Guest guest Posted April 18, 2000 Report Share Posted April 18, 2000 Hi Pam I made the mistake of looking up ep's on the web as well and came across the same feelings. I think you have to look pass the medical sometimes and remember that there are still miracles. Try to feel better....here's a big hug {{{{{{{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Barb H At 05:07 PM 4/18/2000 +0000, you wrote: >I made the unfortunate mistake of looking up tubal problems on the >web. Now I am distraught. I feel like there is no hope for me except >IVF. Even if they are able to correct my problem my chances of pg are >slimmer. I am glad for IVF. At least there is that. But it is also >very scary. We live on a circle. I always drive around the same way. >This morning I had to go the other way because of some trucks working >on the house across the street. When I came around there were >balloons on a mail box with a huge welcome to the world sign. No need >to explain more. I am also on day 16 and there is nothing I can do >about it since the dr doesn't want us to try this month. Which I >agree. If I have blocakge I don't want to try and end up with another >ep and hold up my treatment. >Pam > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Enjoy the award-winning journalism of The New York Times with >convenient home delivery. And for a limited time, get 50% off for the >first 8 weeks by subscribing. Pay by credit card and receive an >additional 4 weeks at this low introductory rate. >http://click./1/3102/2/_/26068/_/956077767/ >------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2000 Report Share Posted April 18, 2000 Thanks Barb. Sometimes its bad to get to much info. Plus every situation is different Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2000 Report Share Posted April 18, 2000 Pam, I know this feeling. The internet can give you way too much information. While it is a blessing at times, sometimes it provides us with more than we need. Keep in mind that everyone's situation is different and try to hold onto hope. (And try to just say no to search engines.) Tara down today I made the unfortunate mistake of looking up tubal problems on the web. Now I am distraught. I feel like there is no hope for me except IVF. Even if they are able to correct my problem my chances of pg are slimmer. I am glad for IVF. At least there is that. But it is also very scary. We live on a circle. I always drive around the same way. This morning I had to go the other way because of some trucks working on the house across the street. When I came around there were balloons on a mail box with a huge welcome to the world sign. No need to explain more. I am also on day 16 and there is nothing I can do about it since the dr doesn't want us to try this month. Which I agree. If I have blocakge I don't want to try and end up with another ep and hold up my treatment. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Enjoy the award-winning journalism of The New York Times with convenient home delivery. And for a limited time, get 50% off for the first 8 weeks by subscribing. Pay by credit card and receive an additional 4 weeks at this low introductory rate. http://click./1/3102/2/_/26068/_/956077767/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2000 Report Share Posted April 18, 2000 Pam, Sometimes the internet is just cause for crying! The more research I do the more I sob. Maybe ignorance is bliss, but if you're anything like me, I have to know all ther eis out there to know, no matter how crazy I drive myself! I'm so sorry your day is blue. I know how those days feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you!! Marci > I made the unfortunate mistake of looking up tubal problems on the > web. Now I am distraught. I feel like there is no hope for me except > IVF. Even if they are able to correct my problem my chances of pg are > slimmer. I am glad for IVF. At least there is that. But it is also > very scary. We live on a circle. I always drive around the same way. > This morning I had to go the other way because of some trucks working > on the house across the street. When I came around there were > balloons on a mail box with a huge welcome to the world sign. No need > to explain more. I am also on day 16 and there is nothing I can do > about it since the dr doesn't want us to try this month. Which I > agree. If I have blocakge I don't want to try and end up with another > ep and hold up my treatment. > Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 18, 2000 Report Share Posted April 18, 2000 Pam, You and I must have been on the same page today. I was doing fine until this evening program came on the television that discussed the stars and their millineum babies. They named all those that are expexting like Madonna, Jada Pinkett , Jerry Steinfeld's girlfriend, ' fiance, & . On top of that, my sister is in labor today delivering her first, and my other sister and her husband just found out that they are expecting their second child, by accident, when their first baby was just born Dec. 9, 1999. She is approx. 12 weeks & depressed about it. HOW LUCKY THEY ALL ARE. I really felt like saying to GOD just great, everyone else will have their baby this year except me. Then my mother says out loud to me, just be paitent and you will have yours too. She just doesn't understand. Just wanted to share my feelings.......................Sorry for your downer of a day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2000 Report Share Posted April 19, 2000 Pam, I am so sorry that you are feeling so down...Big hugs to you sweetie ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) The internet can really be a bummer sometimes... try not to listen to too much you read, everyone is different, o.k.? I'm here for you if you need me.. take care sonja down today I made the unfortunate mistake of looking up tubal problems on the web. Now I am distraught. I feel like there is no hope for me except IVF. Even if they are able to correct my problem my chances of pg are slimmer. I am glad for IVF. At least there is that. But it is also very scary. We live on a circle. I always drive around the same way. This morning I had to go the other way because of some trucks working on the house across the street. When I came around there were balloons on a mail box with a huge welcome to the world sign. No need to explain more. I am also on day 16 and there is nothing I can do about it since the dr doesn't want us to try this month. Which I agree. If I have blocakge I don't want to try and end up with another ep and hold up my treatment. Pam ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Enjoy the award-winning journalism of The New York Times with convenient home delivery. And for a limited time, get 50% off for the first 8 weeks by subscribing. Pay by credit card and receive an additional 4 weeks at this low introductory rate. http://click./1/3102/2/_/26068/_/956077767/ ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2000 Report Share Posted April 19, 2000 , I feel the same way. Its very difficult to understand. You feel like why me. I put time frames on myself. I know I shouldn't do that but I can't help it. Its nice to have women to talk to who understand what I am going through. Thanks, Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 19, 2000 Report Share Posted April 19, 2000 , ((((HUGS))))))) Your e-mail just made me think - if one more person tells me to relax and it will happen I will go crazy on them!!!!! Especially now that I have had two pg (one eearly m/c and one EP), I hear it all the time! Do these people not realize the money we spent and th time to acheive these pgs? I did not get pg either time by relaxing! Now the soap opera I am watching is feeding into the lies. This couple having trouble getting pg is thinking about adopting(she is a DR!) abd she goes well you so many people who adopt end up pg! I thought man I should reem the writers! I guess I am just fired up.I told my neighbor about the EP a few weeks back . She's in her 70's or so. She came up to me yesterday " are you pg yet? " I am like I can't even try for three months! At church Sunday these people set in fron tof me with a new born. It was their unmarried daughters! And the whole church knows about both my losses. That brings me back to my mother-in-law insisting we tell everyone when I was pg. My paster announced it to the chuch, here I was 6wks! And while he announced it he told about our m/c in Dec. But he didn't mention our IF!Not that we tried four long years for the baby! My m-i-l will not know next time. I guess I have ranted enough. I just am tired of people without a clue! I wont b e responding this afternoon I am going to my girlfriends house with her 19 mth old. She's asked me to watch her for a few hours. I wish I was a mommy....:0) Talk to you'll later, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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