Guest guest Posted June 2, 2010 Report Share Posted June 2, 2010 Clair, She's having a secret affair with a married man and calling him her soulmate? That sure doesn't sound like a change for the better to me. I think your gut is right. BPD doesn't just go away and people who have it generally don't change much for the better without some really heavy-duty help and getting that requires admitting to having a problem. I'd recommend being very cautious about having any additional contact with her. What do you want to do where that's concerned? At 05:08 PM 06/02/2010 Newton wrote: >Hi All, > >Ok so I have been a year NC from my nada now, and within that >year I have been doing therapy, which is going great. > >I decided to contact my nada by >telephone.......................a year is a long time, and I >wanted to test the water, although I cant help but think that >she is hoovering, or trying too. > >She did listen to things that I had to say to her about my >childhood etc, although she managed to turn the conversation >into her, and how she had changed this year and that she is >seeing a guy behind my alcoholic step fathers back, who might I >add is marrried, and that she really thinks she has found her >soulmate in this guy etc, how she had got herself back, lost >weight etc. > >I came off the phone a little hoovered by her thinking she may >have changed but then my gut is saying to me that she >hasnt.......... > >Advice needed please > >Thanks x -- Katrina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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