my first post - please help

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Hi all,

i am turning to a group for some input on dealing with my dad who has BPD that

is spiking off the charts. He is delusional and is becoming psychotic in his

behavior. It would take too long to tell the whole story but in short, I have

finally, after years of being afraid to, blocked his phone from my home and cell

numbers. THis after daily harassing and threatening calls, up to 20 per day all

in succession, filling up my voicemails at home and work. Hateful messages that

had been aimed at me but now are being aimed at my family. I am too embarrsed at

this point to share the content, but suffice to say thath it is very, very bad.

I need to take the next step but not sure if I should start with the police or a

lawyer. He is so delusional and will not seek any mental health treatment, so I

don;t see this getting any better. I am defiltely at the decision stage of

dealing with BPD and blocking the calls was a huge milestone in my 20 year

struggle as a adult child of BPD, but he is still finding ways to call and I am

now afraid for my family's safety.

if anyone has gone through a similar situation I would welcome your thoughts.

M