She gaslighted my husband!

May 24, 2010

I posted that I thought I attract BPDs and recently " broke up " with a friend of

mine that I suspect is bipolar or possibly BPD or *something*. There is

something *very* off about this woman. Last week she hid in her car and tried to

" spy " on my son at school. When he saw her she basically knew she had been

" made " by my 9 year old, got out of her car, approached him, said something

rude, and walked in the building only to return a minute later. My husband is

friendly with her husband, so I asked him to consider speaking to her husband

and ask her to not approach my 4th grader. SHE called my husband and told him it

was a total misunderstanding, that she wasn't spying (ALTHOUGH SHE HAS TOLD ME

SHE WATCHES MY KID and has reported back to me looks that she thought were not

kind, etc). She says that she didn't single out my boy, that she said it to a

" bunch of kids " , and that she had hurt feelings about something that someone

else posted on my facebook wall. My husband fell for her victim routine. He

called me and argued with me about what was posted on my wall. I had erased it

as soon as I saw it. It had nothing to do with her, but I felt she in her BPD

mind, ans considering all the tension we have had, could think it was put there

to annoy her. Now my husband is feeling BAD for HER. Not all the strange and

mean and crazy things she and her 11 yo son have been doing to me or my son over

the last 3 months. I know this chick is trying to make me and the other mom

involved in this (same accusations againt her boy) look crazy. I know this woman

is not in reality. I have listened to her daily tirades for 18 months. Now my

husband is feeling bad for hurt feeling, and not focusing on the fact that his

son is being intimidated by a 36 year old woman with clear mental issues. Not

happy right now.

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