Guest guest Posted November 29, 2007 Report Share Posted November 29, 2007 A mother to children with HIV Thursday November 29 2007. PRIYAMVATHA P CHENNAI: Harassment by stepmother, confusions about sexuality, commercial sex work, jail life, testing HIV positive and getting an award in recognition for social work, 58-year-old S Noori has seen it all. Noori, a transgender, was the third person in Tamil Nadu to be diagnosed HIV positive in 1987. While doctors said Noori would not survive for even three years, here she is managing the affairs of the South India Positive Network (SIP+), which has three thousand members. Struggles started for Noor Mohammed in Ramanathapuram at the age of four after the death of his mother. His stepmother did not give him even one peaceful night. Later, he also had to face abuse by an uncle for behaving like a girl. After being tied with thorns to having hot jaggery poured on him, Mohammed could not take it any more. He came to Chennai at the age of 13, worked and went back home at 18. " My stepmother fixed a marriage for me and I ran away to Mumbai, " explained Noori. However, she admits that it was lust and money that drove her to take up commercial sex. In between, she was arrested in a case and had to spend a few months in the Chennai Central Prison. But the real shock came when Noori went voluntarily and took the HIV test and was declared positive. " I did not come out of my house for many days. But I made up my mind to quit commercial sex work because I did not want to spread the virus to others, " explained Noori. Then her real journey started. During the days, when even medical practitioners feared to touch people living with HIV/AIDS, Noori was their nurse in the government hospital. From cleaning wounds to providing funeral services, Noori was there for everything. By then, she had also adopted four children and started living with them as a family. After working in several NGOs, Noori started SIP+ to provide counselling and care to persons living with HIV/AIDS. She also runs a home for children living with HIV/AIDS. Noori, who has studied only up to class III, has travelled to 21 countries. Last year, the Tamil Nadu Government honoured her with an award for her work in the HIV/AIDS field. Now, Noori lives with her children and grand children and is preparing her youngest daughter to study social work. All she has to say is: " If you are HIV positive. Do not worry. We will not simply die. But will live and achieve. " http://www.newindpress.com/NewsItems.asp?ID=IE920071128204813 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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