venting-but i need advice please

[Guest guest]

I really am in some desperate need for some serious advice from people who

" get it " . Hubby has tried but i don't think he really gets what I am going

through right now.

As most of you know, the golden child (my cousin) has moved into town with

his family. He truly can do no wrong and I am not exaggerating when i say

that nada is so obsessed with him it is totally scary. Well nada has

decided to adopt the entire family as her own...cousin is her son, his wife,

her daughter and their child her grandchild. It's caused great tension in

our family not only with my brother and I, but with my cousin's

mother...nada's sister. The accusation is used that nada is " stealing " her

family many times on a daily basis...which is true.

I dunno...i'm perplexed because she treats cousin's wife the way I always

wanted to be treated...the respect...the unconditional love...the pride in

EVERYTHING she does. I'm left feeling like she is capable of being a good

mom....she's a great mom to cousin in law, but to me she is still...well

BPD...NADA. It's like she can flip it on and flip it off and CHOOSES to be

the horrible witch to me. I'm hurt and disgusted and i just really don't

know what to do...any advice?

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Kisses and Nibbles,

Bunny