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Thats right! I totally forgot Robbin was so smart. I mean of course I

know he IS smart but you know. Smart smart! That is insane! My oldest

is a wonderful reader too! Gabby is very smart too. I think even if I

didnt send her to kindergarten this yr. And did the following I think

she would be fine,maybe by then to first but I figure if I put her in

public school she may as well start in kinder. She is smart just very

hyper and has some other issues going on. I jus dont want to throw her

into it.Plus she was in soccer and will be going in ballet so she gets

to socialize plus she has sisters and cousins. I would just die sendn

her off on the bus.I would probly cry all day.She can be a handful but

I dont know what id do without her all day. Im stocking up on supplys

so we will be prepared either way.They other home school and also have

some other type programs some cost some dont.I think by law she dosnt

have to be in school until next school yr.Argh!Guess its enough time to

figure it out.lol.The othe

Hi

Everyone!!!!

Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in,and say HI!!! I have really

missed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended up

going to the ER.

I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upper

stomach almost in the middle and a little to the right.

I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom was

going to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.

Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just a

minute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave me

an anti-neas med that disolved on

my tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in a

weelchair.So,the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and ordered

an ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s lady

was nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problems

and I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she could even see

the heart area and she said no

that she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking out

of curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc came

in and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.

I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there on

friday so I will be calling tomorow for an appt.He says I need a HIDA

scan to completly rule out

the Gallbladder,so for now it is that stupid word " of unknown

etiology " . He says they dont have access to the HIDA machine in the

middle of the night,but I think he

just had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a low

fat,no fried food,meat,etc... but that is ok since anything I eat

upsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I am

eating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose some

pounds.hehe....

Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to say

hello to each of you as soon as I can.I have been in bed or on the

couch all day,to sick to even

check my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I will

eventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to my

jerk doc story....

So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a rude

rude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. He

started to ask me the regular old

er questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc.. and I start to

tell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I could

tell and tried to

offer as simple but detailed of an explanationin

he middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he says

ok,ok,and

gestures his hand

(like you would gesture to say " Cmon,move it along " or Hurry it up,all

moving his eyes and stuff)letit go then he says what do you do for a

living and my mom says that im

disabled and the doctor looks at me and I say im disabled and really

sick and he goes off saying, " You people that say your disabled its

ridiculous,and you use it

as much as you can,just let everything go and blame it on

disabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thing

and say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Can

you believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard time

talking to.So,I yelled at him and told him that he couldnt label m,e

and that he dosnt know

me and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!!

So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicine

and I told hime I didnt want pain

medicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No I

dont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop puking

and I want my stomach to

stop hurting.Well.I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute he

walked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and I

really was.I have never

been treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor could

even be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limits

epesode.So,then after the nurse takes over

to do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke back

to the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he starts

trying to find a vein.I told him

were to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept telling him

how bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just kept

poking and jabbing it in,

and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason why

it would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2

options,I can take it out and re-do it

or leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leave

it.Arghhhh....So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerk

doc came to visit

and appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry for

speaking to me that way and he didnt mean to label me but it was just

that what he described was

rreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!???He says he sees so many young

people that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on life

and throw everything away

and he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I say

I am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobody

knows what

my illness is,and he says he understands.and hes very sorry,there is

more but this is too long.Sorry guys....

I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!!! I will

write more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!

hugz,cassy

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Oops!Didnt mean to send that!The other nite we were practicing our

writing and it was 1 of those mixed up letter word things you

un-scramble and it was about the jungle.I couldnt figure them

out!lol.So,I get to a really hard word and I spell the letters out to

Gabby and im like this is hard I cant figure this 1 out and after im

done Gabby says I know I know its Crocodile and I look and im like no

but close.lol.Still couldnt figure it out and found the answers at the

bottom of the page and sure enough it was crocodile.I was

speechless!lol.Sometimes I think she is psychic.Sounds strange but

there is so much she knows.Like sometimes when someone calls she will

say who it is and I go to look and im like hu?lol.Many of these type of

things all the time.Sometimes it creepy.lol.lol.

thanks for the Reiki Aiba.My cardio emailed me back.Hes upset with the

other clinic for blowing me off.He said he will take care of it tomorow

and if I dont hear from him by lunch to page him. Will let you all

know.Sweet dreams!

n hugz

Hi

Everyone!!!!

Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in,and say HI!!! I have really

missed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended up

going to the ER.

I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upper

stomach almost in the middle and a little to the right.

I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom was

going to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.

Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just a

minute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave me

an anti-neas med that disolved on

my tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in a

weelchair.So,the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and ordered

an ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s lady

was nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problems

and I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she could even see

the heart area and she said no

that she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking out

of curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc came

in and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.

I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there on

friday so I will be calling tomorow for an appt.He says I need a HIDA

scan to completly rule out

the Gallbladder,so for now it is that stupid word " of unknown

etiology " . He says they dont have access to the HIDA machine in the

middle of the night,but I think he

just had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a low

fat,no fried food,meat,etc... but that is ok since anything I eat

upsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I am

eating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose some

pounds.hehe....

Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to say

hello to each of you as soon as I can.I have been in bed or on the

couch all day,to sick to even

check my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I will

eventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to my

jerk doc story....

So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a rude

rude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. He

started to ask me the regular old

er questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc.. and I start to

tell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I could

tell and tried to

offer as simple but detailed of an explanationin

he middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he says

ok,ok,and

gestures his hand

(like you would gesture to say " Cmon,move it along " or Hurry it up,all

moving his eyes and stuff)letit go then he says what do you do for a

living and my mom says that im

disabled and the doctor looks at me and I say im disabled and really

sick and he goes off saying, " You people that say your disabled its

ridiculous,and you use it

as much as you can,just let everything go and blame it on

disabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thing

and say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Can

you believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard time

talking to.So,I yelled at him and told him that he couldnt label m,e

and that he dosnt know

me and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!!

So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicine

and I told hime I didnt want pain

medicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No I

dont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop puking

and I want my stomach to

stop hurting.Well.I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute he

walked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and I

really was.I have never

been treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor could

even be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limits

epesode.So,then after the nurse takes over

to do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke back

to the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he starts

trying to find a vein.I told him

were to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept telling him

how bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just kept

poking and jabbing it in,

and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason why

it would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2

options,I can take it out and re-do it

or leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leave

it.Arghhhh....So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerk

doc came to visit

and appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry for

speaking to me that way and he didnt mean to label me but it was just

that what he described was

rreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!???He says he sees so many young

people that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on life

and throw everything away

and he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I say

I am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobody

knows what

my illness is,and he says he understands.and hes very sorry,there is

more but this is too long.Sorry guys....

I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!!! I will

write more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!

hugz,cassy

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I know, they can be scary...I remember one time, before Robbin was even talking, I was contemplating the wall calendar, reflecting that I hadn't changed the month yet. He came into the room, went over to the calendar, changed the month, and walked out. Now tell me he wasn't reading my mind! I'm off to bed now, I'll be sending to you soon... Big hugs! Akiba -- HiEveryone!!!!Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in,and say HI!!! I have reallymissed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended upgoing to the ER.I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upperstomach almost in the middle and a little to the right.I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom wasgoing to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.:)Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just aminute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave mean anti-neas med that disolved onmy tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in aweelchair.So,the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and orderedan ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s ladywas nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problemsand I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she could even seethe heart area and she said nothat she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking outof curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc camein and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there onfriday so I will be calling tomorow for an appt.He says I need a HIDAscan to completly rule outthe Gallbladder,so for now it is that stupid word "of unknownetiology". He says they dont have access to the HIDA machine in themiddle of the night,but I think hejust had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a lowfat,no fried food,meat,etc... but that is ok since anything I eatupsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I ameating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose somepounds.hehe....Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to sayhello to each of you as soon as I can.I have been in bed or on thecouch all day,to sick to evencheck my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I willeventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to myjerk doc story....So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a ruderude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. Hestarted to ask me the regular older questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc.. and I start totell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I couldtell and tried tooffer as simple but detailed of an explanationinhe middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he saysok,ok,andgestures his hand(like you would gesture to say "Cmon,move it along" or Hurry it up,allmoving his eyes and stuff)letit go then he says what do you do for aliving and my mom says that imdisabled and the doctor looks at me and I say im disabled and reallysick and he goes off saying,"You people that say your disabled itsridiculous,and you use itas much as you can,just let everything go and blame it ondisabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thingand say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Canyou believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard timetalking to.So,I yelled at him and told him that he couldnt label m,eand that he dosnt knowme and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!!So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicineand I told hime I didnt want painmedicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No Idont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop pukingand I want my stomach tostop hurting.Well.I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute hewalked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and Ireally was.I have neverbeen treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor couldeven be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limitsepesode.So,then after the nurse takes overto do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke backto the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he startstrying to find a vein.I told himwere to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept telling himhow bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just keptpoking and jabbing it in,and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason whyit would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2options,I can take it out and re-do itor leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leaveit.Arghhhh....So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerkdoc came to visitand appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry forspeaking to me that way and he didnt mean to label me but it was justthat what he described wasrreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!???He says he sees so many youngpeople that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on lifeand throw everything awayand he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I sayI am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobodyknows whatmy illness is,and he says he understands.and hes very sorry,there ismore but this is too long.Sorry guys....I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!!! I willwrite more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!hugz,cassyStay informed, get connected and more with AOL on your phone. & nbsp;[image Removed]Stay informed, get connected and more & nbsp;

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Cassy,

Where the hell do these drs. get off talking down to their patients? They aren't there to judge, they are there to help. They took the oath!!! I'm sure they see their share of people who come in and out of there looking for a quick fix, but those people are what my sister who works in a hospital call, frequent fliers!!!

They have no idea how many of us that are disabled hate the fact that we ARE disabled!!! What we wouldn't give to be able to go out and work or do the things we all used to be able to do. People like that need to walk a mile in our shoes, live one day as us before they open their mouths to speak.

As far as an apology goes, he knew he had to apologize or his ass was in trouble. I keep trying to teach both of my kids that an apology is fine, but what is even better is to think before you speak because once the words come out of your mouth they can't be taken back and the damage is done.

I hope you get to feeling better dear and I would still write a letter of complaint to the head of the hospital or whoever. Who knows how many others he has done this too. They certainly don't teach bedside manner in medical school. I think it should be a mandatory class!!!!

Big Hugs

Peggy>> > > > ?? Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in?,and say HI!!! I have really missed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended up going to the ER.> I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upper stomach almost in the middle and a little to the right.> I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom was going to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.> Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just a minute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave me an anti-neas med that disolved on> my tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in a weelchair.So,the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and ordered an ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s lady> was nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problems and I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she could even see the heart area and she said no> that she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking out of curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc came in and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.> I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there on friday so I will be calling tomorow for an appt.He says I need a HIDA scan to completly rule out> the Gallbladder,so for now it is that stupid word "of unknown etiology". He says they dont have access to the HIDA? machine in the middle of the night,but I think he> just had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a low fat,no fried food,meat,etc... but that is ok since anything I eat upsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I am> eating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose some pounds.hehe....> Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to say hello to each of you as soon as I can.I have been in bed or on the couch all day,to sick to even> check my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I will eventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to my jerk doc story.....> So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a rude rude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. He started to ask me the regular old> er questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc.. and I start to tell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I could tell and tried to> offer as simple but detailed of an explanation?in> he middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he says ok,ok,and > gestures his hand> (like you would gesture to say "Cmon,move it along" or Hurry it up,all moving his eyes and stuff)let???it? go then he says what do you do for a living and my mom says that im> disabled and the doctor looks at me and I say im disabled and really sick and he goes off saying,"You people that say your disabled its ridiculous,and you use it> as much as you can,just let everything go and blame it on disabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thing and say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Can> you believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard time talking to.So,I yelled at him and told him that he couldnt label m,e and that he dosnt know> me and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!! So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicine and I told hime I didnt want pain> medicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No I dont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop puking and I want my stomach to > stop hurting.Well.I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute he walked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and I really was.I have never> been treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor could even be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limits epesode.So,then after the nurse takes over> to do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke back to the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he starts trying to find a vein.I told him> were to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept telling him how bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just kept poking and jabbing it in,> and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason why it would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2 options,I can take it out and re-do it> or leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leave it.Arghhhh....So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerk doc came to visit> and appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry for speaking to me that way and he didnt mean to label me but it was just that what he described was> rreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!???He says he sees so many young people that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on life and throw everything away > and he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I say I am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobody knows what > my illness is,and he says he understands.and hes very sorry,there is more but this is too long.Sorry guys....> I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!!! I will write more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!> hugz,cassy>

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Oh Cassy, what a despicable thing for that doc to do to you. It doesn't matter what he sees all day, or thinks he sees, he has no right to treat anyone like that. How awful for you.

And the nurse who decided the IV wasn't hurting you... ugh. Remember the story of 's Papa? While the doc was examining Papa and hurt him, and Papa let the doc know... the doc told Papa it was all in his head... with both hands, Papa whapped the doc on both sides of his head and asked "was that in your head?" Doc apologized. We need Papas to go with us to each doc/nurse encounter. LOL

{{{{{{{{Cassy}}}}}}}}

I hope you're feeling better. When do you see your Doc?

HUGS,

Challis

Hi Everyone!!!!

Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in ,and say HI!!! I have really missed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended up going to the ER.I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upper stomach almost in the middle and a little to the right.I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom was going to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.:)Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just a minute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave me an anti-neas med that disolved onmy tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in a weelchair.So, the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and ordered an ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s ladywas nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problems and I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she

could even see the heart area and she said nothat she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking out of curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc came in and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there on friday so I will be calling tomorow for an appt.He says I need a HIDA scan to completly rule outthe Gallbladder, so for now it is that stupid word "of unknown etiology". He says they dont have access to the HIDA machine in the middle of the night,but I think hejust had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a low fat,no fried food,meat,etc. .. but that is ok since anything I eat upsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I ameating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose some pounds.hehe. ...Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to say hello to each of you as

soon as I can.I have been in bed or on the couch all day,to sick to evencheck my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I will eventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to my jerk doc story.....So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a rude rude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. He started to ask me the regular older questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc. . and I start to tell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I could tell and tried tooffer as simple but detailed of an explanation inhe middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he says ok,ok,and gestures his hand(like you would gesture to say "Cmon,move it along" or Hurry it up,all moving his eyes and stuff)let it go then he says what do you do for a living and my mom says that imdisabled and the doctor looks at me

and I say im disabled and really sick and he goes off saying,"You people that say your disabled its ridiculous,and you use itas much as you can,just let everything go and blame it on disabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thing and say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Canyou believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard time talking to.So,I yelled at him and told him that he couldnt label m,e and that he dosnt knowme and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!! So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicine and I told hime I didnt want painmedicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No I dont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop puking and I want my stomach to stop hurting.Well. I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute he walked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and I really was.I

have neverbeen treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor could even be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limits epesode.So,then after the nurse takes overto do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke back to the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he starts trying to find a vein.I told himwere to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept telling him how bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just kept poking and jabbing it in,and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason why it would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2 options,I can take it out and re-do itor leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leave it.Arghhhh.. ..So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerk doc came to visitand appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry for speaking to me that

way and he didnt mean to label me but it was just that what he described wasrreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!? ??He says he sees so many young people that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on life and throw everything away and he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I say I am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobody knows what my illness is,and he says he understands. and hes very sorry,there is more but this is too long.Sorry guys....I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!! ! I will write more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!hugz,cassy

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Hi Cassy, my name is Christy.. I am a new member to MSers and I live in Glendale, AZ. I am very sorry that you had to deal with such a doctor.. I have had MS since I was nine years old (now 29). I have been in and out of wheelchairs and have suffered from many unexplained illinesses. I have fought so hard.. I worked all the time thinking I could get through anything until one day it almost killed me! Then they put me on disability. at the time I was very unhappy, I enjoyed working, I was in sales for 5yrs and a teacher for 3. I also have cancer. No matter where I go everyone says I look fine.. this is great, however, it is not so great when you say you are disabled. They look at you and try to judge. I choose to smile and look my best whenever I can. This illness takes so much away from you and I do not want it to run me and have me sitting around and moping in pitty. dont get me wrong I have my 5-10miniute pitty parties and then I go on I guess what i am trying to say is MS is a unseen illness pretty much and I believe that we will all have to face the fact that there are iggnorant people who choose not to look beyond anything but what they initially see. for instance: I went to a Neuro when I moved here, I told him that I have MS and I wanted him to see my med records and help me since I have been having a bad episode. He looked me in the eye and said, "I can tell by looking at you.. you do not have MS.." do you believe that. Then he sent me on my way. I was only there for 2 minutes!!! Smyelin groovy wrote: Oh Cassy, what a despicable thing for that doc to do to you. It doesn't matter what he sees all day, or thinks he sees, he has no right to treat anyone like that. How awful for you. And the nurse who decided the IV wasn't hurting you... ugh. Remember the story of 's Papa? While the doc was examining Papa and hurt him, and Papa let the doc know... the doc told Papa it was all in his head... with both hands, Papa whapped the doc on both sides of his head and asked "was that in your head?" Doc apologized. We need Papas to go with us to each doc/nurse encounter. LOL {{{{{{{{Cassy}}}}}}}} I hope you're feeling better. When do you see your Doc? HUGS, Challis Hi Everyone!!!! Hey guys!!! I just wanted to check-in ,and say HI!!! I have really missed you guys!!!!!. I have been really sick . Thursday I ended up going to the ER.I couldnt stop vomiting and the pain was un-real.It is in my upper stomach almost in the middle and a little to the

right.I had alot of green bile and couldnt stop puking and heaving.My mom was going to call 911 so I gave in and went on my own.:)Anyways,I had a jerk of a doctor and nurse(will tell you in just a minute)They put me in priority and wile I was waiting the nurse gave me an anti-neas med that disolved onmy tongue.It was so bad I had to be pushed in and out in a weelchair.So, the idiot doc thought I might have gallstones and ordered an ultrasound.Thannk god the u/s ladywas nice. Took awile for that and she asked if I had heart problems and I told her about my nerves and all that,asked if she could even see the heart area and she said nothat she was looking at my internal organs and she was just asking out of curiosity.?end of that part.So,finally after a few hrs the doc came in and said they seen something and he thinks it may be Gallstones.I was suppose to see my pcp the next day(fri)but she isnt there on friday so I will be calling tomorow for an

appt.He says I need a HIDA scan to completly rule outthe Gallbladder, so for now it is that stupid word "of unknown etiology". He says they dont have access to the HIDA machine in the middle of the night,but I think hejust had it in for me.haha.he was a true jerk!!!! So,I am on a low fat,no fried food,meat,etc. .. but that is ok since anything I eat upsets my stomach anyway.So,for now I ameating very light and ridiculously healthy. Maybe I will lose some pounds.hehe. ...Hello to all the new members!!!! I am so so behind but will try to say hello to each of you as soon as I can.I have been in bed or on the couch all day,to sick to evencheck my email on my phone.I know I have missed alot but I will eventually catch up.Just gimme a month or two! hehe..Ok,well back to my jerk doc story.....So,we get to the ER and I finally get to see a doc but he was a rude rude jerk!!! Sorry guys,I have never been talked to this bad. He started to ask me the

regular older questions and we get to the part of diseases,etc. . and I start to tell him my dx's and he dosnt have a clue what im saying..This I could tell and tried tooffer as simple but detailed of an explanation inhe middle of crying and screaming in pain,oh and vomiting,and he says ok,ok,and gestures his hand(like you would gesture to say "Cmon,move it along" or Hurry it up,all moving his eyes and stuff)let it go then he says what do you do for a living and my mom says that imdisabled and the doctor looks at me and I say im disabled and really sick and he goes off saying,"You people that say your disabled its ridiculous,and you use itas much as you can,just let everything go and blame it on disabilty,blah blah,and how these days we will find any little thing and say Diability!!! Yes.this is real!!! Canyou believe this? I was beyond mad and he knew I was having a hard time talking to.So,I yelled at him and

told him that he couldnt label m,e and that he dosnt knowme and that I was there for help and not to be treated like crap!!!! So,after this he says fine,and says he would get me some pain medicine and I told hime I didnt want painmedicine,and he says Oh,Really?Like hes in shock,and I said No I dont,and he says what do I want then?And I say I want to stop puking and I want my stomach to stop hurting.Well. I ended up getting some cuz my mom but the minute he walked away I was telling my mom and rene that I wanted to leave and I really was.I have neverbeen treated this poorly.I felt so bad that this jerk of a doctor could even be a doc,I swear it felt like I was in an Outer Limits epesode.So,then after the nurse takes overto do an I.V. He was already rude,I think he was mad that I spoke back to the doc,but he said nothing to help or even a smile.And he starts trying to find a vein.I told himwere to go but he didnt listen and he was rough and I kept

telling him how bad it hurt and my mom finally said something cuz he just kept poking and jabbing it in,and he says,look,I got the needle in,it is fine,there is no reason why it would hurt and im like well it does,and he says well you have 2 options,I can take it out and re-do itor leave it,and I said if he took it out I would leave so just leave it.Arghhhh.. ..So when I get back from the u/s my mom tells me the jerk doc came to visitand appologized and wanted to tell me.He told us that he was sorry for speaking to me that way and he didnt mean to label me but it was just that what he described wasrreally all he sees all day.WTH!!!!? ??He says he sees so many young people that become disabled or even slightly and they give up on life and throw everything away and he shouldnt have assumed that was my case.So,I told him that I say I am disabled cuz I am and because ,like with him,most the time nobody knows what my illness is,and he says he

understands. and hes very sorry,there is more but this is too long.Sorry guys....I just had to share with you guys.It was/is such a nightmare!!! ! I will write more soon.... luv ya guys!!!!hugz,cassy Stay informed, get connected and more with AOL on your phone.