Re: Having issues with my family

[Guest guest]

My sister and I have the same back issues. I am new to this and feel I have

learned what Not to do. She has had over 10 back surgeries. There are meds that

can help instead of some of her surgeries.

The slightest tingle sent her off to 4 doctors until she found one that would

cut. He worked on the wrong disc. She did way too many epidural injections and

cannot have anymore.

Now, she sits in ICU and will not allow me or my dad to visit. Even when she got

to a regular room. She insists her young sons take care of her. She left them

for us to raise when they were in high school.

Thru your posts, I'm beginning to see why she's being manipulative and cutting

out her immediate family.

The games people play.

ellen

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> > Some people react to high anxiety situations by responding with the opposite

reaction. They are unable to cope and use this defense to try and deny their

anxiety. The more you try and break through that, the more they fortify their

defenses.

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[Guest guest]

Thiss-ters are tho thpesh-el, arent they? I have two of them and they are both

learning disabled. If they can put up with me, I can put up with them.

Bonnie