Guest guest Posted May 12, 2008 Report Share Posted May 12, 2008 I agree ! So many people in this country have lost an appreciation for natural smells of all sorts... we have learned to like chemical concoctions as perfumes, soaps, cleaners etc. instead of the natural scents... we have learned to like unnatural surgeon sculpted body, lips and eye shapes instead of what our genetics gave us. ( I can understand wanting to help correct deformaties and things of that nature) but we are losing our bearings in so many ways. They say that your natural scent is one of the ways to attract a good match for healthy children. I think that being together un perfumed with someone you are looking at as a potential husband or wife would be an excellent idea. Edella, sorry for the loss of your husband. How beautiful that you could not bear to wash the sheets. Also, why do you want to stop perspiration ? I know of two people, one who had to have her sweat glands surgically drained and the other who had to have them removed. The reason why the sweat glands stopped working correctly was not revealed but my guess is anti-perspirants. I, for one, will not take the chance. I use the mineral rock and then when I use my coconut oil and shea butter concoction as a lotion on my body I reserve some for under my arms and sometimes add sweet orange or peppermint essential oil. I don't have a job where I sweat a lot but I don't stink unless I am very nervous or upset. > > > > --- In , " Sumner " <sumner_33@> wrote: > > <<I've yet to find a natural deodorant that reduces the stink to a level > that is undetectable or at least unnoticeable by my fiance...and so my > search continues. >> > > As anyone in a romantic relationship will tell you, the Other's personal > smell rapidly becomes just their aroma, an identifier, and even (as > natures intended it) an arouser. Its not supposed to be undetectable or > unnoticeable by our beloved. > > IMO, people often forget how important personal aromas are. Did you know > that most mothers can pick out their own children's worn tee shirts by > smelling them? > > I understand all the theories about maintaining personal space by > blanking off body aroma with perfumes and deodorant etc etc, but surely > a relationship is two personal spaces that sometimes intedrmingle - if > your fiance can't come to terms with your own natural aromas, I think > that I would be looking for a new fiance! > > regards from edella (who couldn't bear to change the bed for over a > month after her husband died) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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