Nada's idiotic friends

[Guest guest]

My nada who I have been NC with for a long time had a friend who had the nerve

to call work, (lucky for me I was sick) and inform my coworker than she is in

Lutheran Hospital and how she broke her hip and was dumb enough to try to demand

my phone number.  No coworker was smart enough not to give her my number.  I

think this is a cronie she's had call before that tried to put the guilt trip on

me sad part is this one is bound and determined to believe only nada's side of

the tail and would probably die of shock if she found out that nada dear has

lied to them about her family, (nope I'm not a crazy drunk and her sisters are

very much alive) and probalby about other things.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

More later

proflaf

[Guest guest]

Not some of these guys the only thing that stops her friends is hanging up on

them/avoiding them, refusing to call them back.  You're right these people do

not have healthy relationships with their own kids and in some cases don't

realize the abnormality of the situation meaning usually in a family you have

multiple siblings/cousins to help care for the elderly in the family, in my case

nada chased everyone off as well as everyone is so far away that the reason they

try to flock to me is because I'm nearby and nada has deemed the rest evil. 

Only a neighbor I spoke with one time had any sense of normality to him.  This

lady the other time I dealt with her had no interest in my situation but how her

kids would drop and help her.  OK, first off, how much did you do for your

kids, probably More than nada, and second off, I do not expect my son, even when

he is older to take care of me and DH when we are older I expect us to take care

of ourselves or go

into a nursing home.  I do not feel it's appropriate to burden kids with the

responsibility of elder parents.

Thanks for reassuring me I'm not alone in the nada's crazy friend issue.

proflaf

Subject: Re: Nada's idiotic friends

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Monday, June 21, 2010, 7:17 PM

 

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> My nada who I have been NC with for a long time had a friend who had the nerve

> to call work, (lucky for me I was sick) and inform my coworker than she is in

> Lutheran Hospital and how she broke her hip and was dumb enough to try to

demand

> my phone number. No coworker was smart enough not to give her my number. I

> think this is a cronie she's had call before that tried to put the guilt trip

on

> me sad part is this one is bound and determined to believe only nada's side of

I make fun of them, then bring up the things my mother, sister ,and anyone else

has done, and that usually stops it. The women they pick usually are more or

less like them-they are mean, spiteful people and not exactly having healthy

relationships with their own kids or deep thinking to boot.

Like the white trash of society, basically.

[Guest guest]

These folks are flying monkeys. Treat them as you do nada.

Bounderies, enforce them when they violate them, cut off contact if

needed.

A BP can poisen relationships by enlisting others in their circle of

manipulation. You have to just cut them loose. Call the friend and

tell her she is not to call your work place again. You don t have to

try and convince her nada is a BP. She will figure it out, or not. All

you need to do is be safe from her.

Alternately, get an attorney to send her a letter stating you do not

want her to contact you in her own person, or on behalf of nada. If she

does so again, you will file a restraining order.

Doug

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> My nada who I have been NC with for a long time had a friend who had

the nerve to call work, (lucky for me I was sick) and inform my coworker

than she is in Lutheran Hospital and how she broke her hip and was dumb

enough to try to demand my phone number. No coworker was smart enough

not to give her my number. I think this is a cronie she's had call

before that tried to put the guilt trip on me sad part is this one is

bound and determined to believe only nada's side of the tail and would

probably die of shock if she found out that nada dear has lied to them

about her family, (nope I'm not a crazy drunk and her sisters are very

much alive) and probalby about other things.

> Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

> More later

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