or the email never made it. I was actually devastated not to hear back from my mentor for several months. I had cooked up this story that he was angry at me b/c I had decided to leave the Navy after all he had done for me. Then he called several weeks later to say that his hospital email had been completely screwed up and had I been trying to reach him? All that time I spent worrying and how I thought he didn't care. Really, honey, people care, we're just scatter brained and stymied by technology! [ ] Re: and job OT No apology needed. You didn't call me nasty things, so I'm OK. The words ignorant and uncaring.... were like a stab in the heart. But you were just being honest. I respect that! Job search not going so great. I couldn't re-post my previous post. It would hurt too much if no one responded again. I sent a similar e- mail to everyone in my e-mail address book, and NO responses. Not even from family. So even though my teacher had suggested it, I don't think I'm going to be doing things of that such anymore....for fear of more rejection. It's not good for the self-esteem! !! Thanks for asking and for your input. > > Hello , > This is just a PS. > Firstly sorry, have only just found your post where you felt you were being personally picked on.Sorry.I apologise if I was one that appeared to be doing so. That was certainly not my intention. > The other is that I also missed your letter about looking for a job and needing encouragement. How is that going? Think it is one of the vagaries of a group site, sometimes a post will trigger a cascade of responses and they also multply. Another not so different mail probably gets'buried' or spammed accidentally and so no responses.Perhaps you could try a repost. > Finally back to your main concern. Yes I would definitely agree it is good to voice any queries, and concerns with pharmacist and doctor, check and double check. Errors do occur and drug reviews periodically are good too. > Best wishes > Chris > > > Send instant messages to your online friends http://uk.messenger . > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2008 Report Share Posted August 14, 2008 I think someone else also mentioned that many of us just can't read every single e-mail. I am on quite a few lists and all produce an awful lot of mail. I try to read all those that interest me, pertain to me or when I feel I may have information to share. Sometimes, many e-mails are overlooked and many times, by the time I get to them...well, it could be a week later and I feel odd responding so late. There are also a lot of times when the subject of the post is not changed although the body of the post does. Those could be deleted just by reading the subject. No one should feel offended or overlooked. _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Fair Sent: Thursday, August 14, 2008 12:16 PM Subject: Re: [ ] Re: and job OT But , keep in mind, sometimes if you send an email to a bunch of recipients, it gets labeled as spam and *no one* gets it. I've had my feelings hurt several times by things on email, only to later learn that someone's computer was down, or the email never made it. I was actually devastated not to hear back from my mentor for several months. I had cooked up this story that he was angry at me b/c I had decided to leave the Navy after all he had done for me. Then he called several weeks later to say that his hospital email had been completely screwed up and had I been trying to reach him? All that time I spent worrying and how I thought he didn't care. Really, honey, people care, we're just scatter brained and stymied by technology! _,___ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2008 Report Share Posted August 14, 2008 {{{HUGS}}} to you, . I pray something comes along for you with your job search. I'm sure something will come along for you that will be the perfect fit. This RA/FMS has left me unable to seek gainful employment of any kind and at times I miss the one on one interaction with other people - although my internet friends have become very precious to me, too. I'm sorry to hear you didn't get the uplifting well-wishes you had hoped for from your family and friends. From personal experience I have found that when I don't expect much from others, I am pleasantly surprised and humbled when I do receive the responses I dared not hope for. Did that make sense? Its just that I have learned when I set my expectations of other people too high, I am usually disappointed. But, when I keep my focus on what I need to do and how I should act and not act, I am pleasantly surprised by the kind words of others. Just a thought I wanted to share with you. Best wishes in all you do, . I will keep you in my prayers....Doreen > > > No apology needed. You didn't call me nasty things, so I'm OK. The > words ignorant and uncaring....were like a stab in the heart. But > you were just being honest. I respect that! > Job search not going so great. I couldn't re-post my previous post. > It would hurt too much if no one responded again. I sent a similar > e-mail to everyone in my e-mail address book, and NO responses. Not > even from family. So even though my teacher had suggested it, I > don't think I'm going to be doing things of that such > anymore....for fear of more rejection. It's not good for the self- > esteem!!! > Thanks for asking and for your input. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2008 Report Share Posted August 14, 2008 , I am sorry that I did not respond to your post. I don't have any insight about jobs, I wish that I did. I am in a field that is becoming obsolete. I will be OK because of the years I already have in but it hurts me for the younger guys. (I do what has been traditionally a man's job.) I do wish you luck in finding a job that you can do without adding to your pain and also one a salary that you can live on. Please hang with us and try to keep in mind that I have many faults like missing some post. I feel really guilty about yours. Shirley > > {{{HUGS}}} to you, . I pray something comes along for you with > your job search. I'm sure something will come along for you that will > be the perfect fit. This RA/FMS has left me unable to seek gainful > employment of any kind and at times I miss the one on one interaction > with other people - although my internet friends have become very > precious to me, too. > > I'm sorry to hear you didn't get the uplifting well-wishes you had > hoped for from your family and friends. From personal experience I > have found that when I don't expect much from others, I am pleasantly > surprised and humbled when I do receive the responses I dared not > hope for. Did that make sense? Its just that I have learned when I > set my expectations of other people too high, I am usually > disappointed. But, when I keep my focus on what I need to do and how > I should act and not act, I am pleasantly surprised by the kind words > of others. Just a thought I wanted to share with you. > > Best wishes in all you do, . I will keep you in my > prayers....Doreen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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