Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry. luv n hugz,cassy structuring one's day I'm 48, not currently working, not currently on disability, and very unfocused. I struggle with how to structure my days. A few days a wk. of course, I'll have therapy appts., or a drs. appt., but I hate that to be the main thrust to my day or wk. What all do you do to help give you day and wk. focus, life and structure? I think not having this, just adds that much more to my malaise and depression. Love to all on this amazing group, Kate We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. ~Thornton Wilder #AOLMsgPart_2_e1f9414e-7aaf-48cd-814d-3fc6dfd2b5ea #AOLMsgPart_2_e1f9414e-7aaf-48cd-814d-3fc6dfd2b5ea #AOLMsgPart_2_e1f9414e-7aaf-48cd-814d-3fc6dfd2b5ea ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Kate, You probably already know what my answer will be. I work on my shawls and lapghans. Without my crocheting I would be sitting and worrying all the time. Crocheting is my therapy. You are in my prayers as always. Hugs nne I'm 48, not currently working, not currently on disability, andvery unfocused. I struggle with how to structure my days. Afew days a wk. of course, I'll have therapy appts., or a drs.appt., but I hate that to be the main thrust to my day or wk. What all do you do to help give you day and wk. focus, life andstructure? I think not having this, just adds that much more tomy malaise and depression. Love to all on this amazing group,KateWe can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.~Thornton Wilder -- Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.htmlAnxiety Depression and Breast Cancer http://health.group.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comCheck out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 nne, Gee, I had forgotten that would be your obvious answer! How silly of me! Of course! I need to learn some sort of craft! Or get back to my artwork. I've been toying around with taking some ASL classes--American Sign Language classes. You and Chuck are in my prayers as well nne. I love you both, and all here, Kate Re: structuring one's day Kate, You probably already know what my answer will be. I work on my shawls and lapghans. Without my crocheting I would be sitting and worrying all the time. Crocheting is my therapy. You are in my prayers as always. Hugs nne On 1/15/08, Kate Rothschild <katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net> wrote: I'm 48, not currently working, not currently on disability, andvery unfocused. I struggle with how to structure my days. Afew days a wk. of course, I'll have therapy appts., or a drs.appt., but I hate that to be the main thrust to my day or wk. What all do you do to help give you day and wk. focus, life andstructure? I think not having this, just adds that much more tomy malaise and depression. Love to all on this amazing group,KateWe can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.~Thornton Wilder-- Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.htmlAnxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.group.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comCheck out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Structure? Not around here!!! I get up at the crack of noon. Rob & Robbin get up at 7 a.m, and Rob takes care of Robbin all morning. Robbin is also good at getting his own food (oatmeal, hotdogs, sammiches etc) Rob does the homeschooling during this time as well. I get up, hop to my desk, maybe have some coffee, maybe not. I do my emails and check bank accounts, pay bills, whatever. Then I log in to a game (WoW, RS or Sims, usually WoW) and entertain myself. At about 5 p.m I take my meds and supplements. I used to cook dinner but cannot be standing, so Rob cooks now (I do have some say in what, though...) and at about midnight-2 a.m logout of the PC and go to bed. Pathetic, ain't it? Hugs Akiba -- Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 About like me Akiba. Online all day and night. Shirley Structure? Not around here!!! I get up at the crack of noon. Rob & Robbin get up at 7 a.m, and Rob takes care of Robbin all morning. Robbin is also good at getting his own food (oatmeal, hotdogs, sammiches etc) Rob does the homeschooling during this time as well. I get up, hop to my desk, maybe have some coffee, maybe not. I do my emails and check bank accounts, pay bills, whatever. Then I log in to a game (WoW, RS or Sims, usually WoW) and entertain myself. At about 5 p.m I take my meds and supplements. I used to cook dinner but cannot be standing, so Rob cooks now (I do have some say in what, though...) and at about midnight-2 a.m logout of the PC and go to bed. Pathetic, ain't it? Hugs Akiba -- Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation, or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Hey Akiba, In some ways this is upsetting to read, and yet, in some bizarre way, a bit encouraging to read. I feel like I don't do near enough of what I should be doing around here; always feel like I fall short. I get up at 6am. Fix coffee for me and 16 yr old, and breakfast usually for 13 yr old. Then at 7 get the next 2 up and get them breakfast, and sometimes have to fix the shower for the 10 yr old. Then after the 2 younger ones are on the bus by 8:30, my morning stuff is over, and I'm struggling to get on with laundry, or folding or the daunting task of maybe taking on finish- ing up painting the hallway upstairs...I kind of wish I could sleep past 9, I can't seem to do even that! I am restless. Now...nighttime...now that is another thing! I'll be ready for bed probably in about 2 hours from now! 8 or 9 at the latest! At 8 last night my kids get elbowing me as I was falling asleep reading to them! Love you Akiba, and all ya all, Kate Structure? Not around here!!! I get up at the crack of noon. Rob & Robbin get up at 7 a.m, and Rob takes care of Robbin all morning. Robbin is also good at getting his own food (oatmeal, hotdogs, sammiches etc) Rob does the homeschooling during this time as well. I get up, hop to my desk, maybe have some coffee, maybe not. I do my emails and check bank accounts, pay bills, whatever. Then I log in to a game (WoW, RS or Sims, usually WoW) and entertain myself. At about 5 p.m I take my meds and supplements. I used to cook dinner but cannot be standing, so Rob cooks now (I do have some say in what, though...) and at about midnight-2 a.m logout of the PC and go to bed. Pathetic, ain't it? Hugs Akiba -- Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy .. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 It sure is! Thanks Kate.You are a wonderful mother! You are so involed with your kids in everything.No,I have never seen you all together but I do hear you talk to them on the phone and you are very loving and respect them more then I have seen most moms.And ever time I talk to you or see you post you are always doing something for your family.They are so blessed to have you,and maybe they dont realize it now but 1 day they will and you will see what a great mom you were and always will be.Me and Rene hav not been getting along lately,he has been a real jerk.So,I am grateful to have my fam(which includes all of you). I love you too! hugz,cassy Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry. luv n hugz,cassy . #AOLMsgPart_2_222e7c5b-9af6-4112-9cd2-75871449dc91 #AOLMsgPart_2_222e7c5b-9af6-4112-9cd2-75871449dc91 #AOLMsgPart_2_222e7c5b-9af6-4112-9cd2-75871449dc91 ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Pathetic?! Are you kidding? Trade ya!?lol. Nowere near pathetic Akiba. I wish Rene would help as much as Rob. My 9 yr.old gets herself ready in the morning and I watch her walk up the street to the bus stop. Rene never makes me coffee. And do you know how happy it makes me to have coffee in the mornin?I think you do.lol.When his mom was here she seen me make and get my coffee and she said dosnt your hubby do that for you?I said no.She then says her hubby gets up,makes the coffee and serves it to her in bed.I was like wow! How sweet,and then she asks Rene why not?He started laughing and said ya right!He then says it goes both ways you know.She dosnt do it for me why should I do it for her?This ladys hardly speechless she didnt say nuthn.He then made another scene when we went to dinner with her,the kids,her hubby,my mom and his nephew.Made me cry in the restaurant in front of his mom.I had to walk out and wait outside.He hates doing stuff for me and even when he does stuff here he complains the whole time. Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry. luv n hugz,cassy . & nbsp; #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Rob is an incredible miracle for me. He does everything, yet when I want to do something, he steps aside and does not interfere, but allows me to maintain as much independence as I need. Yet when I need something and cannot do it, he does it for me without making me feel little or inadequate. He is truly awesome. And to top it, he is an incredible life counselor, and helps many people with his insights. I love him So much! I wish every woman had someone like him, stories like yours, and some of Kates, break my heart! Hugs Akiba -- Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's dayOh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close toyou. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, KateKate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docsappts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most daysI feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps mesane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick inbed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or playplaystation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant loadthem up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I becamehousebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,govisit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was alwaysso busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier Iguess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there sohad to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I wascrying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of melike a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy. & nbsp;#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597__________________________________________________________More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 This brought me to tears. I want a Rob. I am blessed to have my mom,she takes care of me because she loves me and wants too.If she sees me doing dishes(I look real pathetic tryn to do them sitn on my walker with my arms jus layn there cuz they are to weak to control) my mom comes and demands me to go rest. She cleans,cooks,and gives me emotional support. Rene dosnt do much.He pays are way and runs errands and apparently that means he does everything for me.We were talkn about moving and I just told him I think instead of that we should go on our own ways.He says why?I tell him cuz im not happy and neither is he.He says oh.He dosnt give a shit.I think im done with him.The only place I have to go is my moms and she lives in a tiny mobile home.My walker dosnt even fit threw her house.I will have to get on welfare and totally depend on my mom.I feel so worthless and useless.I am just fed up with the emotional abuse and him being bi-polar and decideing when to or if he even does take his meds.hugz cassy Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry. luv n hugz,cassy .. & nbsp; #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546- 4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 __________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 16, 2008 Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 I am so sorry hun...you deserve better...wish I could clone Rob Hugs Akiba -- Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's dayOh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Somedays I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for thedays I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You areblessed to have your mom around and close toyou. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS.Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away inyour house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, andyour grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy,always, KateKate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docsappts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most daysI feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps mesane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick inbed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or playplaystation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant loadthem up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I becamehousebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,govisit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was alwaysso busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier Iguess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there sohad to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I wascrying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of melike a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry.luv n hugz,cassy. & nbsp;#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597#AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597__________________________________________________________More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! -http://webmail.aol.com#AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0#AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0#AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0__________________________________________________________More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 16, 2008 Report Share Posted January 16, 2008 Thanks Akiba! I wish you could clone Rob too.lol. Re: structuring one's day Re: structuring one's day Oh Cassy, It is so hard, isn't it? I have yet to get my walker. Some days I don't need it, but I should have it here as 'back up' for the days I do. I feel so guilty not being a better mom to my kids. You are blessed to have your mom around and close to you. My mom is 83 and not too well, and doesn't even know I have MS. Don't worry. You are not going on. And no, you are not rotting away in your house. You have Rene, and you have the girls, and your mom, and your grandma too. AND all of us, who adore you!! I love you, Cassy, always, Kate Kate. I know what you mean. These days I only get out for docs appts.Well,except this weekend I went to my moms for the day.Most days I feel so un-productive its depressing.The only thing that keeps me sane is hanging out with the girls and thats only if im not sick in bed(which is happening way to much these days)I color with them,or play playstation,or watch a movie together.But I just hate that I cant load them up in the car and go to the park for a picnic.Before I became housebound and unable to drive we would go to the park twice a wk,go visit my sis and mom,meet up for lunch,etc. Clean my house,I was always so busy.Now it seems I rot away in my house.Its just easier I guess.Even going to my moms was so hard.My walker dosnt fit there so had to use my cane and it was a struggle.By the time we left I was crying in pain and my mom had to stay at my house and take care of me like a baby.Ok.im goin on and on.Sorry. luv n hugz,cassy .. & nbsp; #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546-4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546- 4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 #AOLMsgPart_3_2db9aafb-0546- 4286-a824-beacb0ec7597 __________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 #AOLMsgPart_3_96d080e4-8f1c-4e3a-bc25-f452c2299cb0 __________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com #AOLMsgPart_3_48ce4676-73d5-4ca2-85ed-08cd097cb6c0 #AOLMsgPart_3_48ce4676-73d5-4ca2-85ed-08cd097cb6c0 #AOLMsgPart_3_48ce4676-73d5-4ca2-85ed-08cd097cb6c0 ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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