Guest guest Posted June 6, 2010 Report Share Posted June 6, 2010 Thank you Irene , Reading the post here , and knowing I am not alone in this has helped more than I can say I had moved on along time ago , but after my husbands death the fears and guild have come bake strong.after years of looking for answers its good to know whats wrong with her and that someone might understand what I went through. n > > > > Hello , > > > > I am new to this group and thought i would intro myself. I am 30 year old Widow and mother of 2 , child of untreated BPD mom that i am not in contact with. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2010 Report Share Posted June 6, 2010 Hi! So glad to read your post. My mom has been diagnoised with BPD . Wow it explains so much. It is still hard for me to be around her without wanting to run. I want to scream I CAN'T FIX YOU. I NEVER COULD . I too feel guilty and decided I have to forgive her for the abuse over the years to heal myself. I went to my first face to face coda meeting Sat. Felt I had found a home. Please let me know what you know about being a child of a BPD? thanks. all so new to me. /Illinois ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Sun, June 6, 2010 9:33:57 AM Subject: New person  Welcome to the board. I'm new here myself. Mostly I started out by reading other posts. That in itself was helpful. I've discovered things about BPD parents that I always thought were just " normal " quirks in my Mom. Her unceasing disease of the month mentality, her inability to be pleased by anything I do. The list goes on. It's helped me to realize that my history with her is not the norm. And it explains why I have such a hard time being around her. The guilt is finally going away and I'm beginning to feel free to be myself. I hope you will feel comfortable enough to share some of your thoughts on the matter. Or just drop a line to encourage others. It's not easy to talk about but it's great to know we're not alone. irene > > Hello , >  >  I am new to this group and thought i would intro myself. I am 30 year old Widow and mother of 2 , child of untreated BPD mom that i am not in contact with. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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