Guest guest Posted June 11, 2010 Report Share Posted June 11, 2010 Hey all. I don't post often but am feeling especially anxious and " crazy " lately. In the context of, my 73 y/o mother, with whom I am extremely LC, having been admitted to hospital for malnutrition, etc. yestrday for about the 2nd time in as many months. I also have a stressor job, have low angry self image right now due to being 20 lbs overweight. i am also in a new relatinship with a male, of about 8 mos whom I love, but feel he is trying to be contolling, it's just all so much nd i feel miserble, angry and dont know what 2 do Joanna in nc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2010 Report Share Posted June 11, 2010 Hi Joanna, I want you to know that you are not alone. I too have felt especially anxious and crazy within the past few months, and am now beginning to get my life back under my own control. Write it all down, write down the problems and write down rational solutions and try to stick with one change, like not blaming yourself for your mother's issues.. The 20 lb weight gain is a challenge, but you can reward yourself for making healthful changes. Like taking a walk on your lunch break, and drinking 8 cups of water. Get out of that controlling relationship, which is just a mask of your nada in disguise as a cute guy. You shouldn't control him, and he shouldn't control you. You need to take the power back in your life before it's too late, and you're 80 lbs overweight, used and abused! You can do it! We are here for support! -Kris > > > Hey all. I don't post often but am feeling especially anxious and " crazy " > lately. In the context of, my 73 y/o mother, with whom I am extremely LC, > having been admitted to hospital for malnutrition, etc. yestrday for about > the 2nd time in as many months. I also have a stressor job, have low angry > self image right now due to being 20 lbs overweight. i am also in a new > relatinship with a male, of about 8 mos whom I love, but feel he is trying > to be contolling, it's just all so much nd i feel miserble, angry and dont > know what 2 do > > Joanna in nc > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2010 Report Share Posted June 15, 2010 do you have anyone you can trust to talk about some of these things with?  sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate now and a little help would probably go a long way in giving you some relief.  do you have a trusted friend or counselor you can turn to in times of trouble to confide in?  i would urge you to continue to reach out as you have here, there will be people you will find who can relate to you and help. best wishes, ann Subject: feeling crazy lately To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Friday, June 11, 2010, 11:29 PM  Hey all. I don't post often but am feeling especially anxious and " crazy " lately. In the context of, my 73 y/o mother, with whom I am extremely LC, having been admitted to hospital for malnutrition, etc. yestrday for about the 2nd time in as many months. I also have a stressor job, have low angry self image right now due to being 20 lbs overweight. i am also in a new relatinship with a male, of about 8 mos whom I love, but feel he is trying to be contolling, it's just all so much nd i feel miserble, angry and dont know what 2 do Joanna in nc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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