Pain, Bennies husband losing his job, negative energy

January 24, 2011

> Thanks for the information, we will have to be dropping our service as my

husband just got notice that 80 people are getting let go due to budget cuts in

his state job. We probably will get the information March April.

Bennie, I am sorry that your husband is being laid off. As for cutting your

internet service, you have to do what you have to do to reduce expenses. I will

miss your posts. Perhaps you can continue to check in with us at a library and

at friend's houses. My husband was laid off several years ago. He used the

internet to network and assist in finding his next job.

The stress of unemployment must increase your pain. The stress could negatively

impact your husband with his brain cyst, too. Will you lose your health

insurance?

I admire your ability to remain positive, Bennie. My husband is the most

negative man I know. He radiates negative energy. He will not accept

responsibility for how he feels. He was not always that way. In the past 5 or

6 years, he has become a different man. He is depressed and WILL NOT seek help

outside of alternative/natural means. He is going to an integrative medicine

place. They are out of alternative/natural ideas. Last year they suggested

some conventional medication, and he refused.

If I did not have the dogs nor depend on his income, I would leave. He is NOT

physically abusive. I am not the most positive person, but his negative energy

has a negative impact on my health.

January 24, 2011

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I have the same situation here. There is no winning because I'm unwell enough to

work.

January 24, 2011

> I have the same situation here. There is no winning because I'm unwell enough

to work.

I have no friends. My family does not believe I could possibly have this much

pain.

I would love to have physical friends, but that requires that I get out and do

things to meet people. I am more introverted by nature which does not help the

friend issue but I believe I could overcome this if it was not for the physical

problems.

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