Un-effin-believable!

[Guest guest]

I still consider myself a newbie here. I posted when I first

arrived and have offered words of encouragement in responses to

others, but it is clear, I am in desperate need of guidance and

support.

My fada, that is STILL trying to take my son away from me, and I had

another custody pre-trial Friday (8/29) and he taked the stand and

rambles on for almost an hour about his account of my behavior since

the end of 07 into 08, so the court could order me to take a drug

test and a psychological evaluation.

It was the hardest thing to do in my life: sit and listen to him

tell bold-faced lies with the calmest expression on his face with no

remorse, and not run up to the stand and choke the living sh*t out

of him. It boiled down to the judge ordering a drug test IF fada

and his wife (enabler) agreed to psych eval themselves.

The kicker...

After the hearing, I talk to my fiancee on the phone, who happens to

be incarcerated and whom my fada tried to use against me in the

custody complaint, calls me and tells me that he's been informed

that fada has contacted his nada and they are now plotting against

our relationship. His nada was influential with the judge with

fiancee's sentencing and has voiced that if he wants to get out of

jail he will have to go through her and show more respect. She also

has stated that my fada has explained to her that I am a

slut, " ain't about sh*t, " and that fiancee would be a fool if he

didn't get the baby that I am expecting DNA-tested because this is

not his child. He (rather his P.I.) also has " found " nude photos of

me on the internet, (I used to model in all genres) which he plans

to show fiancee's nada. He's been calling her everyday and he plans

to use her as some sort of witness against me in the

custody " battle. " My source tells me he was heard telling her

that " he's gonna need her support. " Mind you, nada, has lost 4 out

of her 5 kids to social services and detention homes, and tells

people that her 2nd oldest daughter used to " sleep with her husband

up until age 10. "

How in the hell do these people even find each other? I know that

fada is wacked out, I know his nada is wacked out, but I guess we

both had it coming.

We are not letting this stop us, but they are on distortion

campaigns to completely destroy us.

Note: I am VERY proud of myself for the amazing display of self-

control that I never thought I had.

Sorry this is so long, but this actually is the condensed version.

-Alana