My Nada is going psychotic as I try to move away

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I have made a decision that is a long time in comming. I want my own place away

from my Nada. She is 80 and I want to put her in a retirement home and she has

gotten the neighbors convinced that I am going to leave her homeless and screw

her over somehow. The truth is that I suffer from bi-polar disorder and use

medical marijuana to deal with my back pain as well as depression and anxiety

and she hates that and will not compromise. She uses this information against me

both involving strangers, doctors, and the police. She is doing the most she

can to prove that I am insane and wants to leave the lease for our apartment

before it is up thus leaving me with the remainder to pay. She has threatened

to leave all along, and now that I have come to the realization that this is no

longer working she is acting paranoid and delusional that I am somehow going to

screw her over. I am tired of the constant hostility, put-downs, and constant

threats that I have always gotten from her throughout the years, and when she

acts this way it causes me to get quite a bit shakey inside. I am trying to get

others on my side and help me with her because anytime I have disagreed with her

about myself or her she calls me crazy and trys to involve others who don't

understand the situation. She starts to get very desparate and scared and does

whatever she can to get her way which is very destructive to me. It is scary and

I often feel very isolated and it effects every aspect of my life when she gets

this way.