How does NC affect your children?

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I just had the most interesting dinner with my college friend. I discussed with

her my recent realization that my nada is bpd and how I have implemented LC with

the hopes of getting to NC. She told me that both her mother and father don't

speak to anyone in their respective families and she has always kind of resented

them for not having a large family (she is also an only child). She said it made

a lot more sense when I told her a large part of NC for me is to protect my

future children from the abuse I went through.

I was just curious, for those of you who have gone NC (or even LC), how do you

approach the topic with your children and what have their reactions been?