AM I BEING HOOVERED????

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Hi,

I contacted my nada after a year NC via telephone last week, she listened to a

bit of what I had to say, but nothing has really changed she is still having

affairs behind my alcoholic step fathers back, she told me she is seeing a

married guy etc, i told her that i contacted her for closure and apologies for

all the abuse i have endured my whole life.

I ended the telephone converstation with..... " I will be in touch if and when i

feel the time is right, im getting on with my life "

I gets home from work today to a message on my Facebook from her boyfriend

insisting that i contact my mum as there are things she needs to tell me and

that she misses me so much, and that she has left my step father

I am guessing the usual has happened, she has left my step father because she

has interest somewhere else, it wont last long and she will be back with him as

she is very co-dependant, and as per usual she wants me to mother her and pull

her out the crap, she wants the drama etc...............i think i am being

hoovered.................what do you guys think???

Thanks

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