Re: Re: AM I BEING HOOVERED????

[Guest guest]

Thanks so much......I very nearly fell for it, although there was a part of me

that said " no your being hoovered "

 

Y'know what makes me laugh???  The boyfriend having the cheek to email me

insisting on that I CALL HER, wow I've never even met this guy.........oh well

sorry poor mummy, you should have thought about all this before you decided to

give your daughters years of hell and abuse.

 

Part of me feels sad and guilty but then my rational side kicks in and feels NO

im not interested.....wow these f**kers really are foooked lol

claire x

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To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Mon, June 7, 2010 5:35:07 PM

Subject: Re: AM I BEING HOOVERED????

 

* HOOVER ALERT *

Yes, you are being hoovered. Stay strong, stick to your guns.

If you break your NC you are only training your nada to triangulate more and

ignore your NC boundaries. You CLEARLY laid out the boundary on your terms and

she's violating it via her new beau. THIS IS NOT OK.

Please do not fall for it, you're only going to encourage her to violate you in

the future, if you cave in.

Your nada only misses you because you are a garbage receptacle for all of her

drama and BS. She misses you indeed, because who is now going to offer her a

shoulder to cry on? This is the perfect time to continue to stay away. It's all

about her remember! Her drama, her needs, her problems, etc. etc. It's never

about you or your needs.

Steer clear of the hoover my dear.

[Guest guest]

this is a very COMMON ploy by nadas...to get someone else to tell you to

call her....

Jackie

Thanks so much......I very nearly fell for it, although there was a part of

me that said " no your being hoovered "

Y'know what makes me laugh??? The boyfriend having the cheek to email me

insisting on that I CALL HER, wow I've never even met this guy.........oh

well sorry poor mummy, you should have thought about all this before you

decided to give your daughters years of hell and abuse.

Part of me feels sad and guilty but then my rational side kicks in and feels

NO im not interested.....wow these f**kers really are foooked lol

claire x

[Guest guest]

Oh yeah. My mother would leave nasty messages for me and then call

neighbors who would let me know that my mother 'wanted to see me more' when I

did

go visit. Ugh. They didn't get it.

In a message dated 6/7/2010 1:19:10 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

sleddog@... writes:

this is a very COMMON ploy by nadas...to get someone else to tell you to

call her....

Jackie

Thanks so much......I very nearly fell for it, although there was a part

of

me that said " no your being hoovered "

Y'know what makes me laugh??? The boyfriend having the cheek to email me

insisting on that I CALL HER, wow I've never even met this guy.........oh

well sorry poor mummy, you should have thought about all this before you

decided to give your daughters years of hell and abuse.

Part of me feels sad and guilty but then my rational side kicks in and

feels

NO im not interested.....wow these f**kers really are foooked lol

claire x