Guest guest Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 --- Idol <Idol@...> wrote: > I understand your feeling on this matter, and of course I'd prefer it > if everyone maintained a scrupulously kind and polite manner on the > list, but censorship based on the anticipation that some people's > feelings might be hurt is essentially arbitrary and thus winds up > being a slippery slope. It comes down to what's really the topic here, though -- and I think that's what's really on many minds: " If I wanted to listen to a bunch of blowhards playing 'my experiment is bigger than yours', then I would have signed up for a poliical/religious debate list, not a nutrition list. " The idea that it should be " normal " and " expected " that people's feelings can get hurt on a NUTRITION list is ridiculous, self-serving, and self-aggrandizing. How does what we eat affect our sexual or emotional bonding nature, for better or worse (whether we're straight or gay)? How does nutrition affect the physical stamina required of all minorities (sexual orientation or otherwise) to live in a larger world that hates and demeans them (stress, lower earnings=lower nutrition, programmed self-hate=less attention to self-care, etc)? And so on. THESE are the kinds of debate questions I would look for on a well-versed nutrition list. Not " Do homosexuals choose to be homosexual, or are they created by their environment/morals/character, or are they genetically programmed? " No one can answer that question anyway, in real truth -- no matter what genes are revealed, or chemical interactions are discovered, and so on. The brain and computational power to answer it doesn't exist -- but the arrogance to impose an theoretical answer on living, breathing, feeling human beings is certainly in great abundance! > Similarly, I think the question of what factors might cause or > contribute to homosexuality is a legitimate one, and by itself implies > no moral attitude one way or another towards homosexuality. I think Then why is there no " debate " about what causes us to be heterosexual? This " debate " takes place because homosexuality is still seen as " out of the norm " . When there are dozens of emails here raging and debating about what creates well-educated straight white guys who behave like self-serving and destructive idiots, then perhaps it won't seem so out of place. > all questions should be open to scientific inquiry and debate, and > personally, my hope is that if the silly idea that homosexuality is > merely a " choice " is definitively put to rest, some of the edge might > be taken off anti-gay bigotry and it might even recede somewhat over I can understand what you're hoping to accomplish, and I applaud your intentions. But science is no more likely to " prove " or " protect " anyone than religion has (let's see -- hundreds of thousands dead from religious ideas, or hundreds of thousands dead from scientific ideas..? Hhmmm?). Currently, for example, there is a scientist at work in my city that experiments on gay rams (sheep). He says he's just doing experiments on what causes homosexuality, but if that's true, then why is all of his work aimed at how to make gay rams straight? People who hate people who are different than they are will use whatever means necessary to justify it within their own minds -- so whether gay people (or Jewish people, or..) are bad because they're " ungodly " , or because they are " diseased " , or because they are " genetically defective " is all the same. It certainly has always had the same result: find a way to get categorize and then get rid of the " problem " /difference. And that's why gay people and other minorities are quite likely to be offended or hurt by the discussion about what " causes " them: it's demonizing, it's patronizing, and it's presumptuous in the extreme. And that's why it doesn't belong in a nutrition-based public forum, where who knows who is trying to learn *about nutrition* here, only to be bombarded with the same ridiculous and patronizing " debate " about gay existence that they are inundated with everywhere these days. And this isn't just an issue for gay people, of course, but for all of us who have gay family, or friends, or coworkers or neighbors who are also sick of this " scientific pseudo-debate being thrown around as if the people being talked about didn't get to decide all that for themselves, on their own terms, for their own benefit. > pretty unpleasant nonsense, but pretending the nonsense doesn't exist > and that people don't believe it is probably the surest way of keeping > it around. On the flip side, I also think the question of what > factors incline people to religiosity is equally legitimate, even > though the discomfort in that case is likely concentrated on the other > side of the aisle. There are no gay people (or their families/etc) who do not know about this nonsense. Again, though, to debate what " causes " them is to fall into the same rut as those who hate them: it's to presume the debate itself is useful or even valid. We are like euro-americans who debated whether native-americans or africans were really animals or not -- and are then surprised that native-americans and africans find our " discussion " offensive, destructive, and pathetically un-useful. > IOW, I'm not a big fan of taboos, and I think preserving them opposes > the critical thinking required for progress, so while I truly regret > any pain some of the freewheeling discussions on this list might cause > anyone, and while I really do empathize with anyone who finds such > discussion injurious, I think that pain is by far the lesser of two > evils. Then, like all good scientists -- and good religionists -- you are willing to kill the subject to save it, and willing to use only one small part of your brain while pretending to yourself and the world that you're smarter because of it. Jent " The greater part of what my neighbors call good, I believe in my soul to be bad, and if I repent of anything, it is very likely to be my good behavior. What demon possessed me that I behaved so well? " -Henry Thoreau ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. http://tools.search./newsearch/category.php?category=shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 --- Jent Lynne <jentlynne@...> wrote: > It comes down to what's really the topic here, though Jent, I like the wide open discussions on NN. I've been on this list for almost two years now and I find that the discussions here can be quite entertaining at times If I lose interest, I just quit reading the uninteresting messages and move on. There's usually plenty of other topics to read/discuss. I applaud list owner and moderator for allowing wide ranging discussions, as long as those involved don't resort to character assassination of list members. I'm quite happy to ignore topics that are not interesting and I would never expect all topics to be interesting to all people on the list. My advice is that if you don't like a topic, don't read the message Instead, start a topic that you like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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