Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 - I'm so glad things are going well for you guys and you're having a chance to get some courses under your belt. Our life was pretty good like that too until Jan or so when things began to snowball. Someday... we'll have a quiet year again... Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 - I'm so glad things are going well for you guys and you're having a chance to get some courses under your belt. Our life was pretty good like that too until Jan or so when things began to snowball. Someday... we'll have a quiet year again... Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 Carolyn- First of all, welcome to the list! And thanks for the support and reassurance. You've certainly got your hands full too. We moved many times in the early years of our marraige so I can relate to all of that. Luckily, that was before children. The thought of moving now is daunting. We'll just see if any of that comes to be. I've got enough other stuff to occupy my mind :-) Thanks again- Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 Carolyn- First of all, welcome to the list! And thanks for the support and reassurance. You've certainly got your hands full too. We moved many times in the early years of our marraige so I can relate to all of that. Luckily, that was before children. The thought of moving now is daunting. We'll just see if any of that comes to be. I've got enough other stuff to occupy my mind :-) Thanks again- Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 Carolyn- First of all, welcome to the list! And thanks for the support and reassurance. You've certainly got your hands full too. We moved many times in the early years of our marraige so I can relate to all of that. Luckily, that was before children. The thought of moving now is daunting. We'll just see if any of that comes to be. I've got enough other stuff to occupy my mind :-) Thanks again- Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 Belinda- Thanks so much! I feel pathetic and needy right now. All the support is helpful. Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2004 Report Share Posted June 28, 2004 Belinda- Thanks so much! I feel pathetic and needy right now. All the support is helpful. Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Flo- Thanks for the support. Misery loves company, but it also loves a reminder that better times are sure to come. You managed to cover both bases :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Flo- Thanks for the support. Misery loves company, but it also loves a reminder that better times are sure to come. You managed to cover both bases :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Flo- Thanks for the support. Misery loves company, but it also loves a reminder that better times are sure to come. You managed to cover both bases :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 - I've learned the hard way that I have to take care of myself. So I do my best to keep myself well. Plus there is the thing with being a mom of young children where you have to play with them, do the social outings with friends, etc for their benefit. We're going to the waterpark on Wed. I don't really need or want to go, but the kids should get some fun this summer. So off we'll go. It'll mean a full day away from all the things that will continue to pile up on my " to do " list. I'll enjoy it, but it wouldn't be my first choice of entertaining day events. DJ will look at it as totally fun time without realizing that it's truly part of my job as Mom to do those things. If I didn't have to spend time doing Mom things (that happen to be fun) I've had lots more time for the other things that seem to never get done. Does that make sense? Oh-- to top it off -- DJ is trying to quit smoking! I'm so thrilled! It's a habit I hate. Never thought he'd consider quitting -- but it's been 10 hours now :-) So he'll be fighting nicotine while I battle with perimenopause, is doing the preteen thing, and Aubrie has her big surgery. We're one helluva combination right now. It's funny if you don't have to live it. Actually, I'm smiling as I type this so it's funny even if you are living it. We all try to keep our sense of humor. At least I got a workout in today after missing it for over a week. Boy did that feel good! I think we've gotten the last of the nits from both Aubrie and my hair -- spent the am at a good friend's who helped out. What a relief if we're done with that. Take care! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 - I've learned the hard way that I have to take care of myself. So I do my best to keep myself well. Plus there is the thing with being a mom of young children where you have to play with them, do the social outings with friends, etc for their benefit. We're going to the waterpark on Wed. I don't really need or want to go, but the kids should get some fun this summer. So off we'll go. It'll mean a full day away from all the things that will continue to pile up on my " to do " list. I'll enjoy it, but it wouldn't be my first choice of entertaining day events. DJ will look at it as totally fun time without realizing that it's truly part of my job as Mom to do those things. If I didn't have to spend time doing Mom things (that happen to be fun) I've had lots more time for the other things that seem to never get done. Does that make sense? Oh-- to top it off -- DJ is trying to quit smoking! I'm so thrilled! It's a habit I hate. Never thought he'd consider quitting -- but it's been 10 hours now :-) So he'll be fighting nicotine while I battle with perimenopause, is doing the preteen thing, and Aubrie has her big surgery. We're one helluva combination right now. It's funny if you don't have to live it. Actually, I'm smiling as I type this so it's funny even if you are living it. We all try to keep our sense of humor. At least I got a workout in today after missing it for over a week. Boy did that feel good! I think we've gotten the last of the nits from both Aubrie and my hair -- spent the am at a good friend's who helped out. What a relief if we're done with that. Take care! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 I know, except for Aubrie's surgery and other issues, our life is all " normal " stuff. It just gets insane when her stuff is over the top. 3 friends and I were setting up for a joint garage sale last weekend. One of the girls could never get time to get over to get her stuff priced and set up. Yet I found time to get mine done. Granted I had 1/4 the stuff, but she should have known when to stop gathering and when to start pricing. She was complaining how she just didn't have time, blah, blah. Any week of mine beats hers hands down. Can't stand to listen to it anymore. I'm getting very impatient with regular folks and their kids... This is the gal who's going to the waterpark with us on Wed -- send me strength! :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 I know, except for Aubrie's surgery and other issues, our life is all " normal " stuff. It just gets insane when her stuff is over the top. 3 friends and I were setting up for a joint garage sale last weekend. One of the girls could never get time to get over to get her stuff priced and set up. Yet I found time to get mine done. Granted I had 1/4 the stuff, but she should have known when to stop gathering and when to start pricing. She was complaining how she just didn't have time, blah, blah. Any week of mine beats hers hands down. Can't stand to listen to it anymore. I'm getting very impatient with regular folks and their kids... This is the gal who's going to the waterpark with us on Wed -- send me strength! :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 I know, except for Aubrie's surgery and other issues, our life is all " normal " stuff. It just gets insane when her stuff is over the top. 3 friends and I were setting up for a joint garage sale last weekend. One of the girls could never get time to get over to get her stuff priced and set up. Yet I found time to get mine done. Granted I had 1/4 the stuff, but she should have known when to stop gathering and when to start pricing. She was complaining how she just didn't have time, blah, blah. Any week of mine beats hers hands down. Can't stand to listen to it anymore. I'm getting very impatient with regular folks and their kids... This is the gal who's going to the waterpark with us on Wed -- send me strength! :-) Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Aubrie's pre-op appt is Fri. Her surgery is July 22. Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Aubrie's pre-op appt is Fri. Her surgery is July 22. Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 29, 2004 Report Share Posted June 29, 2004 Aubrie's pre-op appt is Fri. Her surgery is July 22. Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Marilyn- I'm glad your Shriner's experience was positive. We'll actually be in St Louis for Aubrie's surgery. However, when we went for our follow up with the plastic surgeon in Chicago (Children's Memorial) last week, we crept at an ave of 10 mph for over an hour. It was horrid. But we had a great time at the zoo, restaurants, etc on our own after the am appt! Looking forward to hearing a prompt resolution to 's joint problems. And I am waiting to hear what you find out re: scoliosis. Take care! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Marilyn- I'm glad your Shriner's experience was positive. We'll actually be in St Louis for Aubrie's surgery. However, when we went for our follow up with the plastic surgeon in Chicago (Children's Memorial) last week, we crept at an ave of 10 mph for over an hour. It was horrid. But we had a great time at the zoo, restaurants, etc on our own after the am appt! Looking forward to hearing a prompt resolution to 's joint problems. And I am waiting to hear what you find out re: scoliosis. Take care! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 Marilyn- I'm glad your Shriner's experience was positive. We'll actually be in St Louis for Aubrie's surgery. However, when we went for our follow up with the plastic surgeon in Chicago (Children's Memorial) last week, we crept at an ave of 10 mph for over an hour. It was horrid. But we had a great time at the zoo, restaurants, etc on our own after the am appt! Looking forward to hearing a prompt resolution to 's joint problems. And I am waiting to hear what you find out re: scoliosis. Take care! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 - Thanks for the support. I'm so glad things worked out for with her surgery. Usually, in my life history, something that seems like a negative - like an unexpected job change -- turns out to be positive by opening me up to an opportunity I would have missed if the change hadn't happened. So let's hope that whatever comes during these next months -becomes a positive -- even if my initial reaction is negative :-) Aubrie's got such good friends. One of her classmates is planning his birthday party for before her surgery (his bday is the day after) so that she can come! Another little classmate's mom has told me over and over to call her when Aubrie's ready for visitors cuz her little girl is anxious to visit post-op but she doesn't want to call and intrude before we're ready. And I'm sure they'll all be clammering to help her at school in her wheelchair or with anything she needs. It'll all work out. Tonight has been one of the least hectic nights that I've had in ages so I'm feeling better. And the friend that's been annoying me came in to the shop for lunch (something we usually do often but hadn't in a while) and we had a great time so I'm feeling better about that too. I'm sure we'll have fun tomorrow. It'll be so nice to have a " summer " day. I haven't even had on a swim suit yet! Again-- thanks for the support and prayers! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 - Thanks for the support. I'm so glad things worked out for with her surgery. Usually, in my life history, something that seems like a negative - like an unexpected job change -- turns out to be positive by opening me up to an opportunity I would have missed if the change hadn't happened. So let's hope that whatever comes during these next months -becomes a positive -- even if my initial reaction is negative :-) Aubrie's got such good friends. One of her classmates is planning his birthday party for before her surgery (his bday is the day after) so that she can come! Another little classmate's mom has told me over and over to call her when Aubrie's ready for visitors cuz her little girl is anxious to visit post-op but she doesn't want to call and intrude before we're ready. And I'm sure they'll all be clammering to help her at school in her wheelchair or with anything she needs. It'll all work out. Tonight has been one of the least hectic nights that I've had in ages so I'm feeling better. And the friend that's been annoying me came in to the shop for lunch (something we usually do often but hadn't in a while) and we had a great time so I'm feeling better about that too. I'm sure we'll have fun tomorrow. It'll be so nice to have a " summer " day. I haven't even had on a swim suit yet! Again-- thanks for the support and prayers! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 30, 2004 Report Share Posted June 30, 2004 - Thanks for the support. I'm so glad things worked out for with her surgery. Usually, in my life history, something that seems like a negative - like an unexpected job change -- turns out to be positive by opening me up to an opportunity I would have missed if the change hadn't happened. So let's hope that whatever comes during these next months -becomes a positive -- even if my initial reaction is negative :-) Aubrie's got such good friends. One of her classmates is planning his birthday party for before her surgery (his bday is the day after) so that she can come! Another little classmate's mom has told me over and over to call her when Aubrie's ready for visitors cuz her little girl is anxious to visit post-op but she doesn't want to call and intrude before we're ready. And I'm sure they'll all be clammering to help her at school in her wheelchair or with anything she needs. It'll all work out. Tonight has been one of the least hectic nights that I've had in ages so I'm feeling better. And the friend that's been annoying me came in to the shop for lunch (something we usually do often but hadn't in a while) and we had a great time so I'm feeling better about that too. I'm sure we'll have fun tomorrow. It'll be so nice to have a " summer " day. I haven't even had on a swim suit yet! Again-- thanks for the support and prayers! Michele W Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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