Distorted Facts

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These people are sick! They instantly make up more false facts than

you can think up in an hour. I can't stand them and am at a loss how

to deal with them. MY BPD mother is diagnosed with Vascular

dementia. Well, she lets my narcissitic sister...walk all over her

and always has. So, she puts her in charge of everything. But, I

live nearest to mom...so guess who picks up all the pieces while my

sister denies that anything is wrong. If I mentioned that the

nephew, she had living with my mom is taking things as she's asking

him not to because she still wants it, he's walking all over her

wishes, bullying my child and saying he's not welcome to play

there. I can mention anything and my sister, instead of working

with me, completely over rides me and tells people stuff

like, " don't listen to anything Laurie sais, she's taking some

drugs. " How rude is that! And how totally untrue. It's like, if

she acts like nothing is wrong, then she doesn't have to deal with

it. But, while she's controlling everything like a witch. Here I am

suffering through it and she knows that my living here, means I'm

here if mom's hungry or needs something. She's been paying these

people $200.00 per month to feed her one meal a day. And they never

invite her over. I can be sitting there in her house, un-beknownst

to them when they go to the drive in for their dinner. They don't

buy her any or come and ask her to come and eat there. They are

totally dishonest...yet, go sit in church every week and quote

scriptures ver batim. I've never seen anything as rude as they have

been. My first feeling is to protect my mother. But, I've had it .

She has never protected me by asking people to move, or allowing me

any control of what's happening in the house..which, by the way,

it's my name on the deed. And I could take over...but, I feel like

elderly or not..it's her right to her wishes in her home. And if I

took over, the entire family will slam me again. ... " Don't listen to

her she's " mentally ill, or on Drugs. " It's just un=believable to

me that I have this narcissitic family and have to deal with this all

of the time. I can't stand these people. Jerks!