Re: Re: what is meds and what isn't

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good idea sweetie, I do rely on it, but I also do have vacation coming.

On Tue, Jul 8, 2008 at 8:16 PM, bink1227

wrote:

> haha! yay stats!

>

> ok, if you don't absolutely rely on working every day to pay the bills

> and you have the vacation, take next week off. you already feel

> crappy from not only meds but dentistry as well. the fastest way for

> people to understand numbers is for them to see what those abstract

> numbers really mean to them personally.

>

> bink

>

>

> >

> > Well, I've posted a bit about how I am feeling frustrated at work. The

> > problem is that I am part of a team of 4 and, as my best friend our

> > accountant put it, based on the monthly billing numbers for the past 6

> > months: " If the team's workload was a pie, girlscout is taking 1/2 of

> the pie

> > and the other 3 people are sharing the other half. " Keep in mind

> that the

> > other 3 people are paid to work full time while I am paid 20% less

> because I

> > only work 4 days a week! Ridiculous! And I worked overtime every

> week for

> > the entire spring because I was so busy, while my co-workers

> poo-pooed my

> > requests for help.

> >

> > I talked to my dept leader today about it and I think I got through

> on some

> > points, though not all. She is my friend and I really am grateful

> for my job

> > and the creative freedom it allows me - but I don't want to do all

> the work

> > while everyone else sits and watches me do it. The poor lady (my

> boss) has

> > no head for numbers at all and I don't think she grasps how

> meaningful and

> > important these billing numbers are! (I am one of the only people I have

> > ever met who works in my industry (advertising and PR) who loves

> statistics

> > - oooh, back up, okay - one of the only people I have EVER met,

> other than

> > bink).

> >

> > Feeling down today too, can't eat at all because of the dental

> work(which is

> > sort of a good thing, right?) and so my energy is down and I am

> feeling more

> > pain than usual,esp in the mouth, but pain is a fibromyalgia symptom

> and my

> > meds helped me with that. How do I know how much of this is the

> changes in

> > my psych meds and how much isn't? Oh well, I took the night off from

> dance

> > tonight and BF is at a class so I am just going to take care of myself

> > tonight. I get the night to myself, yay!

> >

> > girlscout

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

bink, can't take a week off, but I can call in sick tomorrow due to dental

problems, Great idea, hugs gs

Ps, I find that calling in sick after having a big " talk " helps the " talk "

resonate and sink in. If you keep behaving the sameat work, they don't see

why they should care. Also you are right, I have " rights " as the most

productive worker of the 4 of us.

> ---Girlscout,

> You are already sounding better....keep taking care of yourself

> and enjoy your puppies. I have been off my medication for 2 months

> now, you can do this and you will be ok. I know it is not easy...but

> keep believing in you. Trust yourself- is a great mantra. Keep

> remembering that at work too, and good luck. You sound like a really

> hard worker and they see what you are doing...its sounds like your

> boss was listening to you.

>

> Malinda

>

> In WTOAdultChildren1 <WTOAdultChildren1%40yahoogroups.com>,

> " Girlscout Cowboy "

> wrote:

> >

> > oh thanks sweetie, great idea. I see my doc on Tuesday too, but

> that is a

> > week away! This is hard. Thank God for you guys and for my pets too.

> >

> >

> >

> > > I wonder if you could take a Unisom a few nights to help you get

> some good

> > > sleep? You sure aren't going to feel better with no sleep!

> > > B & I don't use them very often but sometimes Unisom's help when

> our

> > > schedule's gotten all messed up.

> > > I think it's a good thing you're cutting back super

> gradually. : )

> > > Amy

> > >

> > >

> > > what is meds and what isn't

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Well, I've posted a bit about how I am feeling frustrated at

> work. The

> > > > problem is that I am part of a team of 4 and, as my best friend

> our

> > > > accountant put it, based on the monthly billing numbers for the

> past 6

> > > > months: " If the team's workload was a pie, girlscout is taking

> 1/2 of the

> > > > pie

> > > > and the other 3 people are sharing the other half. " Keep in

> mind that the

> > > > other 3 people are paid to work full time while I am paid 20%

> less

> > > because

> > > > I

> > > > only work 4 days a week! Ridiculous! And I worked overtime

> every week for

> > > > the entire spring because I was so busy, while my co-workers

> poo-pooed my

> > > > requests for help.

> > > >

> > > > I talked to my dept leader today about it and I think I got

> through on

> > > some

> > > > points, though not all. She is my friend and I really am

> grateful for my

> > > > job

> > > > and the creative freedom it allows me - but I don't want to do

> all the

> > > work

> > > > while everyone else sits and watches me do it. The poor lady

> (my boss)

> > > has

> > > > no head for numbers at all and I don't think she grasps how

> meaningful

> > > and

> > > > important these billing numbers are! (I am one of the only

> people I have

> > > > ever met who works in my industry (advertising and PR) who loves

> > > statistics

> > > > - oooh, back up, okay - one of the only people I have EVER met,

> other

> > > than

> > > > bink).

> > > >

> > > > Feeling down today too, can't eat at all because of the dental

> work(which

> > > > is

> > > > sort of a good thing, right?) and so my energy is down and I am

> feeling

> > > > more

> > > > pain than usual,esp in the mouth, but pain is a fibromyalgia

> symptom and

> > > my

> > > > meds helped me with that. How do I know how much of this is the

> changes

> > > in

> > > > my psych meds and how much isn't? Oh well, I took the night off

> from

> > > dance

> > > > tonight and BF is at a class so I am just going to take care of

> myself

> > > > tonight. I get the night to myself, yay!

> > > >

> > > > girlscout

> > > >

> > > >

[Guest guest]

Now that is a great idea !!

To: WTOAdultChildren1@...: girlscout.cowboy@...: Tue,

8 Jul 2008 21:03:01 -0600Subject: Re: Re: what is meds and

what isn't

bink, can't take a week off, but I can call in sick tomorrow due to

dentalproblems, Great idea, hugs gsPs, I find that calling in sick after having

a big " talk " helps the " talk " resonate and sink in. If you keep behaving the

sameat work, they don't seewhy they should care. Also you are right, I have

" rights " as the mostproductive worker of the 4 of us.On Tue, Jul 8, 2008 at 8:51

PM, maparise17 wrote:> ---Girlscout,> You are already

sounding better....keep taking care of yourself> and enjoy your puppies. I have

been off my medication for 2 months> now, you can do this and you will be ok. I

know it is not easy...but> keep believing in you. Trust yourself- is a great

mantra. Keep> remembering that at work too, and good luck. You sound like a

really> hard worker and they see what you are doing...its sounds like your> boss

was listening to you.>> Malinda>> In WTOAdultChildren1

<WTOAdultChildren1%40yahoogroups.com>,> " Girlscout Cowboy " >

wrote:> >> > oh thanks sweetie, great idea. I see my doc

on Tuesday too, but> that is a> > week away! This is hard. Thank God for you

guys and for my pets too.> >> > On Tue, Jul 8, 2008 at 7:49 PM, Amy G

wrote:> >> > > I wonder if you could take a Unisom a few

nights to help you get> some good> > > sleep? You sure aren't going to feel

better with no sleep!> > > B & I don't use them very often but sometimes

Unisom's help when> our> > > schedule's gotten all messed up.> > > I think it's

a good thing you're cutting back super> gradually. : )> > > Amy> > >> > >> > >

what is meds and

what isn't> > > >> > > >> > > > Well, I've posted a bit about how I am feeling

frustrated at> work. The> > > > problem is that I am part of a team of 4 and, as

my best friend> our> > > > accountant put it, based on the monthly billing

numbers for the> past 6> > > > months: " If the team's workload was a pie,

girlscout is taking> 1/2 of the> > > > pie> > > > and the other 3 people are

sharing the other half. " Keep in> mind that the> > > > other 3 people are paid

to work full time while I am paid 20%> less> > > because> > > > I> > > > only

work 4 days a week! Ridiculous! And I worked overtime> every week for> > > > the

entire spring because I was so busy, while my co-workers> poo-pooed my> > > >

requests for help.> > > >> > > > I talked to my dept leader today about it and I

think I got> through on> > > some> > > > points, though not all. She is my

friend and I really am> grateful for my> > > > job> > > > and the creative

freedom it allows me - but I don't want to do> all the> > > work> > > > while

everyone else sits and watches me do it. The poor lady> (my boss)> > > has> > >

> no head for numbers at all and I don't think she grasps how> meaningful> > >

and> > > > important these billing numbers are! (I am one of the only> people I

have> > > > ever met who works in my industry (advertising and PR) who loves> >

> statistics> > > > - oooh, back up, okay - one of the only people I have EVER

met,> other> > > than> > > > bink).> > > >> > > > Feeling down today too, can't

eat at all because of the dental> work(which> > > > is> > > > sort of a good

thing, right?) and so my energy is down and I am> feeling> > > > more> > > >

pain than usual,esp in the mouth, but pain is a fibromyalgia> symptom and> > >

my> > > > meds helped me with that. How do I know how much of this is the>

changes> > > in> > > > my psych meds and how much isn't? Oh well, I took the

night off> from> > > dance> > > > tonight and BF is at a class so I am just

going to take care of> myself> > > > tonight. I get the night to myself, yay!> >

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[Guest guest]

Did it help her lose belly fat?  If, so...I'm in!

 

Take Care Of You,

JaneSoul

Re: what is meds and what isn't

Have you ever tried Relacore? It's a B-complex sold as a " lose belly

fat " compound, but actually we sleep FABULOUSLY when we take it before

bedtime. My stepmother used it through menopause too, it really

helped her deal with the stress & changes.

[Guest guest]

I am taking Bink's advice and taking a sick errr " mental health " day. Guess

what? I am perfectly happy and upbeat. SOOO, that's proof that it is work,

right?

> Did it help her lose belly fat? If, so...I'm in!

>

>

> Take Care Of You,

> JaneSoul

>

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> Have you ever tried Relacore? It's a B-complex sold as a " lose belly

> fat " compound, but actually we sleep FABULOUSLY when we take it before

> bedtime. My stepmother used it through menopause too, it really

> helped her deal with the stress & changes.

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[Guest guest]

You got it!!! Enjoy your day!

Re: what is meds and what isn't

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> Have you ever tried Relacore? It's a B-complex sold as a " lose belly

> fat " compound, but actually we sleep FABULOUSLY when we take it before

> bedtime. My stepmother used it through menopause too, it really

> helped her deal with the stress & changes.

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