Guest guest Posted June 18, 2010 Report Share Posted June 18, 2010 I deleted my facebook, when I had one I had most of my family blocked the entire time I was on there. I can't understand for the life of me why people allow that drama to go on online, I have enough drama from family in real life, why would I take it to a 'fun' place, or at least a site that is supposed to be entertaining. I am glad the missus is fine, sometimes the black sheep do fare better in the end because at least we don't have illusions to keep us unhealthy and unhappy. > > So earlier today, my Nada-In-Law ( NIL) posted on facebook something about how " two things that never change are GOD and TRUTH. " Two of her daughters posted replies about why god would let such horrible things happen, people hiding behind god to stretch the truth, and I quoted Ghandi and Bob Marley, and then she promptly deleted all of our posts. Typical. Kinda funny, kinda sad. She's been an expert at editing the details of her life that weren't fitting in to her distortions, i.e. looking the other way when her husband was molesting his step-daughter, and then the mom completely casted her out of the family 30 years ago. Two of her 5 daughters are fully emeshed - they're like extensions of her. Frustrating and futile. They stayed living with Nada until ages around 30 and 40. I love and wish them well... > > The Missus is doing very well, though - almost completely NC. She was the black sheep very early on, thank god - she built support systems outside the circle at a very young age. Her one sister, full of heavy questions - starting to get it. > > You guys rule - this has been a beautiful place for us to know that we're not alone in the struggles. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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