Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

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In a message dated 1/23/99 8:05:10 PM Eastern Standard Time,

scwren@... writes:

<< I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>>

It took me a little while to disassociate breastfeeding with my breasts in the

sexual context. I think DH had a little trouble too ... they were sort of

" off limits " for a while after we resumed sex (by mutual understanding,

nothing ever really spoken). After I had been nursing for a while, it got

easier to switch gears, so to speak. For me now it's a totally different

feeling when Kylie is nursing, than when my breasts are in their " sexual mode "

(boy, a little hard to explain without getting totally graphic here LOL!). On

a positive note, DH was never really a " breast man " , but after I started

breastfeeding it gave him more interest in that specific erogenous zone.

We've both enjoyed " discovering " this part of my body in a new way, another

way I feel much sexier now that I'm a mom Too much info???? Sorry LOL!

I'll stop now ROFL ...

& Kylie, still nursing at 18 months!

[Guest guest]

Kristi.... 1st sorry one handed typing 2nd... yes I have the same problem

and my DH understand even though I have never really said anything to him.

I figure he'll have plenty of time after I am done nursing to cuddle with

his " buddies " as I call them. right now they are on loan... hee hee good

luck and don't worry I think that is normal to have that concern... if not I

am weird

Dana, Hilda & Chudzik (3-19-98)

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

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[Guest guest]

Kristi.... 1st sorry one handed typing 2nd... yes I have the same problem

and my DH understand even though I have never really said anything to him.

I figure he'll have plenty of time after I am done nursing to cuddle with

his " buddies " as I call them. right now they are on loan... hee hee good

luck and don't worry I think that is normal to have that concern... if not I

am weird

Dana, Hilda & Chudzik (3-19-98)

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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[Guest guest]

Kristi.... 1st sorry one handed typing 2nd... yes I have the same problem

and my DH understand even though I have never really said anything to him.

I figure he'll have plenty of time after I am done nursing to cuddle with

his " buddies " as I call them. right now they are on loan... hee hee good

luck and don't worry I think that is normal to have that concern... if not I

am weird

Dana, Hilda & Chudzik (3-19-98)

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/23/99 7:05:05 PM Central Standard Time,

scwren@... writes:

<< I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. >>

I wouldn't know about this problem cause my husabnd is the one who thinks they

are off limits now. I don't think I would have a problem if he did but I don't

know cause he hasn't. Oh well I don't mind

Amy

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In a message dated 1/23/99 7:05:05 PM Central Standard Time,

scwren@... writes:

<< I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. >>

I wouldn't know about this problem cause my husabnd is the one who thinks they

are off limits now. I don't think I would have a problem if he did but I don't

know cause he hasn't. Oh well I don't mind

Amy

[Guest guest]

I don't generally have a problem with him touching them, but I do tend to

get uncomfortable with, well, OTHER things he does with them *blush, blush*

> I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

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Kissaluvs

Slings and Sleepers for the cloth-diapered baby

http:/members.spree.com/2pink1blue

[Guest guest]

I don't generally have a problem with him touching them, but I do tend to

get uncomfortable with, well, OTHER things he does with them *blush, blush*

> I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

--

Kissaluvs

Slings and Sleepers for the cloth-diapered baby

http:/members.spree.com/2pink1blue

[Guest guest]

I don't generally have a problem with him touching them, but I do tend to

get uncomfortable with, well, OTHER things he does with them *blush, blush*

> I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

--

Kissaluvs

Slings and Sleepers for the cloth-diapered baby

http:/members.spree.com/2pink1blue

[Guest guest]

I don't have that problem all that much, but my husband gets really wacked out

when I feed in public. He wants to make sure that no one is looking, I am

completely covered, and no one can see any part of my skin.

[Guest guest]

I don't have that problem all that much, but my husband gets really wacked out

when I feed in public. He wants to make sure that no one is looking, I am

completely covered, and no one can see any part of my skin.

[Guest guest]

I don't have that problem all that much, but my husband gets really wacked out

when I feed in public. He wants to make sure that no one is looking, I am

completely covered, and no one can see any part of my skin.

[Guest guest]

I don't think you're nuts, I feel the same way! I thought I must be weird

or something.

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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[Guest guest]

I don't think you're nuts, I feel the same way! I thought I must be weird

or something.

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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>

[Guest guest]

I love it!

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>>

>>

>>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>>

>>

>>Thanks ever so much

>>Kristi

>>

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[Guest guest]

I love it!

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>>

>>

>>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>>

>>

>>Thanks ever so much

>>Kristi

>>

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[Guest guest]

I love it!

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>>

>>

>>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>>

>>

>>Thanks ever so much

>>Kristi

>>

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[Guest guest]

This might seem weird... my DH doesn't have a problem with me

BF in public... but at the beginning of the preg when I was throwing up

constantly he didn't like me throwing up outside (in our own yard)... it

made him very uncomfortable. Go figure... I finally had it one day and

yelled at him that if anybody had a problem with me throwing up they could

come stand next to me and I would throw up on them.... He promptly never

mentioned his discomfort again... :0)

Dana, Hilda & Chudzik (3-19-98)

Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>From: Momofneil@...

>

>I don't have that problem all that much, but my husband gets really wacked

out

>when I feed in public. He wants to make sure that no one is looking, I am

>completely covered, and no one can see any part of my skin.

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

This might seem weird... my DH doesn't have a problem with me

BF in public... but at the beginning of the preg when I was throwing up

constantly he didn't like me throwing up outside (in our own yard)... it

made him very uncomfortable. Go figure... I finally had it one day and

yelled at him that if anybody had a problem with me throwing up they could

come stand next to me and I would throw up on them.... He promptly never

mentioned his discomfort again... :0)

Dana, Hilda & Chudzik (3-19-98)

Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>From: Momofneil@...

>

>I don't have that problem all that much, but my husband gets really wacked

out

>when I feed in public. He wants to make sure that no one is looking, I am

>completely covered, and no one can see any part of my skin.

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Woah Yes!!

I felt like a cow for ages!!

It is so hard when dh is a boob man!

No advice though, I am pg. so I got over it quite quickly! (UK)

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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>

[Guest guest]

Woah Yes!!

I felt like a cow for ages!!

It is so hard when dh is a boob man!

No advice though, I am pg. so I got over it quite quickly! (UK)

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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[Guest guest]

I think breast conversation is fair game, on a " breast " feeding list. He

he.

I am not much of a breast person unless i'm pg. Heck when I'm pg I'm an

animal. You'd think dh would like to keep me that way all the time. *g*

When I'm bfing I go both ways, sometimes " yes " , sometimes " no " .

I think the way you feel should be respected. Hope your dh is as

understanding as mine.

S. Mom to 5.

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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>

[Guest guest]

I think breast conversation is fair game, on a " breast " feeding list. He

he.

I am not much of a breast person unless i'm pg. Heck when I'm pg I'm an

animal. You'd think dh would like to keep me that way all the time. *g*

When I'm bfing I go both ways, sometimes " yes " , sometimes " no " .

I think the way you feel should be respected. Hope your dh is as

understanding as mine.

S. Mom to 5.

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

>------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

I think breast conversation is fair game, on a " breast " feeding list. He

he.

I am not much of a breast person unless i'm pg. Heck when I'm pg I'm an

animal. You'd think dh would like to keep me that way all the time. *g*

When I'm bfing I go both ways, sometimes " yes " , sometimes " no " .

I think the way you feel should be respected. Hope your dh is as

understanding as mine.

S. Mom to 5.

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>He is taking it rather well, but I am having a hard time associating

>them with something intimate, when they are there for my daughter to

>feed! I can't seem to seperate the two. Please tell me I am not nuts

>or something. Has anyone else gone through this?

>

>

>Thanks ever so much

>Kristi

>

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>

[Guest guest]

I'm lost on this one but please don't explain. Or I'll be blushing.

S. Mom to 5 and doesn't " get " sexual inuendo.

Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>I don't generally have a problem with him touching them, but I do tend to

>get uncomfortable with, well, OTHER things he does with them *blush, blush*

>

>

>> I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

>

>--

>

>

>Kissaluvs

>Slings and Sleepers for the cloth-diapered baby

>http:/members.spree.com/2pink1blue

>

>

>

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