Guest guest Posted January 28, 2012 Report Share Posted January 28, 2012 I am willing to be coached as you have the time. Talking gives me a headache sometimes. Anyone involved with SCORE? Its for retired professionals to mentor those still in the working world. Ellen in TN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2012 Report Share Posted January 28, 2012 I've been wrestling over my divorce almost 10 years ago. We stopped communicating. Six years of counseling couldn't get the pulse back. I was more than able to support myself. He hated the fact that I made more money. I never looked at it like a competition. Now, he's a millionaire (inheritance) and I don't imagine how I could have stayed. He's still self absorbed and we don't have much in common. I would like to have companionship. I internet dated a few times and made lifelong friends. But the landscape has changed and doesn't seem safe enough. Plus, I really only want a friend. Which is why I like meetup better. Ellen > Jennette M wrote: > Some are blessed to be loved by a person who is well and accepting / understanding who can carry the burden. Some have been abandoned by the person who could not accept and love us after we " changed " . It's not easy to be disabled and watch the person who vowed to love no matter what, just walk away. I don't know if it's because they are weak or just selfish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2012 Report Share Posted January 28, 2012 Moderator's note: You can send email directly to another person by selecting the email next to the person's name. ------ Ellen, I do have time. I am not feeling too well today, after a meeting / social thing I had to attend yesterday, which involved too much talking. I really have to keep my talking to a minimum, which is why online coaching would be best, for the most part. What is the best way to get in touch with you. > Ellen wrote: > I am willing to be coached as you have the time. Talking gives me a > headache sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2012 Report Share Posted January 29, 2012 Try to make friends with your significant others. What’s a better choice? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2012 Report Share Posted February 20, 2012 >Jennette M wrote: >Some are blessed to be loved by a person who is well and accepting understanding who can carry the burden. Some have been abandoned by the person who could not accept and love us after we " changed " . It's not easy to be disabled and watch the person who vowed to love no matter what, just walk away. I don't know if it's because they are weak or just selfish. Jennette, You are so right, it's easy to be a friend and mate when things are going great and I think it reflects on the person who cannot handle it and makes one think, what did they really love? When I worked in the cancer field and heard terminal patients say, I wish I had done that when I was healthy or other disorders, made an impression for me to do as much as I could. When we were in the Virgin Islands once my husband saw two older people helping one another up the steps and I said " This is why I want to travel now as I may not be healthy enough tomorrow " . I would have my patients ask me also what should they do on certain things and I would say no one is promised tomorrow and if you are thinking about it over and over, do it : ) I am glad I traveled as much as I did and have no desire to do so now. My husband and I have unconditional love. We kid about not having much sex (sorry don't want to offend) and I tell my husband, just close you eyes and we will pretend. He truly is my soul mate and I worry about his brain mass all the time but just try to love as much as I can. Hang in there guys. My Mother used to say " What goes around, comes around " Bennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 20, 2012 Report Share Posted February 20, 2012 Ellen, Cyrilla was the one who told me the SSI people check your FB account and I am sure you can contact her for some tips she used. She is a sweetheart. Hi Cyrilla : ) How are all you Okies? Glad to see your name. Bennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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