Re: Crazy With Children -- at KT

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KT, you have just given that child the most valuable thing he will ever receive

in his life.

I sit here pleasurably imagining what life would have been like had someone told

me that very thing, and it is such a wonderful thing to imagine.

Keep it up. I may start doing the same.

There is a girl who was the daughter of a BPD neighbor... and her older son too.

Perhaps I could look them up and figure out something similar to do.

That's so inspiring.

Tina

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> I was lucky enough to be able to visit with the older child for just a couple

of minutes today while his parents were somewhere else. I told him I noticed

his mom was crying. He said she gets upset a lot. I told him my mom cries a

lot too, and that when I was little, I used to think it was my fault. I got to

tell him that no matter what she says--even if he has done somehting maybe he

shouldn't have--it's not his fault when his mom cries. He seemed apppreciative.

Someday maybe I will get to talk to the younger one. I hope it will make a

difference for him. I wish someone could have done that for me.

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