You are rightRe: Re: Dude!

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you are right...

i should alienate myself from this group...well done..

To: mb12 valtrex Sent: Thu, February 18, 2010 7:20:40 PMSubject: Re: Dude!

Starting an exchange by claiming to be respectful, then going on to imply they are undereducated, doing "damage" by telling their story, then ending with "Good luck seems like you will need it." is condescending and NOT respectful. And if it is a different story in person maybe you could do to put a little effort toward making it the same story, after all, we are as human on here as we are when we have faces. No one is restricting anyone from saying whatever comes to their mind, but if your aim is to gain respect and thus build a large group of caring parents, eager to help, you are failing. Or at the very least, I, personally, will be quite hesitant to respond you YOU personally after this. I doubt I am the only one, particularly since Marcia has already bid us adieu after your entirely uncalled-for rant at her. >> discussing differences is a way to not only reinforce what you know and may not know it is a way to learn about others. for instance, a person who may have typed something may not have realized how others may respond so its a learning experience.. .i agree with you that we must be postive but to restrict a person from responding when all they are doing is 'responding' is not so positive either. to be positive is to use it as a learning experience.. .> > The way a msg is perceived depends on the mood, someone's day might not have been great so its dramatized in a negative way lolol...> > to you i say don't sweat it....this is yahoo emailing..no need to worry its not the same as in person....its a way to vent and to learn...>

> not sure that I personally think its "fighting", having differences yeah but "fighting" naaaaaaa> > no worries..> > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __> From: sarrudav <sarrudav@.. .>> To: mb12 valtrex@ yahoogroups. com> Sent: Thu, February 18, 2010 1:50:56 AM> Subject: Dude!> > Â > Can't we all just get along? I have been on this list not a week and seen two arguments. This is silly. Someone even mentioned the book "the secret". The key to that, you know, is keeping your thoughts positive. Keep doing. Keep moving. Keep seeking. Positivity. We are hear to lean and be leaned on, no? Have I got it wrong? If so, I have another group who aren't rude to one another. > > I don't know

about you all, but I am on an healing quest. And I believe that healing takes good energy. You have to eat, sleep and breathe good positive clean energy. Stress causes cancer AND heart disease. Furthermore, it is a risk factor you give yourself, totally within your control. You can keep it. Or you can let it go. Or in some cases you can even give it to others, but why would you want to? This should be a welcoming, warm place to come for an already troubled parent to seek help. > > That's all I'll say. And I don't want to fight about it. Clearly. When you needlessly intensify a situation, you are not helping your cause or mine. So, I guess if this gets ugly responses I will know newbies aren't welcome and be on my way. > > Peace.>