PM UPDATE Today is Nada's 6th Month Cancer Check up... let the games begin!

August 15, 2008

So, Nada can't get her eyes done or a face lift (ah, hello? She was

going in to see about reconstructive surgery on her unnecessary

mastectomy and insurance won't cover the 'other'). She's been moping

around town all day (cause she's called me 4x to tell me she's moping

around all day)... guess she had a break down with the plastic

surgeon again (I can't look at myself in the mirror anymore, I hate

what I see, my outsides don't match my insides...) and the 2nd appt

today (the cancer Dr.) told her to get a mammogram done near HER OWN

house (she'd have her appt. setter call) and come see her in Jan.

Nada's pissed.

How anti-climatic!

Whack a mole, baby... whack a mole...

Lynnette

>

> I'm not going with her.

>

> Why?

> 1) She didn't ask (she's just emoted about it for 4 days but won't

> directly ask me and I REFUSE to play 'guess what's wrong with Nada'

> anymore).

> 2) I really can't. It's the end of my academic year (as in, if I

don't

> make an Aug 31 deadline, I lose ALL $$).

> 3) She has had NO contact with the cancer center since she blew up

in

> Feb (the incident that landed me in the therapists office - where I

> still reside - weekly).

>

> (Mind you... this is the " cancer " that was the lowest possible next-

> to-nothing situation. This was treatable with a single lumpectomy

no

> chemo no radiation... SHE milked it, blew it up, tried to get a

> double Mastectomy so she could get a boob job... told everyone she

> was dying (and got pissed off when I told the family

> the " stage/stats " ) etc.... She played 4 Dr's against eachother and

3

> Plastic Surgeons'... it's been a ride...)

>

> Interestingly enough, when I went to the therapist (who's office is

> located in the same building where Nada's " cancer Dr " is) on

Monday, I

> ran into the nurse who was in the room when Nada went nuts in Feb.

She

> said, after hugging me, " OHHHHHHHHHHH... I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOO glad

you're

> still here! You DO realize that your mother's issues started long

> before you were born...right? " . We talked more (I was 20 minutes

early

> for my appt). Turns out Nada hasn't returned any calls. They had no

> idea where she went. Nada is physically " done " with the Dr's

> and " cured " so they're not terribly concerned. These are the same

> people Nada claims to be seeing today at 11am. Veddy interesting...

> I'm sure tonight will be fabulous.

>

> Nada has been coming " after " my son again. Verbally berating him, in

> that horrible incideous backstabbing undercurrent way... he's been

> seeing the therapist with me, too. Getting those walls up. He

finally

> asked her to leave the room the other day because he wanted

> his 'bubble'... she was offended but did as she was asked

(amazing). I

> only wish I had that skill as a child... or even as an adult...

>

> She wants me to " schedule her in for coffee " this coming week. Last

> time she did that she ended up screaming at me at Round Table until

> she

> stormed out when my dad walked in. I have school as a 'wall' right

> now... so she's pretty much out of luck right now... but I can see

> this

> train coming down the track... sigh.

>

> Trying to take one hour at a time...

>

> Lynnette

>

August 15, 2008

MAN, you CRACK me UP!

Take Care Of You,

JaneSoul

PM UPDATE Today is Nada's " 6th Month Cancer Check

up " ... let the games begin!