Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

[Guest guest]

Oh yes...been there, done that *G*. Actually, I don't think it's so much,

for me, that I can't associate them with being intimate, it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? I don't know if

that makes any sense *G*, but that's pretty much how I feel sometimes (not

always, sometimes I'm okay with it). I feel like my dd nurses so much and

when she's not, I just want them left alone. My dh is understanding, kind of

helps right now that he's been gone for the past nine months *G*. Now I'm

sure that everyone will REALLY think I'm nuts, but, oh well )

Kathy in Michigan

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

[Guest guest]

Oh yes...been there, done that *G*. Actually, I don't think it's so much,

for me, that I can't associate them with being intimate, it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? I don't know if

that makes any sense *G*, but that's pretty much how I feel sometimes (not

always, sometimes I'm okay with it). I feel like my dd nurses so much and

when she's not, I just want them left alone. My dh is understanding, kind of

helps right now that he's been gone for the past nine months *G*. Now I'm

sure that everyone will REALLY think I'm nuts, but, oh well )

Kathy in Michigan

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

[Guest guest]

Oh yes...been there, done that *G*. Actually, I don't think it's so much,

for me, that I can't associate them with being intimate, it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? I don't know if

that makes any sense *G*, but that's pretty much how I feel sometimes (not

always, sometimes I'm okay with it). I feel like my dd nurses so much and

when she's not, I just want them left alone. My dh is understanding, kind of

helps right now that he's been gone for the past nine months *G*. Now I'm

sure that everyone will REALLY think I'm nuts, but, oh well )

Kathy in Michigan

This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>If I shouldn't be asking this question here, please forgive me. I just

>have to ask. I am having a hard time with my DH touching my breasts.

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/25/99 1:56:01 AM Eastern Standard Time,

sksmr@... writes:

<< it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? >>

I know exactly what you mean! When Kylie was an infant, she nursed all day.

I was just completely *touched out* by the end of the day. It was hard to

even cuddle with my 4 year old at the time, let alone considering

" entertaining " DH LOL! Good news is baby doesn't nurse that often forever, so

things do get better

& Kylie, still nursing at 18 months!

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/25/99 1:56:01 AM Eastern Standard Time,

sksmr@... writes:

<< it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? >>

I know exactly what you mean! When Kylie was an infant, she nursed all day.

I was just completely *touched out* by the end of the day. It was hard to

even cuddle with my 4 year old at the time, let alone considering

" entertaining " DH LOL! Good news is baby doesn't nurse that often forever, so

things do get better

& Kylie, still nursing at 18 months!

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/25/99 1:56:01 AM Eastern Standard Time,

sksmr@... writes:

<< it's more that they

are being used ALL the time and I just want them to myself? >>

I know exactly what you mean! When Kylie was an infant, she nursed all day.

I was just completely *touched out* by the end of the day. It was hard to

even cuddle with my 4 year old at the time, let alone considering

" entertaining " DH LOL! Good news is baby doesn't nurse that often forever, so

things do get better

& Kylie, still nursing at 18 months!

[Guest guest]

Kristi,

I am sure by now that some one has responded to your dilemma since I have not

been on line for a while, but here goes mho.I had the same issues with my dh

touching my breasts. It must be some protective mechanism we have when we ar

bfdg, otherwise, I don't know how many of us could nurse in public and not

care at all. Ordinarily, bearing your breast(s) in public would not feel okay

to most of womankind. Nursing changes things, the way we feel about sex

sometimes, but only temporarily! Hang in there and tell dh thanks for

understanding!

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/23/99 5:05:02 PM Pacific Standard Time,

scwren@... writes:

<< Has anyone else gone through this? >>

I did. Especially when the babes were little. I'd say it passed by the time

they were anywhere from 9-12mos old. Now that Austin is 15mos old our sex life

is finally back to normal.

Cristina

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone~

I just have to post my comment on this issue.

I also felt touched out in the first few months when my son nursed alot around

the clock but as time progressed and he got older, the nursings are fewer during

the day and he sleeps during the night so I don't have these feelings as much

now.

I find it amazing that when my dh touches my breast, I can become aroused and

yet

when my son is nursing, I don't have any of those feelings at all, it is almost

as though the way the body and the hormones were made, it knows the difference,

I

guess.

I have heard of women who do become aroused while nursing, but it has never

happened to me.

I used to leak during love making and that doesn't happen anymore at all, I

would

let down whenever my breasts were touched at all, but now I only let down when

is nursing.

I guess what I am trying to say is that the longer you nurse, the more you can

seperate the two actions or the two feelings.

Dunno if I made any sense here, perhaps I am just rambling...................

Hugs,

Mparker90@... wrote:

> From: Mparker90@...

>

> Kristi,

> I am sure by now that some one has responded to your dilemma since I have not

> been on line for a while, but here goes mho.I had the same issues with my dh

> touching my breasts. It must be some protective mechanism we have when we ar

> bfdg, otherwise, I don't know how many of us could nurse in public and not

> care at all. Ordinarily, bearing your breast(s) in public would not feel okay

> to most of womankind. Nursing changes things, the way we feel about sex

> sometimes, but only temporarily! Hang in there and tell dh thanks for

> understanding!

>

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone~

I just have to post my comment on this issue.

I also felt touched out in the first few months when my son nursed alot around

the clock but as time progressed and he got older, the nursings are fewer during

the day and he sleeps during the night so I don't have these feelings as much

now.

I find it amazing that when my dh touches my breast, I can become aroused and

yet

when my son is nursing, I don't have any of those feelings at all, it is almost

as though the way the body and the hormones were made, it knows the difference,

I

guess.

I have heard of women who do become aroused while nursing, but it has never

happened to me.

I used to leak during love making and that doesn't happen anymore at all, I

would

let down whenever my breasts were touched at all, but now I only let down when

is nursing.

I guess what I am trying to say is that the longer you nurse, the more you can

seperate the two actions or the two feelings.

Dunno if I made any sense here, perhaps I am just rambling...................

Hugs,

Mparker90@... wrote:

> From: Mparker90@...

>

> Kristi,

> I am sure by now that some one has responded to your dilemma since I have not

> been on line for a while, but here goes mho.I had the same issues with my dh

> touching my breasts. It must be some protective mechanism we have when we ar

> bfdg, otherwise, I don't know how many of us could nurse in public and not

> care at all. Ordinarily, bearing your breast(s) in public would not feel okay

> to most of womankind. Nursing changes things, the way we feel about sex

> sometimes, but only temporarily! Hang in there and tell dh thanks for

> understanding!

>

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

Hi everyone~

I just have to post my comment on this issue.

I also felt touched out in the first few months when my son nursed alot around

the clock but as time progressed and he got older, the nursings are fewer during

the day and he sleeps during the night so I don't have these feelings as much

now.

I find it amazing that when my dh touches my breast, I can become aroused and

yet

when my son is nursing, I don't have any of those feelings at all, it is almost

as though the way the body and the hormones were made, it knows the difference,

I

guess.

I have heard of women who do become aroused while nursing, but it has never

happened to me.

I used to leak during love making and that doesn't happen anymore at all, I

would

let down whenever my breasts were touched at all, but now I only let down when

is nursing.

I guess what I am trying to say is that the longer you nurse, the more you can

seperate the two actions or the two feelings.

Dunno if I made any sense here, perhaps I am just rambling...................

Hugs,

Mparker90@... wrote:

> From: Mparker90@...

>

> Kristi,

> I am sure by now that some one has responded to your dilemma since I have not

> been on line for a while, but here goes mho.I had the same issues with my dh

> touching my breasts. It must be some protective mechanism we have when we ar

> bfdg, otherwise, I don't know how many of us could nurse in public and not

> care at all. Ordinarily, bearing your breast(s) in public would not feel okay

> to most of womankind. Nursing changes things, the way we feel about sex

> sometimes, but only temporarily! Hang in there and tell dh thanks for

> understanding!

>

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

>

[Guest guest]

,

I completley agree. The longer you bfed, the more comfortable you become

with switching gears.

S.

Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

>

>Hi everyone~

>I just have to post my comment on this issue.

>I also felt touched out in the first few months when my son nursed alot

around

>the clock but as time progressed and he got older, the nursings are fewer

during

>the day and he sleeps during the night so I don't have these feelings as

much

>now.

>

>I find it amazing that when my dh touches my breast, I can become aroused

and yet

>when my son is nursing, I don't have any of those feelings at all, it is

almost

>as though the way the body and the hormones were made, it knows the

difference, I

>guess.

>I have heard of women who do become aroused while nursing, but it has never

>happened to me.

>I used to leak during love making and that doesn't happen anymore at all, I

would

>let down whenever my breasts were touched at all, but now I only let down

when

> is nursing.

>

>I guess what I am trying to say is that the longer you nurse, the more you

can

>seperate the two actions or the two feelings.

>Dunno if I made any sense here, perhaps I am just

rambling...................

>

>Hugs,

>

**

[Guest guest]

~

Thanks for posting your agreement with me on this, I kinda felt strange after

posting it like you all would think that I was weird for saying these things but

I guess we are all in the same boat here, we are all women sharing our nursing

experiences and talking about the way it makes our bodies feel too.

wrote:

>

>

> ,

> I completley agree. The longer you bfed, the more comfortable you become

> with switching gears.

> S.

>

> Re: This is a question of a kinda personal nature

>

> >

> >

> >Hi everyone~

> >I just have to post my comment on this issue.

> >I also felt touched out in the first few months when my son nursed alot

> around

> >the clock but as time progressed and he got older, the nursings are fewer

> during

> >the day and he sleeps during the night so I don't have these feelings as

> much

> >now.

> >

> >I find it amazing that when my dh touches my breast, I can become aroused

> and yet

> >when my son is nursing, I don't have any of those feelings at all, it is

> almost

> >as though the way the body and the hormones were made, it knows the

> difference, I

> >guess.

> >I have heard of women who do become aroused while nursing, but it has never

> >happened to me.

> >I used to leak during love making and that doesn't happen anymore at all, I

> would

> >let down whenever my breasts were touched at all, but now I only let down

> when

> > is nursing.

> >

> >I guess what I am trying to say is that the longer you nurse, the more you

> can

> >seperate the two actions or the two feelings.

> >Dunno if I made any sense here, perhaps I am just

> rambling...................

> >

> >Hugs,

> >

> **

>

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