Guest guest Posted March 18, 2008 Report Share Posted March 18, 2008 --- Adrienne <ahewcn@...> wrote: > I was wondering how many people on this list feel that their lives > have become more prosperous by moving to a nourishing, real food > diet. I am working on an outline for an e-book that explores the > connection between eating " rich " foods like butter fat and pate and > the feeling of financial, emotional or spiritual freedom it can > offer despite the size of one's bank account or possible lack of > affiliation with any religion. Adrienne, I changed my diet about two years ago to bring in raw dairy, good saturated and monounsaturated fats, and to minimize polyunsaturated fat and sugar, while improving nutrition. I have continued walking 2 or 3 miles a day, which I started about three years ago. I lost about 30 pounds of fat and gained about 10 pounds of muscle and feel much healthier than I did two or three years ago. I fact, I have to look in the mirror to remind myself that I'm 55 and not 35 I have had a renewed interest spiritual insight, though I claim no religion. Discussions on this list have helped to rekindle that interest. But who knows, maybe it is the diet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2008 Report Share Posted March 18, 2008 Congrats, , on shaving off 20 lbs and 20 years! That is wonderful. I have found in my life (particularly when I compare it to those I left behind in big box land) that I have come to appreciate what I have more and feel a certain connectedness to everything around me as well as the repercussions of my actions. And each time I increase the quality of what I eat, the universe seems to pat me on the back and offer me a way to afford even higher quality food. Instead of cheating on my spouse (something that people I know who are perpetually unhappy with food/dieting are doing), I'm finding gratification and purpose at the table. On the less metaphysical plane, you could say that we spent less on food by not eating out, he had more confidence because his skin cleared up, and that his productivity at work increased because he was better nourished. But I also think that when we embrace the " richness " of life, we attract more of the same. I first started thinking of this when I gave a talk a few years ago in Switzerland. When I mentioned that whole milk was healthier than skim a woman stood up in protest and said, " But whole milk is SO RICH! " Afterwards, I realized that although this woman was very financially set and living in one of the most prosperous countries in the world, she objected to " rich " and probably lived the life of a pauper internally. I began paying closer attention to people around me who have a ton of money and realized that the one thing rich people often will not spend money on is food (if they think they can get it cheaper). Meanwhile, they waste their money and their time economizing on calories and fat grams and believing (in the spirit of no pain, no gain) that any food that is good for you must be tasteless and tough. Yes, another thing that this way of eating is giving us back is COMMUNITY. This group is to my mind a modern spin on the old fashioned communities that petered out in the 80s. I'm sure it has a lot to do with your rekindled interest in spirituality. Thanks for your input and again, congratulations! Keep up the good work. Best, Adrienne > Adrienne, > > I changed my diet about two years ago to bring in raw dairy, good > saturated and monounsaturated fats, and to minimize polyunsaturated > fat and sugar, while improving nutrition. I have continued walking 2 > or 3 miles a day, which I started about three years ago. I lost about > 30 pounds of fat and gained about 10 pounds of muscle and feel much > healthier than I did two or three years ago. I fact, I have to look > in the mirror to remind myself that I'm 55 and not 35 > > I have had a renewed interest spiritual insight, though I claim no > religion. Discussions on this list have helped to rekindle that > interest. But who knows, maybe it is the diet > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 Hi, I believe that such things as prosperity & real food is territorially/culturally defined according to the area originally homesteaded & by what tradition. Look forward to your e-book. Best regards, Jim ahewcn <ahewcn@...> wrote: Hi there! I was wondering how many people on this list feel that their lives have become more prosperous by moving to a nourishing, real food diet. I am working on an outline for an e-book that explores the connection between eating " rich " foods like butter fat and pate and the feeling of financial, emotional or spiritual freedom it can offer despite the size of one's bank account or possible lack of affiliation with any religion. Also to be explored are the psychological impact of basing your shopping list on what you have a coupon for, freedom from the price fluctuations caused by the oil crisis and how increased energy, better skin or weight loss will impact your confidence and ability to perform your work better. Many clients and friends of mine seem to feel they have benefited psychologically from " eating rich " (which, as you know, is sinful in today's world) one way or another, now I'd like to know your experiences. Down the road, I may be looking for actual testimonials to include in the book, but will post for that at that time. Just wanted to get the general gut reactions to this question to see if it strikes a chord with this group. Thanks, Adrienne Well done is better than well said..., Jim Igo --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 I would love it if it were to be true. But it makes me wonder then, if eating " real food " makes you more prosperous, then how come so many people the world over, who still eat " traditionally " because that's all they have (barely have) are not prosperous? Or how come everyone in the rural/country areas of France, Greece, and Italy (who still eat very rich food) - how come every person there is not wealthy - most of those folks in the country areas live very simple lives. And it would make me wonder, why my own ancestors who ate " real food " and high fat diets were so poor (but mind you, their health was excellent, and they all lived into their 90's). But they were poor. Personally, I may be totally wrong, but I believe prosperity is based on your OWN mind-set. If you are one of the poor people in the world, eating " traditional food " and you are wishing you could afford some of the new, glamorous food, then you are likely poor (and will remain that way because you BELIEVE you are not prosperous). On the other hand, if you believe eating processed food is " prosperous " and shouts to others that you indeed " have arrived " , then you are more likely to be prosperous, even if you eat it. Unhealthy. But prosperous. How many very affluent North Americans live in our own neighborhoods, have lots of wealth, but would trade it gladly for better health? How many affluent North Americans eat " traditionally " - very few. I think it is all a matter of what you believe, especially what you believe about prosperity/money. I live in the Toronto area, one of the world's greatest melting pots. And at the grocery store, you'll see the new immigrants loading up on fresh fruits/veggies, kefir, yogurt, milk, meats - good, healthy food. But they're poor. Very healthy looking, trim, nice hair and skin. But poor. On the other hand, you'll see the North Americans loading up on packaged and processed foods. Overweight. Many with dull skin and hair. A percentage of these North Americans have more prosperity, but they don't eat well. The majority of these North Americans are " poor " , and they don't eat well. It's more a matter of personal belief, IMO, not what you eat. Me? I eat wonderfully rich and healthy food. And love every bite of it. But I'm broker than broke. Lis > > Hi there! > > I was wondering how many people on this list feel that their lives have become more > prosperous by moving to a nourishing, real food diet. > > I am working on an outline for an e-book that explores the connection between eating > " rich " foods like butter fat and pate and the feeling of financial, emotional or spiritual > freedom it can offer despite the size of one's bank account or possible lack of affiliation > with any religion. Also to be explored are the psychological impact of basing your > shopping list on what you have a coupon for, freedom from the price fluctuations caused > by the oil crisis and how increased energy, better skin or weight loss will impact your > confidence and ability to perform your work better. > > Many clients and friends of mine seem to feel they have benefited psychologically from > " eating rich " (which, as you know, is sinful in today's world) one way or another, now I'd > like to know your experiences. Down the road, I may be looking for actual testimonials to > include in the book, but will post for that at that time. Just wanted to get the general gut > reactions to this question to see if it strikes a chord with this group. > > Thanks, > Adrienne > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 --- Adrienne <ahewcn@...> wrote: > I began paying closer attention to people around me who have a ton > of money and realized that the one thing rich people often will not > spend money on is food (if they think they can get it cheaper). > Meanwhile, they waste their money and their time economizing on > calories and fat grams and believing (in the spirit of no pain, no > gain) that any food that is good for you must be tasteless and > tough. Adrienne, Dr Mercola has a blog post on " Affluenza " that includes a video. I haven't watched it yet, but the name is great. " This great video talks about the problem of Americans' uncontrollable desire to buy things they don't need. " http://v.mercola.com/blogs/public_blog/Do-You-Suffer-from-Affluenza--57645.aspx I had to post a comment on it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 > > mercola¹s real argument is that we only need his products... > > >> > >> > --- Adrienne <ahewcn@...> wrote: >>> >> I began paying closer attention to people around me who have a ton >>> >> of money and realized that the one thing rich people often will not >>> >> spend money on is food (if they think they can get it cheaper). >>> >> Meanwhile, they waste their money and their time economizing on >>> >> calories and fat grams and believing (in the spirit of no pain, no >>> >> gain) that any food that is good for you must be tasteless and >>> >> tough. >> > >> > Adrienne, >> > >> > Dr Mercola has a blog post on " Affluenza " that includes a video. I >> > haven't watched it yet, but the name is great. >> > >> > " This great video talks about the problem of Americans' uncontrollable >> > desire to buy things they don't need. " >> > >> " >http://v.mercola.com/blogs/public_blog/Do-You-Suffer-from-Affluenza--57645. >> asp> >> <http://v.mercola.com/blogs/public_blog/Do-You-Suffer-from-Affluenza--57645.a >> sp> x >> > >> > I had to post a comment on it >> > >> > >> > >> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 Enjoyed the video on affluenza, especially the part where it was mentioned that it is ironic that the most prosperous nations are also the most stressed. Consumer greed is empty & without a well bonded sense of community it is simply a throw away society, empty & shallow instead of filled up full. Materialism=stuff=excess junk=waste, was the message. To fill ourselves up with respect & dignity we must be self reliant & self sustaining as possible, in a way that nourishes our very nature through kind-loving nurturing. Best Always, Jim <oz4caster@...> wrote: --- Adrienne <ahewcn@...> wrote: > I began paying closer attention to people around me who have a ton > of money and realized that the one thing rich people often will not > spend money on is food (if they think they can get it cheaper). > Meanwhile, they waste their money and their time economizing on > calories and fat grams and believing (in the spirit of no pain, no > gain) that any food that is good for you must be tasteless and > tough. Adrienne, Dr Mercola has a blog post on " Affluenza " that includes a video. I haven't watched it yet, but the name is great. " This great video talks about the problem of Americans' uncontrollable desire to buy things they don't need. " http://v.mercola.com/blogs/public_blog/Do-You-Suffer-from-Affluenza--57645.aspx I had to post a comment on it Well done is better than well said..., Jim Igo --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 --- Gene " Ancient Eyeball Recipe " <implode7@...> wrote: > mercola¹s real argument is that we only need his products... Gene, somebody's got to pay for Mercola's web site That said, I have not found anything I've wanted to purchase there in quite some time. I bought some books a couple of years ago and at that time tried the " Whey Healthier " protein powder, which I didn't like. I found raw dairy at that time and switched to raw. At least, he does advocate eating real food and does provide a huge amount of health information - most of which I like. He has a very large audience and that helps to spread the health message, and even if it's not always a perfect health message, it's usually much better than the corresponding conventional health message. I do like to watch his blog, because he and staff do sometimes dig up some interesting stuff (though most of it is nothing new). And if you play nice, you can express your *health* opinions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 I think that his advice is skewed by his greed....I did notice at one time, some article on his site entitled something like 'how to get filthy rich by promoting your own products' or something like that. I didn't read it. True - he promotes eating real food etc, but I wonder know knowledgeable the guy really is....he is the only person I've ever heard state, for instance, that when you scramble eggs, they become oxidized (or something like that) and that they are bad for you. I do not agree that you can post on his little forums if you " play nice " . You probably have no conception of how many posts are deleted from there...now granted, my experience is with his Ron threads, but I know for a fact that stuff that simply disagrees with his positions gets deleted from there. And, yes, I was playing quite nice. One time they left a message on there saying that I had violated the terms of the online posting agreement, or some such, and I emailed asking about it. I got a letter, profusely apologizing, and saying that it was a mistake. However, further emails asking them to take down the public notice of violation met with no response. If you post stuff saying things like Native Americans deserved to be massacred because they weren't christian, the posts will generally be left up. If you post disagreeing the Ron is god, it will often be removed. Others have complained online about this also - not just me - but who knows how many of those are removed. I would strongly suspect that there is similar censorship on the nutrition forums. -------------- Original message ---------------------- From: " " <oz4caster@...> > --- Gene " Ancient Eyeball Recipe " <implode7@...> wrote: > > mercola¹s real argument is that we only need his products... > > Gene, somebody's got to pay for Mercola's web site > > That said, I have not found anything I've wanted to purchase there in > quite some time. I bought some books a couple of years ago and at > that time tried the " Whey Healthier " protein powder, which I didn't > like. I found raw dairy at that time and switched to raw. > > At least, he does advocate eating real food and does provide a huge > amount of health information - most of which I like. He has a very > large audience and that helps to spread the health message, and even > if it's not always a perfect health message, it's usually much better > than the corresponding conventional health message. > > I do like to watch his blog, because he and staff do sometimes dig up > some interesting stuff (though most of it is nothing new). And if you > play nice, you can express your *health* opinions > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 --- Gene <implode7@...> wrote: > I think that his advice is skewed by his greed.... Gene, I agree that his advice is sometimes skewed - buyer beware! > True - he promotes eating real food etc, but I wonder know > knowledgeable the guy really is....he is the only person I've ever > heard state, for instance, that when you scramble eggs, they become > oxidized (or something like that) and that they are bad for you. I trust Enig more on that one and she says scrambling eggs does not oxidize the PUFA (it's on a WAPF web page somewhere). But yeah, I certainly don't believe Mercola knows everything. Nobody does. Not even M. > I do not agree that you can post on his little forums if you > " play nice " . I said that in regard to *health* topics. I don't go to his blog for politics. But you're 100% right about other topics. And I suspect there may be some censorship of health comments as well, if they might have legal implications. > I would strongly suspect that there is similar censorship on the > nutrition forums. Not this one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2008 Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 I think that people feel better and do better in all areas of their lives when they listen to their bodies and eat what there bodies say they need. I have nothing against meat and milk but right now I need real foods as fresh vegetables and fruits because something tells me that is what I need right now. I am now adding dairy products back in and would dearly love to make it raw, but it is expensive and the closest place to me does only goats. Which is ok with me, I like goat milk but with the cost of gas and the cost of raw milk... I don't think that will happen any time soon. The best I can do is to buy the milk that claims it is either organic or at least hormone free. Its not quite as expensive. Its the hormones that scare me more than anything. I do eat eggs and try to buy organic when I can. And I do eat fish. I find this list the most informative and hope to achieve a balance of good meats, dairy, and vegetables in the future. I have now discovered that grains will never be added back to my diet except rice occasionally. My neighbor and I are going in together on a garden this year. I am so looking forward to the produce from there. Maybe next year I will be well enough to do my own garden. C. Real Food and Prosperity Hi there! I was wondering how many people on this list feel that their lives have become more prosperous by moving to a nourishing, real food diet. I am working on an outline for an e-book that explores the connection between eating " rich " foods like butter fat and pate and the feeling of financial, emotional or spiritual freedom it can offer despite the size of one's bank account or possible lack of affiliation with any religion. Also to be explored are the psychological impact of basing your shopping list on what you have a coupon for, freedom from the price fluctuations caused by the oil crisis and how increased energy, better skin or weight loss will impact your confidence and ability to perform your work better. Many clients and friends of mine seem to feel they have benefited psychologically from " eating rich " (which, as you know, is sinful in today's world) one way or another, now I'd like to know your experiences. Down the road, I may be looking for actual testimonials to include in the book, but will post for that at that time. Just wanted to get the general gut reactions to this question to see if it strikes a chord with this group. Thanks, Adrienne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2008 Report Share Posted March 20, 2008 Hi, . One of the problems with people simply " listening to what their bodies need " is that if they haven't transitioned yet to real food (and it sounds like you have, so this is not about you) they will be listening to cravings. A diabetic or candida sufferer who merely listens to their body may think that an all plant-based diet suits them because it is what the body is asking for. Initially they may feel better, if they are not living on Tasty Kakes, but will likely end up on the losing end like so many. I lived 90 minutes from the nearest farm with raw dairy when I started this and found that it was worth it to drive there and buy a lot of product then freeze it. Unfortunately most of the milk in hfs's is ultrapasteurized and homogenized and not as organic/pesticide-free as you might think. I learned from my farmers that supply Natural By Nature that although the labeling claims grass-fed, they knew farmers contributing their milk that were definitely not putting animals on pasture. I have found that the trade off in doctor's bills and overall suffering (I was suicidal over my health problems) was motivation enough to cough up the cash even though my husband and I didn't have two nickels to rub together 12 years ago. My husband was earning $13K/yr and I made about $30/K. But we live in NJ where rent was $1000/mo plus utilities and car insurance was about $4/K for the two of us. Somehow we were able to pay for the food, doctor bills (insurance did cover some), $700/mo for the first few months of supplements, which went down a bit after the initial therapy, as well as car repairs (the doctor was also 90 minutes away) and save a few bucks as well. We even took a trip to Turkey later that year. Looking back, I think that I began to feel so positive and upbeat that my needs decreased proportionately (I certainly purchased less skin lotion and cosmetics!). Perhaps you and your neighbor can take turns going out for the goat milk every so often. If he/she is into it, of course. Thanks for sharing your story. It reminds me of aspects I need to address. Hope you continue on the upswing. Best, A > > I think that people feel better and do better in all areas of their lives when they listen to their bodies and eat what there bodies say they need. I have nothing against meat and milk but right now I need real foods as fresh vegetables and fruits because something tells me that is what I need right now. I am now adding dairy products back in and would dearly love to make it raw, but it is expensive and the closest place to me does only goats. Which is ok with me, I like goat milk but with the cost of gas and the cost of raw milk... I don't think that will happen any time soon. The best I can do is to buy the milk that claims it is either organic or at least hormone free. Its not quite as expensive. Its the hormones that scare me more than anything. I do eat eggs and try to buy organic when I can. And I do eat fish. I find this list the most informative and hope to achieve a balance of good meats, dairy, and vegetables in the future. I have now discovered that grains will never be added back to my diet except rice occasionally. My neighbor and I are going in together on a garden this year. I am so looking forward to the produce from there. Maybe next year I will be well enough to do my own garden. > > C. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2008 Report Share Posted March 20, 2008 I'll have to check out Affluenza. Seems to explore one aspect of what my book is getting at. My brain is always working on several planes at one time, so I see many branches on this tree of prosperity as it can relate to food. I affectionately refer to JM as " The Guru " , in other words, one stop shopping for all your health, political, religious and techie needs. He's like Null on meat. Cantankerous, bitter and always " the first " to have done whatever you're doing right now, be it surfing the net, recognizing the dangers of vaccines, or knowing what God really wants all the while reminding you that you don't have a home in Hawaii and still have to work a 40+ hour work week while he doesn't even need to see clients anymore. The main difference between the two is that Mercola can admit when he's made a mistake (at least as far as whole grains for everybody goes). Just my two cents. The Guru is taken from a top ten list of " Nutritionists to Watch Out For " that I came up with. A few others are " The Lover " (you know, the person who seems to be saying " I love you more than I love myself. I'm so fat and/or sick because all my energy goes into my clients, but trust me, this advice will work wonders for you " ) and " The One Hit Wonder " (the person stricken with some kind of disorder, usually a food allergy, that swears if he has it then every other living creature has it as well). It is interesting to see the many turns that this question has taken and perhaps most importantly how the definition of prosperity varies from person to person. Thanks for all your input. Please keep 'em coming. Best, A > > Enjoyed the video on affluenza, especially the part where it was mentioned that it is ironic that the most prosperous nations are also the most stressed. Consumer greed is empty & without a well bonded sense of community it is simply a throw away society, empty & shallow instead of filled up full. Materialism=stuff=excess junk=waste, was the message. To fill ourselves up with respect & dignity we must be self reliant & self sustaining as possible, in a way that nourishes our very nature through kind-loving nurturing. > > Best Always, Jim > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2008 Report Share Posted March 20, 2008 i agree absolutely with the thoughts below! i began dabbling into the vegetarian realm and SAD when i was 12 or 13 and my health declined fast from there. i really believe b/c i was not getting proper nourishment at such a crucial time in a young girl's life i was not able to distinguish what my body needed, much less listen to my body. it has taken me up until literally this year (i am 32) to get to that point. i first learned about WAP/NT when i was 6 weeks postpartum with my son and before i even got pregnant i was hell bent on being the purist raw vegan there was. of course when i was pregnant i craved heavy comfort foods and fell into eating lots of carbs, bread, pasta etc. but still keeping with the soy myth and eating very little if any at all fat. i was a mess those first 6 weeks and my son did not gain any weight for 3 of them. my chiropractor at the time is the one who told me to switch my diet immediately and begin eating lots of fat and protein and whole milk. i literally had to make myself eat this stuff b/c it did not come naturally and i definitely did not crave it. at the time i craved juice and fruit b/c that is what i ate most of. i was still brainwashed to believe that fat was the enemy and had enormous guilt for even enjoying full fat baby yogurt that at the time was so yummy to me. so the more i read and researched the more i began to see what it was i was missing and what i should be eating to be healthy and have healthy milk for my son, who began to gain weight and look healthier slowly after i changed my diet. i continued to make myself eat certain things even if i didn't really care for them b/c i knew it was good for me. a lot of people have disagreed about this with me, but what else was i supposed to do? i wanted to eat really carby things like pasta all the time and i would have said no to meat, eggs and especially milk. and believe me it would have been disasterous. i was so depressed and panicky and anxiety ridden back then... to this day if asked what i felt my body craved, i don't think i could tell you. i am to the point where i know how food makes me feel and i can determine what i really need, which is mostly fat, but i still have to make myself eat things and i usually end up eating the same things over and over not only b/c it's easier, but b/c these foods have an amazing effect on how i feel. and i want to feel good. amanda >One of the problems with people simply " listening to what their bodies need " is that if they haven't transitioned yet to real food (and it sounds like you have, so this is not about you) they will be listening to cravings. A diabetic or candida sufferer who merely listens to their body may think that an all plant-based diet suits them because it is what the body is asking for. Initially they may feel better, if they are not living on Tasty Kakes, but will likely end up on the losing end like so many. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 20, 2008 Report Share Posted March 20, 2008 Hi, Lis. You make some excellent points, but I think you missed the premise of what I was saying or perhaps I did not express it clearly - which is very typical of me, so thank you for bringing my attention to it. I am not suggesting that prosperity only comes in monetary form. Some people feel prosperous just because they have time to go fishing or spend time with family. Others might experience it as a spiritual connection with something greater than the self. And still others feel that the blessings of good health are enough to define their prosperity. I have lived in rural France and Yugoslavia as well as the center of Madrid and Europeans across the board live more simple lives than we do, but the distribution of wealth is more even and their needs/desires are generally less than ours. Part of it is that being part of a more socialist system, they are not raised to think that " the sky is the limit " . But they (at least until the last 10 years) cherish the uniqueness of their respective cultures and celebrate it. They live by modest means (although many of the people I know still own multiple properties, usually handed down through the family) while many Americans I know who have far more cash in the bank live in relative squalor. There are many psychosocial taboos surrounding a display of wealth as well, which is another area to be explored. I also don't mean to say that food is the only path to prosperity. But from a Law of Attraction perspective (for lack of better description), if you aim to attract more financial wealth into your life, which is what many people in more capitalist societies want (if not, need -- to pay for what insurance won't cover. LOL) I think that food is often an overlooked connection to that prosperity, while they may have many of the other principles in place. In a society that generally spends less than 10% of income on food this is an easy trapping. There is also another layer of society that probably spends more on food than most of us on this list, but don't realize it. They spend it in restaurants or on stuff they don't need because they had a coupon or on some kind of get slim (not healthy) scheme-- basically they are willing to spend money on anything that takes responsibility (and ultimately power) away from them. As the daughter of Chinese-Jamaican immigrants, I see the trend towards a hip, tasteless monoculture within my own family. Many of our family members and friends are willing to forego age old wisdom of our centenarian ancestors because some white guy in a lab coat said we're backwards, country bumpkins if we don't switch over to the bland, cheaply made, toxic swill his boss is selling. I don't believe that these people, just like the average native-born Americans, are able to fully experience prosperity without feeling fulfilled in all areas of life -- including the richness of food. They have been in the US and Canada for decades and now have poor health, but flashy cars. This is not prosperity in my opinion. Clearly the healthy immigrants you see buying good food see value in those foods or they would just jump on the bandwagon and eat like those around them. Luckily they, for now, have decided to hold on to those traditions because they satisfy them on a deep level. And while they may seem poor to us, many of them may be far better off than they were in their home countries and thus comparatively feel financially prosperous. If you are seeking financial prosperity, I hope you are able to uncover the missing link. When I first started in this path, I was living paycheck to paycheck after a period of unemployment and have no idea where the money came from to afford the food let alone doctor bills, rent, supplements etc. Little by little, the financial wealth grew, but my energy seemed to feel stagnant and I had to take a brutally, honest look at how I was standing in my way. I found many contradictions in my behavior (that didn't support where I was going with food, BTW), but instead of harping on those, I began putting more energy in what I wanted to see instead. Now the energy is in full swing and it feels wonderful! Cheers! Adrienne > > I would love it if it were to be true. > > But it makes me wonder then, if eating " real food " makes you more > prosperous, then how come so many people the world over, who still eat > " traditionally " because that's all they have (barely have) are not > prosperous? > > Or how come everyone in the rural/country areas of France, Greece, and > Italy (who still eat very rich food) - how come every person there is > not wealthy - most of those folks in the country areas live very > simple lives. > > And it would make me wonder, why my own ancestors who ate " real food " > and high fat diets were so poor (but mind you, their health was > excellent, and they all lived into their 90's). But they were poor. > > Personally, I may be totally wrong, but I believe prosperity is based > on your OWN mind-set. If you are one of the poor people in the world, > eating " traditional food " and you are wishing you could afford some of > the new, glamorous food, then you are likely poor (and will remain > that way because you BELIEVE you are not prosperous). > > On the other hand, if you believe eating processed food is > " prosperous " and shouts to others that you indeed " have arrived " , then > you are more likely to be prosperous, even if you eat it. Unhealthy. > But prosperous. > > How many very affluent North Americans live in our own neighborhoods, > have lots of wealth, but would trade it gladly for better health? How > many affluent North Americans eat " traditionally " - very few. > > I think it is all a matter of what you believe, especially what you > believe about prosperity/money. > > I live in the Toronto area, one of the world's greatest melting pots. > And at the grocery store, you'll see the new immigrants loading up on > fresh fruits/veggies, kefir, yogurt, milk, meats - good, healthy food. > But they're poor. Very healthy looking, trim, nice hair and skin. But > poor. > > On the other hand, you'll see the North Americans loading up on > packaged and processed foods. Overweight. Many with dull skin and > hair. A percentage of these North Americans have more prosperity, but > they don't eat well. The majority of these North Americans are " poor " , > and they don't eat well. It's more a matter of personal belief, IMO, > not what you eat. > > Me? I eat wonderfully rich and healthy food. And love every bite of > it. But I'm broker than broke. > > Lis > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2008 Report Share Posted March 21, 2008 You are both quite right... you do have to know what to listen for and that takes a real desire to improve your health through food. So research is key first...after which you should know that things loaded with sugar and refined foods are not your friends. Then it is ok to listen when your bodies is telling you what it needs. BTW adding dairy was a total bust... not ready for it yet.. Of course the question to ask is would it have been different had it been raw? Re: Real Food and Prosperity i agree absolutely with the thoughts below! i began dabbling into the vegetarian realm and SAD when i was 12 or 13 and my health declined fast from there. i really believe b/c i was not getting proper nourishment at such a crucial time in a young girl's life i was not able to distinguish what my body needed, much less listen to my body. it has taken me up until literally this year (i am 32) to get to that point. i first learned about WAP/NT when i was 6 weeks postpartum with my son and before i even got pregnant i was hell bent on being the purist raw vegan there was. of course when i was pregnant i craved heavy comfort foods and fell into eating lots of carbs, bread, pasta etc. but still keeping with the soy myth and eating very little if any at all fat. i was a mess those first 6 weeks and my son did not gain any weight for 3 of them. my chiropractor at the time is the one who told me to switch my diet immediately and begin eating lots of fat and protein and whole milk. i literally had to make myself eat this stuff b/c it did not come naturally and i definitely did not crave it. at the time i craved juice and fruit b/c that is what i ate most of. i was still brainwashed to believe that fat was the enemy and had enormous guilt for even enjoying full fat baby yogurt that at the time was so yummy to me. so the more i read and researched the more i began to see what it was i was missing and what i should be eating to be healthy and have healthy milk for my son, who began to gain weight and look healthier slowly after i changed my diet. i continued to make myself eat certain things even if i didn't really care for them b/c i knew it was good for me. a lot of people have disagreed about this with me, but what else was i supposed to do? i wanted to eat really carby things like pasta all the time and i would have said no to meat, eggs and especially milk. and believe me it would have been disasterous. i was so depressed and panicky and anxiety ridden back then... to this day if asked what i felt my body craved, i don't think i could tell you. i am to the point where i know how food makes me feel and i can determine what i really need, which is mostly fat, but i still have to make myself eat things and i usually end up eating the same things over and over not only b/c it's easier, but b/c these foods have an amazing effect on how i feel. and i want to feel good. amanda >One of the problems with people simply " listening to what their bodies need " is that if they haven't transitioned yet to real food (and it sounds like you have, so this is not about you) they will be listening to cravings. A diabetic or candida sufferer who merely listens to their body may think that an all plant-based diet suits them because it is what the body is asking for. Initially they may feel better, if they are not living on Tasty Kakes, but will likely end up on the losing end like so many. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2008 Report Share Posted March 21, 2008 --- ahewcn <ahewcn@...> wrote: > You make some excellent points, but I think you > missed the premise of what I was saying > or perhaps I did not express it clearly - which is > very typical of me, so thank you for > bringing my attention to it. Unfortunately I still don't quite understand some of the points you are trying to make. I'll address a few things below (because I think my comments may possibly add to your list of things to consider). But if not, then don't worry about it. > I am not suggesting > that prosperity only comes in monetary > form. Some people feel prosperous just because they > have time to go fishing or spend > time with family. Others might experience it as a > spiritual connection with something > greater than the self. And still others feel that > the blessings of good health are enough to > define their prosperity. So then is it your belief that people will NOT feel prosperous in these areas of their lives unless they are eating rich food (and enjoying it)? > I have lived in rural France and Yugoslavia as well > as the center of Madrid and Europeans > across the board live more simple lives than we do, > but the distribution of wealth is more > even and their needs/desires are generally less than > ours. Part of it is that being part of a > more socialist system, they are not raised to think > that " the sky is the limit " . But they (at > least until the last 10 years) cherish the > uniqueness of their respective cultures and > celebrate it. They live by modest means (although > many of the people I know still own > multiple properties, usually handed down through the > family) while many Americans I > know who have far more cash in the bank live in > relative squalor. There are many > psychosocial taboos surrounding a display of wealth > as well, which is another area to be > explored. Yes, I understand Europe is different. But I'm sorry, I'm not understanding the point you are trying to make. I hear you saying they have lesser needs, and wealth is more evenly distributed - how does that relate to those who live in rural areas who still eat rich food? Are you trying to say they are more or less prosperous? > I also don't mean to say that food is the only path > to prosperity. But from a Law of > Attraction perspective (for lack of better > description), if you aim to attract more financial > wealth into your life, which is what many people in > more capitalist societies want (if not, > need -- to pay for what insurance won't cover. LOL) > I think that food is often an > overlooked connection to that prosperity, while they > may have many of the other > principles in place. In a society that generally > spends less than 10% of income on food this > is an easy trapping. But you don't necessarily have to pay big money to eat rich food. Spending more money on food does not mean that you are eating rich food. The point in my previous response was that most of the poor ethnic people were eating food that was more rich, not the reverse. I just returned from Whole Foods - a very expensive grocery store (by comparative standards) in my neck of the woods. I found myself surrounded by upper income white people (who are the regular shoppers there). Usually I am the only non-white person in the entire store - I could count on one hand the number of non-white non-affluent folks I've ever seen in there. What were these prosperous (successful, rich, BMW driving) people buying? Low-fat food, packaged goods, the leanest meats possible, and coffee (lots of coffee). The cheese and dairy departments were almost empty. The frozen processed food and packaged goods were flying off the shelves. The fruit and vegetable department was so packed you couldn't walk straight through. These VERY AFFLUENT people were NOT buying rich food. Yet, they were prosperous (at least financially). > There is also another layer of > society that probably spends more on > food than most of us on this list, but don't realize > it. They spend it in restaurants or on > stuff they don't need because they had a coupon or > on some kind of get slim (not healthy) > scheme-- basically they are willing to spend money > on anything that takes responsibility > (and ultimately power) away from them. Again, are you saying it is more about how much people SPEND on food? I thought your original premise was about the RICHNESS of the food people consume? I took that literally (i.e. fat, dairy, meat, etc). > As the daughter of Chinese-Jamaican immigrants, I > see the trend towards a hip, tasteless > monoculture within my own family. Many of our family > members and friends are willing to > forego age old wisdom of our centenarian ancestors > because some white guy in a lab coat > said we're backwards, country bumpkins if we don't > switch over to the bland, cheaply > made, toxic swill his boss is selling. I don't > believe that these people, just like the average > native-born Americans, are able to fully experience > prosperity without feeling fulfilled in > all areas of life -- including the richness of food. > They have been in the US and Canada for > decades and now have poor health, but flashy cars. > This is not prosperity in my opinion. Here in Toronto, we have one of the largest populations of Jamaicans outside of Jamaica. By and large, they continue to eat Jamaican food (just as the other immigrants eat many of the same food from their countries of origin). When I go to the " typical " grocery store, I see them buying goat, oxtail, curry, yams, fish for frying, chicken, plantains, pork, etc. I find it difficult to believe that most Jamaicans (and other immigrants) are buying and consuming non-rich food, when I seem them buying very rich food, week after week. > Clearly the healthy immigrants you see buying good > food see value in those foods or they > would just jump on the bandwagon and eat like those > around them. Actually, I have to disagree outrightly with this. They buy the rich food, because it is cheaper (processed, packaged food is more expensive). They can get a bit of meat and a lot more vegetables for less money. Also, I feel they continue to eat rich food because this is the way they ate previous to arriving here. They are familiar with meat and vegetables and dairy. They are not familiar with our brands. And some of them don't even know enough English to read our labels. > Luckily they, for now, > have decided to hold on to those traditions because > they satisfy them on a deep level. And > while they may seem poor to us, many of them may be > far better off than they were in > their home countries and thus comparatively feel > financially prosperous. It's hard to say if they feel prosperous. In some cases, they would feel more successful because they managed to transition to a new country. In other ways, they would feel less fulfilled, because they've left behind the familiar, as well as friends and family. More successful? Less fulfilled? More or less prosperous? I think prosperity could only be measured on a person by person basis, not based on whether or not they are eating rich food. Personally I don't see a correlation between rich food and prosperity. But you are determined to see one. All I ask is that you at least consider some of my points, no matter how anxious you are to believe the opposite. And if I've totally misunderstood and/or am totally out to lunch, then let us at least hope it is a " rich " lunch Lis ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. http://tools.search./newsearch/category.php?category=shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2008 Report Share Posted March 21, 2008 Wow, . Thank you so much for sharing your story. A friend of mine had a similar experience. In her case, however, she had to change her diet once she found out that her son was autistic and all the foods she was eating were making him worse. She couldn't even touch meat at first, but craved it once she started eating it. In fact she ate beef every night for at least the first month -- but her husband had to cook it. I am glad that your new diet has you feeling better and your son growing strong. I commend you for being open and conscious enough to make such drastic changes -- not that you need my approval, but I find stories like yours very heartening. It is always weird for others to understand that there is yet another way to eat and that SAD and vegetarianism in its many forms are not the only ones. My husband's co-worker is diabetic and is going from SAD to vegetarianism and its not looking good, but it makes her feel better to be part of a popular crowd in the office. Congratulations to you though! Adrienne > > i agree absolutely with the thoughts below! i began dabbling into the vegetarian realm and SAD when i was 12 or 13 and my health declined fast from there. i really believe b/c i was not getting proper nourishment at such a crucial time in a young girl's life i was not able to distinguish what my body needed, much less listen to my body. it has taken me up until literally this year (i am 32) to get to that point. i first learned about WAP/NT when i was 6 weeks postpartum with my son and before i even got pregnant i was hell bent on being the purist raw vegan there was. of course when i was pregnant i craved heavy comfort foods and fell into eating lots of carbs, bread, pasta etc. but still keeping with the soy myth and eating very little if any at all fat. i was a mess those first 6 weeks and my son did not gain any weight for 3 of them. my chiropractor at the time is the one who told me to switch my diet immediately and begin eating lots of fat and protein and whole milk. i literally had to make myself eat this stuff b/c it did not come naturally and i definitely did not crave it. at the time i craved juice and fruit b/c that is what i ate most of. i was still brainwashed to believe that fat was the enemy and had enormous guilt for even enjoying full fat baby yogurt that at the time was so yummy to me. so the more i read and researched the more i began to see what it was i was missing and what i should be eating to be healthy and have healthy milk for my son, who began to gain weight and look healthier slowly after i changed my diet. i continued to make myself eat certain things even if i didn't really care for them b/c i knew it was good for me. a lot of people have disagreed about this with me, but what else was i supposed to do? i wanted to eat really carby things like pasta all the time and i would have said no to meat, eggs and especially milk. and believe me it would have been disasterous. i was so depressed and panicky and anxiety ridden back then... > > to this day if asked what i felt my body craved, i don't think i could tell you. i am to the point where i know how food makes me feel and i can determine what i really need, which is mostly fat, but i still have to make myself eat things and i usually end up eating the same things over and over not only b/c it's easier, but b/c these foods have an amazing effect on how i feel. and i want to feel good. > > amanda > > > >One of the problems with people simply " listening to what their bodies need " is that if they haven't transitioned yet to real food (and it sounds like you have, so this is not about you) > they will be listening to cravings. A diabetic or candida sufferer who merely listens to their body may think that an all plant-based diet suits them because it is what the body is asking for. Initially they may feel better, if they are not living on Tasty Kakes, but will likely end up on the losing end like so many. > > > > > > . > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 21, 2008 Report Share Posted March 21, 2008 > > Unfortunately I still don't quite understand some of > the points you are trying to make. I'll address a few > things below (because I think my comments may possibly > add to your list of things to consider). But if not, > then don't worry about it. > I always consider everything. It helps me fine tune my message. I have a lot of ideas in my head and input helps me see where I can make any concept more accessible. > > I am not suggesting > > that prosperity only comes in monetary > > form. Some people feel prosperous just because they > > have time to go fishing or spend > > time with family. Others might experience it as a > > spiritual connection with something > > greater than the self. And still others feel that > > the blessings of good health are enough to > > define their prosperity. > > So then is it your belief that people will NOT feel > prosperous in these areas of their lives unless they > are eating rich food (and enjoying it)? Not necessarily. I simply think it has the propensity to limit to the experience. We tend to be conditioned to think that anything rich is sinful and deprivation is virtuous. I think it is a shame because people could really be enjoying their food -- something that used to shape community, family and culture. Right now, I think most people are juggling a combination of sugar cravings, guilt and fear, IMO not conducive to enjoying food. > > > I have lived in rural France and Yugoslavia as well > > as the center of Madrid and Europeans > > across the board live more simple lives than we do, > > but the distribution of wealth is more > > even and their needs/desires are generally less than > > ours. Part of it is that being part of a > > more socialist system, they are not raised to think > > that " the sky is the limit " . But they (at > > least until the last 10 years) cherish the > > uniqueness of their respective cultures and > > celebrate it. They live by modest means (although > > many of the people I know still own > > multiple properties, usually handed down through the > > family) while many Americans I > > know who have far more cash in the bank live in > > relative squalor. There are many > > psychosocial taboos surrounding a display of wealth > > as well, which is another area to be > > explored. > > Yes, I understand Europe is different. But I'm sorry, > I'm not understanding the point you are trying to > make. I hear you saying they have lesser needs, and > wealth is more evenly distributed - how does that > relate to those who live in rural areas who still eat > rich food? Are you trying to say they are more or less > prosperous? > Remember, I said that prosperity is not necessarily having gobs and gobs of money in the bank. I know many people throughout Europe who feel prosperous because they feel have all they need to feel happy: family, community, free time and kick ass rich food. My Asian friends are a different story. Their food is good, but most of them are on low-fat kicks and the Japanese ones eat quite a bit of junk food and they all work almost as much as us. > > I also don't mean to say that food is the only path > > to prosperity. But from a Law of > > Attraction perspective (for lack of better > > description), if you aim to attract more financial > > wealth into your life, which is what many people in > > more capitalist societies want (if not, > > need -- to pay for what insurance won't cover. LOL) > > I think that food is often an > > overlooked connection to that prosperity, while they > > may have many of the other > > principles in place. In a society that generally > > spends less than 10% of income on food this > > is an easy trapping. > > But you don't necessarily have to pay big money to eat > rich food. Spending more money on food does not mean > that you are eating rich food. The point in my > previous response was that most of the poor ethnic > people were eating food that was more rich, not the > reverse. I know that. I don't spend huge amounts of money on food, but I spend more on select items. I haven't been to Toronto in about 20 years, but in the US processed food is available at all price points. Today, I just heard on the radio that a woman wrote a 99 Cent Store Cookbook. I have seen people eating these foods because they choose to think that buying canned vegetables differs very little from buying fresh ones in the supermarket. > > I just returned from Whole Foods - a very expensive > grocery store (by comparative standards) in my neck of > the woods. I found myself surrounded by upper income > white people (who are the regular shoppers there). > Usually I am the only non-white person in the entire > store - I could count on one hand the number of > non-white non-affluent folks I've ever seen in there. > > What were these prosperous (successful, rich, BMW > driving) people buying? Low-fat food, packaged goods, > the leanest meats possible, and coffee (lots of > coffee). The cheese and dairy departments were almost > empty. The frozen processed food and packaged goods > were flying off the shelves. The fruit and vegetable > department was so packed you couldn't walk straight > through. These VERY AFFLUENT people were NOT buying > rich food. Yet, they were prosperous (at least > financially). My sister is one of these VERY AFFLUENT people who buys the crappiest junk she can find in WF. She will spend $60K every year or two on a new Infiniti or Mercedes SUV and lives in a $2M house in DC, but spends an obsessive amount of time counting calories and fat grams and choosing cheap-o Horizon milk in the store because raw milk is too expensive. This food clearly does not satisfy her because her family goes out of their way to be distracted at mealtime or simply eats over the sink or in the car. Many of my clients find that when they turn off the distractions and pay attention to their food, they really don't enjoy the low-fat crap as much as they thought they did and are able to savor the rich foods they rejected before. I don't have nearly the amount of money my sister has, but I always feel more prosperous than her because I've allowed my life to slow down enough to accommodate those things I truly enjoy, including food. Back when I barely had any money, my friends from Hong Kong commented on what a luxurious life I lead similar to the lives their rural grandparents led in France (they both were raised in France). > > > There is also another layer of > > society that probably spends more on > > food than most of us on this list, but don't realize > > it. They spend it in restaurants or on > > stuff they don't need because they had a coupon or > > on some kind of get slim (not healthy) > > scheme-- basically they are willing to spend money > > on anything that takes responsibility > > (and ultimately power) away from them. > > Again, are you saying it is more about how much people > SPEND on food? I thought your original premise was > about the RICHNESS of the food people consume? I took > that literally (i.e. fat, dairy, meat, etc). > This is just another aspect of the same premise. As a nutritionist, most people tell me they can't afford to eat better, but has the money. It's just another excuse that people give not to change their habits even if it can benefit them. I do stress that this doesn't need to cost much, but... people get in their own way. Some people just love being miserable. > > As the daughter of Chinese-Jamaican immigrants, I > > see the trend towards a hip, tasteless > > monoculture within my own family. Many of our family > > members and friends are willing to > > forego age old wisdom of our centenarian ancestors > > because some white guy in a lab coat > > said we're backwards, country bumpkins if we don't > > switch over to the bland, cheaply > > made, toxic swill his boss is selling. I don't > > believe that these people, just like the average > > native-born Americans, are able to fully experience > > prosperity without feeling fulfilled in > > all areas of life -- including the richness of food. > > They have been in the US and Canada for > > decades and now have poor health, but flashy cars. > > This is not prosperity in my opinion. > > Here in Toronto, we have one of the largest > populations of Jamaicans outside of Jamaica. By and > large, they continue to eat Jamaican food (just as the > other immigrants eat many of the same food from their > countries of origin). When I go to the " typical " > grocery store, I see them buying goat, oxtail, curry, > yams, fish for frying, chicken, plantains, pork, etc. > I find it difficult to believe that most Jamaicans > (and other immigrants) are buying and consuming > non-rich food, when I seem them buying very rich food, > week after week. The Jamaicans I know live primarily between Toronto and Florida, including NY where I am from. Most of them have been here since the 1960s and even the newer arrivals have switched to at least some industrialized food -- particularly the vegetable oils. I just had an intervention with a cousin of mine back in JA who is suffering from several health problems and doesn't see the correlation between Doritos and what's going on. They have all that crap there. My experience has been that immigrants essentially keep to the meats and vegetables they ate back home, but use the PC oils and consume sweets, sodas and other junk far more frequently than they did in their countries of origin. Then they can't figure out why they gained so much weight when they got here. Well, actually now they blame it on meat. > > > Clearly the healthy immigrants you see buying good > > food see value in those foods or they > > would just jump on the bandwagon and eat like those > > around them. > > Actually, I have to disagree outrightly with this. > They buy the rich food, because it is cheaper > (processed, packaged food is more expensive). They can > get a bit of meat and a lot more vegetables for less > money. > Again, the 99 cent store sells packaged food too. One thing I agree with the experts about is that obesity in low income neighborhoods is in large part due to the availability of cheap processed foods. At least on the east coast, there are few markets that sell fresh food in low income neighborhoods. > Also, I feel they continue to eat rich food because > this is the way they ate previous to arriving here. > They are familiar with meat and vegetables and dairy. > They are not familiar with our brands. And some of > them don't even know enough English to read our > labels. > True, but they do replace the fats and oils in particular with industrial ones. And if they have kids here, the junk food will eventually follow. > > Luckily they, for now, > > have decided to hold on to those traditions because > > they satisfy them on a deep level. And > > while they may seem poor to us, many of them may be > > far better off than they were in > > their home countries and thus comparatively feel > > financially prosperous. > > It's hard to say if they feel prosperous. In some > cases, they would feel more successful because they > managed to transition to a new country. In other ways, > they would feel less fulfilled, because they've left > behind the familiar, as well as friends and family. > More successful? Less fulfilled? More or less > prosperous? I think prosperity could only be measured > on a person by person basis, not based on whether or > not they are eating rich food. There is almost always a bittersweet sentiment when moving to new surroundings, particularly when the culture and language are different. I'm not sure how differently I can say it so that you see I am essentially saying the same thing as you are. Prosperity can be measured in many ways and each person may have a different way of feeling prosperous. But what you don't seem to get is that I am not trying to determine for others what will make them prosperous. I am just offering another avenue to consider. One that offers me and many others a feeling of comfort and satisfaction when everything else seems to be going wrong. Since most of us eat at least 3 times per day, the messages we send ourselves about food will inevitably manifest in other areas of life. I FEEL that if we see rich anything as bad or sinful, we will feel bad or sinful if we become rich, healthy, or content with any area of our lives. Sorta like misery loves company. Ya know? > > Personally I don't see a correlation between rich food > and prosperity. But you are determined to see one. All > I ask is that you at least consider some of my points, > no matter how anxious you are to believe the opposite. That's cool. I'm not trying to change the world or even you. If I am determined to see this correlation, then you are determined not to see it. I see no harm in exploring this possibility and I am sorry that it upsets you so much. Until you, everybody on a WAP- esque diet that I have talked to about this (many of whom are harsh, pragmatic critics) said that they do feel a sense of privilege, prosperity or fulfillment since embracing all the whole foods including rich fats and meats. So it is good to know that it still does leave some people's glass half empty. I actually assumed that it did (not fulfill everyone). Nonetheless I just think it is an interesting avenue to investigate, not to provide all the answers for. Obviously, like anything worthwhile, this cannot be summed up in a few sound bytes or paragraphs. It is indeed an intricate web with many layers and merely an EXPLORATION. Good luck! Adrienne > > And if I've totally misunderstood and/or am totally > out to lunch, then let us at least hope it is a " rich " > lunch > > Lis > > > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ > Looking for last minute shopping deals? > Find them fast with Search. http://tools.search./newsearch/category.php?category=shopping > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2008 Report Share Posted March 22, 2008 Adrienne, I get what you are saying, but there is a cost to changing over to what you refer to as a rich diet. If you are like me, on too many drugs and supplements, many of which you have to keep taking while you are making the change over, the cost can be tough to bear. Plus, if you are like me, you don't know much about fruits and vegetables and raw and organic dairy and meats so there tends to be alot of waste initially. Plus I have the added disadvantage of not being able to consume grains except rice, which are a bit less expensive than the other stuff. And then there is the cooking and prep time. For some, that's hard to fit in initially. I don't have a time problem, I have an energy problem and for a time a mobility problem. Initially it was very tough for me. Now I am starting to feel better and I am becoming familar with the different foods and preparation of my meals is much easier now. But it is hard to change a lifetime of bad habits, especially when everyone else has joined in. And sometimes, even if you have a live in example of good eating, it still doesn't help. I live with my sister who eats one of the worst diets ever and is a diabetic. She is seeing the changes in me and still refuses to even consider such a thing..... I have a long way to go but in just about 4 months I have seen much improvement in my health. My pocket book still suffers and I must continue to juggle food and medical needs. My goal is to be able to eat even richer as the need for the medical outlay goes down. I hope this adds to your research. Re: Real Food and Prosperity > > Unfortunately I still don't quite understand some of > the points you are trying to make. I'll address a few > things below (because I think my comments may possibly > add to your list of things to consider). But if not, > then don't worry about it. > I always consider everything. It helps me fine tune my message. I have a lot of ideas in my head and input helps me see where I can make any concept more accessible. > > I am not suggesting > > that prosperity only comes in monetary > > form. Some people feel prosperous just because they > > have time to go fishing or spend > > time with family. Others might experience it as a > > spiritual connection with something > > greater than the self. And still others feel that > > the blessings of good health are enough to > > define their prosperity. > > So then is it your belief that people will NOT feel > prosperous in these areas of their lives unless they > are eating rich food (and enjoying it)? Not necessarily. I simply think it has the propensity to limit to the experience. We tend to be conditioned to think that anything rich is sinful and deprivation is virtuous. I think it is a shame because people could really be enjoying their food -- something that used to shape community, family and culture. Right now, I think most people are juggling a combination of sugar cravings, guilt and fear, IMO not conducive to enjoying food. > > > I have lived in rural France and Yugoslavia as well > > as the center of Madrid and Europeans > > across the board live more simple lives than we do, > > but the distribution of wealth is more > > even and their needs/desires are generally less than > > ours. Part of it is that being part of a > > more socialist system, they are not raised to think > > that " the sky is the limit " . But they (at > > least until the last 10 years) cherish the > > uniqueness of their respective cultures and > > celebrate it. They live by modest means (although > > many of the people I know still own > > multiple properties, usually handed down through the > > family) while many Americans I > > know who have far more cash in the bank live in > > relative squalor. There are many > > psychosocial taboos surrounding a display of wealth > > as well, which is another area to be > > explored. > > Yes, I understand Europe is different. But I'm sorry, > I'm not understanding the point you are trying to > make. I hear you saying they have lesser needs, and > wealth is more evenly distributed - how does that > relate to those who live in rural areas who still eat > rich food? Are you trying to say they are more or less > prosperous? > Remember, I said that prosperity is not necessarily having gobs and gobs of money in the bank. I know many people throughout Europe who feel prosperous because they feel have all they need to feel happy: family, community, free time and kick ass rich food. My Asian friends are a different story. Their food is good, but most of them are on low-fat kicks and the Japanese ones eat quite a bit of junk food and they all work almost as much as us. > > I also don't mean to say that food is the only path > > to prosperity. But from a Law of > > Attraction perspective (for lack of better > > description), if you aim to attract more financial > > wealth into your life, which is what many people in > > more capitalist societies want (if not, > > need -- to pay for what insurance won't cover. LOL) > > I think that food is often an > > overlooked connection to that prosperity, while they > > may have many of the other > > principles in place. In a society that generally > > spends less than 10% of income on food this > > is an easy trapping. > > But you don't necessarily have to pay big money to eat > rich food. Spending more money on food does not mean > that you are eating rich food. The point in my > previous response was that most of the poor ethnic > people were eating food that was more rich, not the > reverse. I know that. I don't spend huge amounts of money on food, but I spend more on select items. I haven't been to Toronto in about 20 years, but in the US processed food is available at all price points. Today, I just heard on the radio that a woman wrote a 99 Cent Store Cookbook. I have seen people eating these foods because they choose to think that buying canned vegetables differs very little from buying fresh ones in the supermarket. > > I just returned from Whole Foods - a very expensive > grocery store (by comparative standards) in my neck of > the woods. I found myself surrounded by upper income > white people (who are the regular shoppers there). > Usually I am the only non-white person in the entire > store - I could count on one hand the number of > non-white non-affluent folks I've ever seen in there. > > What were these prosperous (successful, rich, BMW > driving) people buying? Low-fat food, packaged goods, > the leanest meats possible, and coffee (lots of > coffee). The cheese and dairy departments were almost > empty. The frozen processed food and packaged goods > were flying off the shelves. The fruit and vegetable > department was so packed you couldn't walk straight > through. These VERY AFFLUENT people were NOT buying > rich food. Yet, they were prosperous (at least > financially). My sister is one of these VERY AFFLUENT people who buys the crappiest junk she can find in WF. She will spend $60K every year or two on a new Infiniti or Mercedes SUV and lives in a $2M house in DC, but spends an obsessive amount of time counting calories and fat grams and choosing cheap-o Horizon milk in the store because raw milk is too expensive. This food clearly does not satisfy her because her family goes out of their way to be distracted at mealtime or simply eats over the sink or in the car. Many of my clients find that when they turn off the distractions and pay attention to their food, they really don't enjoy the low-fat crap as much as they thought they did and are able to savor the rich foods they rejected before. I don't have nearly the amount of money my sister has, but I always feel more prosperous than her because I've allowed my life to slow down enough to accommodate those things I truly enjoy, including food. Back when I barely had any money, my friends from Hong Kong commented on what a luxurious life I lead similar to the lives their rural grandparents led in France (they both were raised in France). > > > There is also another layer of > > society that probably spends more on > > food than most of us on this list, but don't realize > > it. They spend it in restaurants or on > > stuff they don't need because they had a coupon or > > on some kind of get slim (not healthy) > > scheme-- basically they are willing to spend money > > on anything that takes responsibility > > (and ultimately power) away from them. > > Again, are you saying it is more about how much people > SPEND on food? I thought your original premise was > about the RICHNESS of the food people consume? I took > that literally (i.e. fat, dairy, meat, etc). > This is just another aspect of the same premise. As a nutritionist, most people tell me they can't afford to eat better, but has the money. It's just another excuse that people give not to change their habits even if it can benefit them. I do stress that this doesn't need to cost much, but... people get in their own way. Some people just love being miserable. > > As the daughter of Chinese-Jamaican immigrants, I > > see the trend towards a hip, tasteless > > monoculture within my own family. Many of our family > > members and friends are willing to > > forego age old wisdom of our centenarian ancestors > > because some white guy in a lab coat > > said we're backwards, country bumpkins if we don't > > switch over to the bland, cheaply > > made, toxic swill his boss is selling. I don't > > believe that these people, just like the average > > native-born Americans, are able to fully experience > > prosperity without feeling fulfilled in > > all areas of life -- including the richness of food. > > They have been in the US and Canada for > > decades and now have poor health, but flashy cars. > > This is not prosperity in my opinion. > > Here in Toronto, we have one of the largest > populations of Jamaicans outside of Jamaica. By and > large, they continue to eat Jamaican food (just as the > other immigrants eat many of the same food from their > countries of origin). When I go to the " typical " > grocery store, I see them buying goat, oxtail, curry, > yams, fish for frying, chicken, plantains, pork, etc. > I find it difficult to believe that most Jamaicans > (and other immigrants) are buying and consuming > non-rich food, when I seem them buying very rich food, > week after week. The Jamaicans I know live primarily between Toronto and Florida, including NY where I am from. Most of them have been here since the 1960s and even the newer arrivals have switched to at least some industrialized food -- particularly the vegetable oils. I just had an intervention with a cousin of mine back in JA who is suffering from several health problems and doesn't see the correlation between Doritos and what's going on. They have all that crap there. My experience has been that immigrants essentially keep to the meats and vegetables they ate back home, but use the PC oils and consume sweets, sodas and other junk far more frequently than they did in their countries of origin. Then they can't figure out why they gained so much weight when they got here. Well, actually now they blame it on meat. > > > Clearly the healthy immigrants you see buying good > > food see value in those foods or they > > would just jump on the bandwagon and eat like those > > around them. > > Actually, I have to disagree outrightly with this. > They buy the rich food, because it is cheaper > (processed, packaged food is more expensive). They can > get a bit of meat and a lot more vegetables for less > money. > Again, the 99 cent store sells packaged food too. One thing I agree with the experts about is that obesity in low income neighborhoods is in large part due to the availability of cheap processed foods. At least on the east coast, there are few markets that sell fresh food in low income neighborhoods. > Also, I feel they continue to eat rich food because > this is the way they ate previous to arriving here. > They are familiar with meat and vegetables and dairy. > They are not familiar with our brands. And some of > them don't even know enough English to read our > labels. > True, but they do replace the fats and oils in particular with industrial ones. And if they have kids here, the junk food will eventually follow. > > Luckily they, for now, > > have decided to hold on to those traditions because > > they satisfy them on a deep level. And > > while they may seem poor to us, many of them may be > > far better off than they were in > > their home countries and thus comparatively feel > > financially prosperous. > > It's hard to say if they feel prosperous. In some > cases, they would feel more successful because they > managed to transition to a new country. In other ways, > they would feel less fulfilled, because they've left > behind the familiar, as well as friends and family. > More successful? Less fulfilled? More or less > prosperous? I think prosperity could only be measured > on a person by person basis, not based on whether or > not they are eating rich food. There is almost always a bittersweet sentiment when moving to new surroundings, particularly when the culture and language are different. I'm not sure how differently I can say it so that you see I am essentially saying the same thing as you are. Prosperity can be measured in many ways and each person may have a different way of feeling prosperous. But what you don't seem to get is that I am not trying to determine for others what will make them prosperous. I am just offering another avenue to consider. One that offers me and many others a feeling of comfort and satisfaction when everything else seems to be going wrong. Since most of us eat at least 3 times per day, the messages we send ourselves about food will inevitably manifest in other areas of life. I FEEL that if we see rich anything as bad or sinful, we will feel bad or sinful if we become rich, healthy, or content with any area of our lives. Sorta like misery loves company. Ya know? > > Personally I don't see a correlation between rich food > and prosperity. But you are determined to see one. All > I ask is that you at least consider some of my points, > no matter how anxious you are to believe the opposite. That's cool. I'm not trying to change the world or even you. If I am determined to see this correlation, then you are determined not to see it. I see no harm in exploring this possibility and I am sorry that it upsets you so much. Until you, everybody on a WAP- esque diet that I have talked to about this (many of whom are harsh, pragmatic critics) said that they do feel a sense of privilege, prosperity or fulfillment since embracing all the whole foods including rich fats and meats. So it is good to know that it still does leave some people's glass half empty. I actually assumed that it did (not fulfill everyone). Nonetheless I just think it is an interesting avenue to investigate, not to provide all the answers for. Obviously, like anything worthwhile, this cannot be summed up in a few sound bytes or paragraphs. It is indeed an intricate web with many layers and merely an EXPLORATION. Good luck! Adrienne > > And if I've totally misunderstood and/or am totally > out to lunch, then let us at least hope it is a " rich " > lunch > > Lis > > > __________________________________________________________ > Looking for last minute shopping deals? > Find them fast with Search. http://tools.search./newsearch/category.php?category=shopping > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2008 Report Share Posted March 22, 2008 I wholeheartedly agree with you, . Remember, I've been there too -- in many respects and also not able to eat grains as well. Asian markets and cooking came in very handy for alternatives to whatever I wasn't allowed to eat. But you do have the motivation which is key. You are motivated by the promise of improved health which will enable you to enjoy life more and dedicate more time to fulfillment in other areas. With some ingenuity and doing things like making stock, you will be able to manage your budget better. And once your nutritional stores are reinstated, you will find that it takes only a little of the rich foods to satisfy you. It's not so much about forcing yourself to eat rich as much as it is allowing yourself to enjoy rich. I admit that I was lucky my husband has always been sensitive to my needs. But then again, I never had any foods that I'd call a real vice either. Most of our friends have tried to tempt us to do whatever they do, but as soon as we started on this we couldn't make a good enough excuse to go back. And while they tried to tell us we were wasting our time, we knew it was their fears of giving up their past that was the source of their comments. Sorry dairy isn't working out for you. What did you try? The only dairy I could eat was cream (my local hfs carried some from smaller dairies and I cultured it) and butter because I was unable to get raw. Raw makes a huge difference. So you may want to experiment -- even culturing the raw stuff -- as time goes on. I have always found that every leap of faith I have taken has yielded incredible results. Like putting my final semester of college on a credit card when I was making $4/hr and paying $500/mo in rent in NYC. One month later, I landed a $27K/yr job and paid off the cc within 4 months. Have you ever had such an experience? A lot of this is about trust. Thank you for your comments. I certainly plan to include this scenario as one of the places readers might be coming from. > > Adrienne, > > I get what you are saying, but there is a cost to changing over to what you refer to as a rich diet. If you are like me, on too many drugs and supplements, many of which you have to keep taking while you are making the change over, the cost can be tough to bear. Plus, if you are like me, you don't know much about fruits and vegetables and raw and organic dairy and meats so there tends to be alot of waste initially. Plus I have the added disadvantage of not being able to consume grains except rice, which are a bit less expensive than the other stuff. And then there is the cooking and prep time. For some, that's hard to fit in initially. I don't have a time problem, I have an energy problem and for a time a mobility problem. Initially it was very tough for me. Now I am starting to feel better and I am becoming familar with the different foods and preparation of my meals is much easier now. But it is hard to change a lifetime of bad habits, especially when everyone else has joined in. And sometimes, even if you have a live in example of good eating, it still doesn't help. I live with my sister who eats one of the worst diets ever and is a diabetic. She is seeing the changes in me and still refuses to even consider such a thing..... I have a long way to go but in just about 4 months I have seen much improvement in my health. My pocket book still suffers and I must continue to juggle food and medical needs. My goal is to be able to eat even richer as the need for the medical outlay goes down. I hope this adds to your research. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2008 Report Share Posted March 22, 2008 Ah cooking... I am slowly getting there. And when your only doing for one it is hard. Luckily, I am one of these people who can eat leftovers for a long time before I get fed up with it and won't eat it for awhile. Oh and you need containers, even bags to freeze extra soup or stock... there is definitely extra initial costs. On Dairy... butter is ok.. never gave that up and I am guessing heavy cream is ok.. I think is was a couple glasses of milk and maybe the yogurt that did me in, but I am not sure. Off the yogurt and no more milk for a while, then I will try some cream. I may even try to contact that raw milk goat farm later. Unfortunately I ended up with a 6 day stay in the hosp for pneumonia in February so more bills I had hoped to avoid this year. I was looking forward to increasing my food budget in June or July... now it looks like December/January... Right now I am on disability income from SSD so like I said, money is tight but I am a great budgeter and money usually comes when I need it the most. A few months ago I finally made the decision to increase my food budget to buy better foods and decided first to go with fruits and vegetables while deciding which way I wanted or needed to go and do the research. I have never totally given up meat, just haven't been wanting any. The biggest change has been now my food budget is the last place I cut now instead of the first. Re: Real Food and Prosperity I wholeheartedly agree with you, . Remember, I've been there too -- in many respects and also not able to eat grains as well. Asian markets and cooking came in very handy for alternatives to whatever I wasn't allowed to eat. But you do have the motivation which is key. You are motivated by the promise of improved health which will enable you to enjoy life more and dedicate more time to fulfillment in other areas. With some ingenuity and doing things like making stock, you will be able to manage your budget better. And once your nutritional stores are reinstated, you will find that it takes only a little of the rich foods to satisfy you. It's not so much about forcing yourself to eat rich as much as it is allowing yourself to enjoy rich. I admit that I was lucky my husband has always been sensitive to my needs. But then again, I never had any foods that I'd call a real vice either. Most of our friends have tried to tempt us to do whatever they do, but as soon as we started on this we couldn't make a good enough excuse to go back. And while they tried to tell us we were wasting our time, we knew it was their fears of giving up their past that was the source of their comments. Sorry dairy isn't working out for you. What did you try? The only dairy I could eat was cream (my local hfs carried some from smaller dairies and I cultured it) and butter because I was unable to get raw. Raw makes a huge difference. So you may want to experiment -- even culturing the raw stuff -- as time goes on. I have always found that every leap of faith I have taken has yielded incredible results. Like putting my final semester of college on a credit card when I was making $4/hr and paying $500/mo in rent in NYC. One month later, I landed a $27K/yr job and paid off the cc within 4 months. Have you ever had such an experience? A lot of this is about trust. Thank you for your comments. I certainly plan to include this scenario as one of the places readers might be coming from. > > Adrienne, > > I get what you are saying, but there is a cost to changing over to what you refer to as a rich diet. If you are like me, on too many drugs and supplements, many of which you have to keep taking while you are making the change over, the cost can be tough to bear. Plus, if you are like me, you don't know much about fruits and vegetables and raw and organic dairy and meats so there tends to be alot of waste initially. Plus I have the added disadvantage of not being able to consume grains except rice, which are a bit less expensive than the other stuff. And then there is the cooking and prep time. For some, that's hard to fit in initially. I don't have a time problem, I have an energy problem and for a time a mobility problem. Initially it was very tough for me. Now I am starting to feel better and I am becoming familar with the different foods and preparation of my meals is much easier now. But it is hard to change a lifetime of bad habits, especially when everyone else has joined in. And sometimes, even if you have a live in example of good eating, it still doesn't help. I live with my sister who eats one of the worst diets ever and is a diabetic. She is seeing the changes in me and still refuses to even consider such a thing..... I have a long way to go but in just about 4 months I have seen much improvement in my health. My pocket book still suffers and I must continue to juggle food and medical needs. My goal is to be able to eat even richer as the need for the medical outlay goes down. I hope this adds to your research. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 22, 2008 Report Share Posted March 22, 2008 Sounds like you definitely have a plan and have set your priorities. That is fundamental. Before I found this path, I cooked for one for several years. Sunday was my big cooking day and I'd make 3 or 4 dishes for the week. Some would get frozen (at the time I recycled yogurt containers, was given a few smallish corning ware type dishes and found the rest at discount stores-- actually just got an excellent deal at Tuesday Morning) and others would stay in the fridge for the first few days. Leftovers were for lunch at work. Figure if most recipes are for 4, then you can get 2 lunches and 2 dinners from each recipe. Yes, there are initial costs, but no one says you need to lay them all out simultaneously. Make a list of what you'd like to accomplish and an approximate date, but don't let the date pressure you. It just helps focus your energy. I did this for both houses my husband and I have purchased and we got everything we wanted -- and we wanted things we thought were impossible (like 2 kitchens in this house! one will be for making lactofermented sodas and such Hooray!) Another thing I used to do and still do (for the family only) is save bones from chops, roasts etc. in the freezer, then simmer them, when I have enough, with saved outer onion skins and whatever veggies for stock. I have always hated waste and continue to make the most out of whatever I have. I think that you are right about the cream. Give yourself a few weeks off before trying it and only try that so you can recognize the culprit if something should go awry. Next, I'd ere toward yogurt (again only yogurt). And finally whole unhomogenized, not ultrapasteurized milk (I think you already know this)--obviously raw is preferable, but do what you can. I notice that I do best on whole milk that has been spiked with extra cream even when it's raw. It's always nice to hear about people who prioritize their food and thus their health. I think you are facing this with the right attitude overall and will reach your goal -- despite the pneumonia set back. Do you qualify for any kind of aid to pay for the hospital stay? My plumber/contractor ended up in the hospital for the same reason (as well as for an enlarged heart, kidney stuff, exceedingly high blood pressure and a bunch of other stuff - - but guess what? his doc says he's healthy!) and said he is applying for some kind of assistance. If you want, I'll ask him what it was. We're in NJ, but perhaps wherever you are there is something similar. You can always go to your local freecycle group and post asking if anyone there knows of anything that would help cover at least some of your costs. A friend of mine did that when she was buying a house (asking for mortgage info) and someone gave her a lead that ended up getting her a lot more house for less money down and a super low interest rate. You can also ask on freecycle if anyone has corning ware and other start up things you need that they are giving away. I gotta go, but please feel free to e-mail me offlist at <heyhew@...> if you need a shoulder to cry on or wanna chat. Blessings, A > > > > Adrienne, > > > > I get what you are saying, but there is a cost to changing over to what you refer to as a > rich diet. If you are like me, on too many drugs and supplements, many of which you have > to keep taking while you are making the change over, the cost can be tough to bear. Plus, > if you are like me, you don't know much about fruits and vegetables and raw and organic > dairy and meats so there tends to be alot of waste initially. Plus I have the added > disadvantage of not being able to consume grains except rice, which are a bit less > expensive than the other stuff. And then there is the cooking and prep time. For some, > that's hard to fit in initially. I don't have a time problem, I have an energy problem and for > a time a mobility problem. Initially it was very tough for me. Now I am starting to feel > better and I am becoming familar with the different foods and preparation of my meals is > much easier now. But it is hard to change a lifetime of bad habits, especially when > everyone else has joined in. And sometimes, even if you have a live in example of good > eating, it still doesn't help. I live with my sister who eats one of the worst diets ever and is > a diabetic. She is seeing the changes in me and still refuses to even consider such a > thing..... I have a long way to go but in just about 4 months I have seen much > improvement in my health. My pocket book still suffers and I must continue to juggle > food and medical needs. My goal is to be able to eat even richer as the need for the > medical outlay goes down. I hope this adds to your research. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2008 Report Share Posted March 23, 2008 The state medicaid may kick in and pay the Hospital co pay [they already pay my medicare premium, but I have to get the bill first. If that doesn't work, I will check with free-cycle as I already belong to the local one. Never thought of that as an info source... thanks for the tip. Re: Real Food and Prosperity Sounds like you definitely have a plan and have set your priorities. That is fundamental. Before I found this path, I cooked for one for several years. Sunday was my big cooking day and I'd make 3 or 4 dishes for the week. Some would get frozen (at the time I recycled yogurt containers, was given a few smallish corning ware type dishes and found the rest at discount stores-- actually just got an excellent deal at Tuesday Morning) and others would stay in the fridge for the first few days. Leftovers were for lunch at work. Figure if most recipes are for 4, then you can get 2 lunches and 2 dinners from each recipe. Yes, there are initial costs, but no one says you need to lay them all out simultaneously. Make a list of what you'd like to accomplish and an approximate date, but don't let the date pressure you. It just helps focus your energy. I did this for both houses my husband and I have purchased and we got everything we wanted -- and we wanted things we thought were impossible (like 2 kitchens in this house! one will be for making lactofermented sodas and such Hooray!) Another thing I used to do and still do (for the family only) is save bones from chops, roasts etc. in the freezer, then simmer them, when I have enough, with saved outer onion skins and whatever veggies for stock. I have always hated waste and continue to make the most out of whatever I have. I think that you are right about the cream. Give yourself a few weeks off before trying it and only try that so you can recognize the culprit if something should go awry. Next, I'd ere toward yogurt (again only yogurt). And finally whole unhomogenized, not ultrapasteurized milk (I think you already know this)--obviously raw is preferable, but do what you can. I notice that I do best on whole milk that has been spiked with extra cream even when it's raw. It's always nice to hear about people who prioritize their food and thus their health. I think you are facing this with the right attitude overall and will reach your goal -- despite the pneumonia set back. Do you qualify for any kind of aid to pay for the hospital stay? My plumber/contractor ended up in the hospital for the same reason (as well as for an enlarged heart, kidney stuff, exceedingly high blood pressure and a bunch of other stuff - - but guess what? his doc says he's healthy!) and said he is applying for some kind of assistance. If you want, I'll ask him what it was. We're in NJ, but perhaps wherever you are there is something similar. You can always go to your local freecycle group and post asking if anyone there knows of anything that would help cover at least some of your costs. A friend of mine did that when she was buying a house (asking for mortgage info) and someone gave her a lead that ended up getting her a lot more house for less money down and a super low interest rate. You can also ask on freecycle if anyone has corning ware and other start up things you need that they are giving away. I gotta go, but please feel free to e-mail me offlist at <heyhew@...> if you need a shoulder to cry on or wanna chat. Blessings, A Change settings via the Web ( ID required) Change settings via email: Switch delivery to Daily Digest | Switch format to Traditional Visit Your Group | Terms of Use | Unsubscribe Recent Activity a.. 33New Members Visit Your Group Health Achy Joint? Common arthritis myths debunked. Meditation and Lovingkindness A Group to share and learn. Need traffic? Drive customers With search ads on . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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