Re: [c_p]Missing jobs, professions/ Marriage /Christy

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Christy

How long have you dealt with chronic pain?

Steve M in PA, age 21

Married with 3 year old daughter

>Christy wrote:

> I let my husband know about my fears and concerns whereas he is

> more closed off about such things. He tends to accept more how things are

or maybe he pushes it away and forgets it. I take his word for it that he

accepts things. Whereas I have apologized not like a broken record but I

have apologized especially when I am in off the charts pain and tell him I

love him and appreciate all he does. We dated for six years and been married

for two years.

> I am really feeling the strain of our marriage together. I know

it is rough on him as on I for things to be as they are. I really

appreciate your message and the others I got as well. I hope my husband

and I can work through this and things will improve. He is a very special

guy and the closest to the man I had in my mind as my ideal. However, I am

also aware pain has caused our relationship to strain.

> It is a rough journey but I know I will get through it. Just how things will

ultimately be time will tell. I of course will keep the

group informed.