Guest guest Posted May 18, 2011 Report Share Posted May 18, 2011 I have been there, baby girl, many times. I am not your age,more like your mom's age. I am sending you all the hugs you need. Gentle hugs, Ms.Katurah --- wrote: Hi All. I just wish I had somebody who I could call who could come over to my apartment and comfort me. Cr*p, now my sciatic nerve is acting up again. This just totally sucks. I need someone to come over to my apartment and take care of me, but I have NO ONE except my mom, and she has NO time because she's ALWAYS either traveling for work or busy doing other things. Besides, I need someone BESIDES her sometimes, too. I can't talk to my mom about everything; some things I can talk to other people about better. I want someone MY OWN age to come to my apartment and just " hang out " with me. I don't think I am EVER going to stop being in pain. I WANT MY LIFE BACK!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2011 Report Share Posted May 18, 2011 I very much know how you're feeling. The loneliness  ~ and/or~  isolation... isn't emotionally healthy for us.  Yet, I seem to chose the isolation over being somewhere with some one that does not understand chronic pain, They get angry with me when I cant walk much, or need to sit down, while they're in a rush, etc. And of course that whole " but you don't look sick " comments, =  MEGA frustration!!!   It's just sooo much easier to avoid being with people, even when the loneliness feels unbearable. Where do you live? I am in Illinois.  Sending you soft hugs! Jill > wrote: > I just wish I had somebody who I could call who could come over to my apartment and comfort me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 Jill & Everyone, Thank you so much for all of your support. It means a lot to me--especially the hugs and the prayers and all the empathy. That's all I can write for right now. I live in Indiana. Thank you all again!! e.h. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2011 Report Share Posted May 19, 2011 I am so sorry you have no support system. That is so sad. Have you looked into support groups in your area? I am so grateful for my twin sister who is my primary support. She understands & is there for me when I need her. You could google support groups in your area & see if you can find any. We all need some type of support. Living with chronic pain is very difficult but support is vital to emotional health when living with pain 24/7. Cheryl > > wrote: > > I just wish I had somebody who I could call who could come over to my > apartment and comfort me. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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